The commoner. (Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-1923, May 30, 1913, Page 8, Image 8
H tlPpT ?? " vw j r w ""f it W1 J"'W-!ppppilf?PrWI If e L a. s The Commoner. VOLUME 13, NUMBER 2i 7 ifiw? i epartmen t? TIio Last Expcnso Wo talk of tho high coat of living, But tho high cost of dying is worse; You can rido to tho coast in a Pull man, For what a milo costs in tho hcarso. "They had a wholo -hack-full of flowers!" Then tho friends and tho mourn ers disperse. You always die ere you expect it, And tho insurance money must go To pay tho "mortician" his charges, When it ought to clotho Bobby, you know. And Susie quits school for the factory, For tho doctor is waiting, also. Object to tho mortician's charges? Unheard of! Tho height of poor taste! "LaBt meed of respect and affec tion;" Who'd count such an outlay as waste? You may havo the luck of a Jonah, And fall In whatever you try; You may havo a struggle terrific To livo with the prices so high; But for goodness sake, put off your dying Until you have something laid by! -Walter G. Doty, in Farm Journal. moral, and too often a physical, sac rifice which women are rightly un willing to make." "Restless Women" "Tho cause of tho modern woman's restlessness is that she is awaken ing," says -a writer in tho Nautilus. "She Is stretching her arms and try ing to rise and take up her work. Changing ideals and ideas have brought about entirely now condi tions; men havo stepped into her homo and taken moBt of her tasks away from her; her garments are factory-made; her spinning and weaving and knitting are done by machinery; tho tailor and dress maker and milliner and baker sup ply her needs and those of her family. Electricity and gas illumine her dwelling and cook her meals; vacuum cleaners Bpirit away the dust, and elevators toss hor back and forth to hor aerial dwelling place. Agrlculturo and nriraitivo industHnn woro first taken from her, then, moBt of tho work of tho household and the household drudgery; and tho home life has bocomo so simplified because of theso changes that sho does not know what to do with hor idle hands. Sho shops' aimlessly, joins clubs, goes into tho gainful occupations, and in every way tries to All up her idle hours. Tho euro for tho restlessness for tho majority Is to select some suitable labor to keep her interest in tho world's affairs alive, and devolop hor hitherto neglected powers." Another author says, "Women are Just as willing now for somo one to take caro or them as they over were; this willingness is not essentially feminine; it is human nature; and while it is necessity that drives her into the new fields, the necessity may bo veiled, for it is not always poverty that is to blame. The hardest and most bitter necessity frequently has no poverty and never starvation; the real origin of this so-called invasion of women into non-domestic work Is the undeniable fact that there are not men enough capable, or at least willing, to offer a proper sort of existence to the women. To marry merely for the sake of marrying would frequently entail a mental, Who Pays tho Cost? Mothers have written .to me that they are glad the papers and maga zines are beginning to make warfare on the excuse for dress worn by wo men and girls, and are demanding a reform. They ask sincerely, "Who is to pay the cost of the undress con dition in which girls and women go about in all weathers, at all hours," and they are .not thinking of their pocket-b6oks when they ask tho question. The hundreds of new diseases, increaso of tho old ones, and aggravation of those which a few years ago were deemed haTdly worth noticing, and the increasing ill- health of our girls, is making this a serious problem, for the "cost" of tho ruined health, physical and moral, will reach beyond this gene ration, "even unto the third and fourth." Some ono must pay heavily. Meantime, many blame the mothers for "allowing" their daughters to aress so; out tho girls will not heed admonition, and if they would, it Is almost impossible to get any other than the present style of clothing, or an aggravation of it, among the ready-mades; unfortunately, home dress-making is nearly ono of tho lost arts, and if one attempts to hire the work done, it Is almost impos sible to get a dressmaker to do it. 'Many women of modest tastes refuse to buy the ready-made clothing, and are turning their attention to their sewing machines; but the "paper pattern" companies are supplying very few patterns except those of the "latest style," and even if the pat terns could bo had, very few, com paratively, would know how to put them together so little is known of dressmaking by the present day seamstress. A revival of the lost art of dressmaking may help out mat ters; but it seems to me that, if the fathers and brothers would refuse to let their "women-folks" wear -such scant attire, it could be stopped. What do you think of it? "The Homo Dressmaker" Cutting, fitting and sewing seems to be among the lost arts, but among a, sensible average of women, it is being revived, as the present styles ar0 anything but satisfactory. Not long ago, a young woman