The independent. (Lincoln, Neb.) 1902-1907, January 15, 1903, Page 3, Image 3
JANUARY 15, 1903.' THE NEBRASKA INDEPENDENT. THE DIVORCE PROBLEM fi. Gaylord Wilshlre Dlaeusaea the 'Inav itlbilitjrw of Dlvorce-An Economic Bather Tban Religions Question : The problem of divorce is a peren nial one, although a3 divorces grow more frequent the interest in divorce as an institution and in divorced peo nio neculiar neoole becomes decid edly less. However, Mr. Hearst seems t-v think otherwise, and has been run ning a symposium in his papers for a cumber of months; and, unless it be the business manager, only the Lord knows how much longer the publ it will be thus symposed upon. It's all well enough for people to bave "views" upon divorce, and it is, my own observation that most peopl do have "views;" . but the whole amount of the matter is that when the particular individual has a par ticular reason for. deciding his own particular case, then his "views" are blown to the winds, and he decides his case upon its own merits". I have known persons with the most hide bound and conservative ideas as to the sanctity of the marriage tie, and with a profound aversion for divorced peo ple and divorced women in particular; yet, when the proper emergency arose that is, proper' in their own eyes the divorce court was as readily re sorted to for "relief" as would have been the postofflce if the article de sired had been a postal card instead of' "relief." On the other hand, I have known 'persons who have much less regard for the' marriage tie than they would have for a contract to board a horse at a livery stable; yet, when circumstances arose that would have driven the first-named persons to the divorce court, to Bedlam or to the grave, they have allowed their lives to continue a hell on earth for the very fear of breaking with those conventionale 3 5 which they theoretically despise. Some people have a theory that so cialists are upholders of divorce; thai socialists and socialism are account able for all the divorces of the day. This is about on a par with saying that socialism is accountable for the trusts. We socialists regard both di vorce and the trusts as the result of the industrial evolution, and feel the same toward those who would legis late against divorce as against those who would legislate against the trusts. Of course, many evils follow from 'the lightness with which the marriage tie is put on and off; and likewise, of course, many evil consequences follow, from the concentration of industry in-: to the hands of the trusts. But if there is an irresistible cause of both divorce and the trusts, it would mani festly be futile to attempt the cure ot the evil without removing this cause. I believe in the Golden Rule and in the doctrine of the brotherhood of man, but if I attempted to conduct my business affairs entirely upon such i Will Cure You of hcumatism EI No Money is Wanted. After 2,000 experiments, I have learned how to cure Rheumatism. Not to turn bony joints into flesh again; that is impossible. Bat I can cure the disease always, at any stage, and for ever. 1 ask for -o money. Simply , write me a postal and I will send you an or der on your nearest aruggist for six bottles Dr. Shoop's Kheumatic Cure, for every druggist keeps it. Use it for a month and, if it succeeds, the. cost is only $5.50. If it falls, I will .pay the druggist myself. I have no sam: es, because any med icine that can affecl Rheumatism quickly must be drugged to the verge of danger. I use no such drugs, ana it is folly to take them. You must get the disease out. of the blood. My remedy does that, even in the most difficult obstinate cases. No matter how impossible this seems to you, I know it and take the risk. I have cured tens of thousands of cases in this way, and my records show that 39 out of 40 who get six bottles pay gladly. I have learned that people in general are honest with a physician who cures them. That is all I ask. If I fail I don't expact a penny from you. Simply write me a postal card or a letter. I will send you my book about Rheumatism, and an order for the medicine. Take it for a month, as it won harm you anyway. If it fails, -it is free, and I leave tua decision with you. Address Dr. Snoop, Box 940, Racine, Wis. - Mild cases, not chronic, are often cured by one or two bottles. At all druggists. theories there would never be another Issue of Wilsalre's Magazine. I knov that until we have the co-operative commonwealth, and that as long as we are living 'under the present system of competition, we must remember where we are and adapt ourselves to our en vironments. When I am swimming under water I don't try to breathe air, although I. am an air-breathing ani mal. I wait until I get into the air before I attempt to inflate my lungs. It is the same today in social and economic life.- I would like to con duct my life upon ideal lines, but I recognize the un ideal conditions and hence am simply reasonably ideal.. ve in America have in the last few generations become so accustomed to look upon marriage as simply the con ventional consent of society that a man and woman who are companion able may live together, that we ae apt to forget that such an idea of mar riage is a peculiarly modern one, and that it does not obtain to any great extent in Europe and hardly at all in countries other than this. In Europe the conventional view today is not vastly different from the conventional view of the middle ages A man marries a woman much as he buys a horse or a cow. She becomes his chattel, together with all her b longirgs," and she has about as littl3 to say tor herself as has his cow. The chief difference is that he can get rid of his cow with much less difficulty than of his wife, or his woman, as she would usually be termed. In America the woman has a place superior to that of women in other parts of the world, not primarily be cause the Industrial conditions have made it such. At the beginning, in colonial - days, and later in the win ning cl! the west, woman was the com panion rather than the slave of her husband. Then, when city industries began to crowd upon the farm life Which had hitherto-had a monopoly, woman again had opportunities to gain an existence, independent 'of any indi vidual association with a particular man. There was a time when in or der to get a living at all a woman sim ply had lo fnd a husband; and when she did find -him she very often had to make a jiving for him as well as for herselt. In fact, such things are not. entirely relegated to the past as yet. Today a wonicx can do about as sne pleafes. as far as marrying is con cerned. She is no longer confined to being a wife for a career. She may; enter into competition with man at al most any point in the industrial world. It is really a question whether an un married woman is not more economi cally independent than a man. Not only has woman become independent of man owing to her ability to make her way unaided by a husband, but she also acquired the right of holdin property in her own name, which is another road to her econqmic indepen dence. The result of all this is that whereas at one. time when a woman married a man it was absolutely for life, simply because sh3 would starve to death if she left him, today she may leave him and find it easier to get a living than if she remained with him. It is this facility of becoming inde pendent that causes the facility of di vorce; and if the good bishops and ethers who are vexing their souls out at so much per thousand words to help boom Mr. Hearst's papers, would only consider the divorce question from the economic standpoint rather than from a religious one, they might have a great light break in upon them. The following extract from an ed. torial in the New York World is sig nificant of the position I am taking as to . economic Independence being the basis of a great deal of the divorce of the present day: FROM POSTAL REFORM, DIVORCE. The postmaster general's order for bidding man and wife to hold clerk ships in his department has produced its first fruits. A woman clerk draw ing $1,400 a year announces that she and her husband, who draws $1,800. have decided to part. "He has always spent his "salary," she says, "and I have spent mine." Neither cares to fpend less. So. Mr. Payne's 'reform brings forth divorce. Of course, it is easy for strict con structionists to argue that a pair easily parted are better parted, though it must even be admitted that a cut ting of the family receipts almost in half is no small consideration. But the fact remains, as the World has previously intimated, that the anti marriage order is of more than doubt ful wisJcm. Marriage doss not rob a woman of the right still to be a wage-earner un der approved conditions. Many wives are justly proud of the ability to main tain their own resources and even contribute to the household fund. Gov ernment is in petty business when it interferes with any of these. It is in DO N IAMS' October, 1902. Importation of black Percherons, Belglana and Coachers waa the largest ever made 'west of the Missouri Kiver. Ilia stallions of big size, quality, finish and extremely low prices are proportion that will make you his buyer. If you can pay cash or give bankable note, you will sure buy stallions of lams. Only man in the United States that imported only black or bay stallions. He has just imported , 63 STALLION S-63 ..... i i Shipped to New York bv test boat, then by Fa ro Express, special train from New York to Bt Paul, Nebraska. lams' big barus are full of big, black, ton stallions. Be is just finishing a new barn 36x100 feet. lam's horses are the sensation of the town. Visitors throne his barn and ay: "Never saw so many big black stallions together:" "They are larger, bigger bone, more finish than ever before;" "But lams is progressive:" "He buys them larger and better each year;" "He makes prices that makes the people buy hia horses;" "lamshssa horse show evsfy day, bettar than State Fairs." Hs hs ca hand orsr ; v 100 BLACK PERCH ERONS, BELGIANS and COACHERS 100 2 to 6 years old, weight 1.CC0 to 2,500 lbs. More black Percherons, ton stallions, largest French horse show winners, more government approved und stamped stallions of anyone importer in the west. lama speaks French and Grman; pays no interpreter, tin buyer, no salesman ; no two to ten saea as partners to share profits. His buyers get middlemen's profits and salaries. lams buys direct from breeders. This with his twenty years' experience secures the best. All the above facts gave his buyers $500 to $i,C00 on a first-class stallion and you get a first-class horse, as only seeond rate stallions are peddled by sleek salesmen to be sold. Good ones sell tiiemselves. It costs $600 to 800 to have a salesman form a company and sell a second rate stallion. Form your own companies. Go direct to lams barns. He will sell you a better stallion for $1,000 and $1,200 than others are selling at 2,000 and $4,000. lams pays horse's freight and his buyer's fare. Good guarantees. Ifarna in town. Don't be a clam. 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DKP'T K, GREEN HAY, WISCONSIN. perilous business when by any of its acts it inclines to the discouragemert oJ wedlock and the encouragement of vicious substitutes for home life. There is only one form of 'ogle which upholds the postmaster cental. That is the logic of the spoilsman. The more wives out of office t nooe chance to reach such civil Service eligibles as have votes. It does seem too absurd that tho United States postmaster general should, by an order, augment the num ber of divorcer. Something very like the above also happens as a result of the United States pension office withdrawing pen sions from soldiers' widows as a pen alty for remarrying. The rule simply leads to illegal relationships. It neither, saves money nor morals.--Wilshire's Magazine. Post Check Currency The persistence with which great numbers of people send small sums of money by mail, notwithstanding the obvious risks of loss, is a sufficient indication of the need of some form of easy and safe remittance of small amounts. It is greatly to the discred it of the government that after so many years of experience with post office money orders, the system in use is still unsatisfactory. There is something like genius in the novel but exceedingly simple pro position to issue small bills with a blank in which the name and address of a payee could be written and thus instantly transform an ordinary bill for $1 or $2 into a check or a draft on the government for that amount, payable only to the payee named, but on which he could get his money at any postoffice where he could be iden tified, as readily as if it were a New ork draft for the same amount. Not withstanding the simplicity of the plan, congress has fe'led to adopt it. Any enterprising business house to v hich an improved method of so great vilue should be suggested would un hesitatingly and enthusiastically adot it. The only valid objections to the plan are that it might make some ad ditional work in the treasury depart-., ment. If that is a sufficient reason j why millions of people should be de nied the advantages and conveniences which this simple method offers, the proposition should be abandoned. If not, congress should make short work1 of the matter. If congressmen take an intelligent interest in the question long enough to understand what the measure is, we shall soon have the most important and widely appreciated improvement to our postal system that has been made in many decades. Case and Comment (Legal), Roches ter, N.Y. Oxnard' has given up his fight on the Cuban reciprocity treaty, but still he is not happy. In fact, he is more miserable than he ever was in all his life before. He now says that the reduction of 75 per cent of the Phil ippine duties will "ruin the industry' for all time to come. Mr. Oxnard was en imperialist and delighted in the supreme court decision that made tho islands an "appurtenance" of the. United States. He believed in "des tiny," "world power" and that Provi dence wa$ directing the whole matter. Now he is down on Providence and don't believe ,in "appurtenances" at all, for all these things have a ten dency to "ruin the industry." So Mr. Oxnard is very sad and has no peaco of mind nighjtrday It Is a foolish man" that throws himself in the way of temptation for the purpose of ascertaining if he Is able to resist' It.