attended a "special sale" of silk drosses. They were advertised as "marked down" to $8.98, "tho latest models," etc. Having time on her hands, she went to several stores and priced not only the ready-made dresses, but the various qualities of goods. The gar ments were miserably scant, and the best of them not of tho desired quality of material: so th wnm0 went to the pattorn counter, selected what she wanted, bought tho called for materials necessary, and, after adjusting the fullness to suit herself made a much handsomer and bettor dress than sho could buy, at a great ly reduced cost Health Notes A writer in Farm Journal gives the following method for treating eczema, There are many kinds of eczema, or rather, eczema from so many cauaeg, 'and what will help one case will "not 'help another. As hot fomentations arevgood In nearly all cases of itching of the cuticle, it is at least harmless. Here is the method: "Get a teakettleful of boiling water; pour part of it into a wash basin; have a sponge and wrap a cord around one end to make a handle. Dip the loose end of the sponge in tho hot water after it has become cool enough so it will not scald, and bathe tho affected patches with the water as hot as it can be borne; keep on bathing one place until it is hot to a considerable depth; rub on a little good vegetable oil soap, and bathe the other patches the same way, keeping up the heat of the water by pouring from the kettle. When all the patches have been gone over thus, go over them again with the hot water and rinse off the soap." It is claimed this will stop the itch ing for a time, if not finally. In applying the sponge, there should be no rubbing, and to rinse off the soap, the water should be squeezed over the affected parts. For some cases of eczema, water should not be used. Gleanings A great deal is said against the family cat because of its propensity for killing young birds. Many fami lies will refuse to have a cat on the place, yet will encourage the squir rel in every possible way. The Farm Journal tells us that, with the pos sible exception of the timid little flying squirrel, there is not a variety of squirrel in America today which does not make a business of bird killing and nest-robbing. Even the tiny chipmunk, or ground squirrel, stalks birds consistently and not un successfully. In many localities, the country people have decided that school houses are public property, and be long to the people, and they are ex pecting to use them for the public good, by inaugurating social meet ings at the buildings, and arranging so as to accommodate all who wish to meet together. In many localities, the school buildings are vacant and unused for months at a time. Much good would come of opening them for church and social gatherings. From certain districts complaints come of rowdyisms enacted by the young men; but the elders should nana together and force these wild boys to behave themselves. They are not really desperadoes, but they are full of animal spirits, and seem to have no other idea than to bring themselves into notice. An excellent use to make of old wire that was cut from the baled nay, or Daroea wire that is no longer useful on the fence, is said to be found by mixing it with the concrete for floors, walks and walls, as it helps to hold the concrete together while drying, and prevents cracking If no objection to its use is found It will be a good method of getting rid of a very troublesome accumula tion. Another good ubo to make of it is to throw it into the gullies, or washes, and let It become buried The wire rots underground. 1 "In the Air" The sensible portion of both men and women are beginning to protest strongly against the freak fashions which are filling the streets with samples of "indecent exposure of .Rerson," and are advocating a return to, the ample skirts of ankle wUt worn, a few .years ago. Several wo! Uen .whose position In society wiU -carry, .weight with the revival iw .promised to return to the mo mod est styles, and it is predicTethat a" revival will thus be brought about in a short while. Many young Hra of the "latest styles," but in many cases, it is impossible to make their own clothes, and there seems noth ing else to be had in the ready-mada lines. So they are forced to "do as other people do." Many others still cling to the wardrobes on hand, and possess their souls in patience hop ing for the return of sane methods of dressing. Another hint of returning sanity is in the gaining of favor of the low shoe-heels. There is plenty of room for .other reforms, and we hope our women and girls will hasten the day of their coming. "Summer Boarders" Many worn out mothers, fathers, sons and daughters would be glad to avail themselves of a few weeks in the country, but complain that the price of board and rooms aro hpvnnn their means. Country people should charge a fair profit for their enter tainment, but should not expect to make a fortune from a few guests. The story magazines are full of stories telling how the farm wives clear so much money from their sum mer boarders, and the most extrava gant tales are told; but when one reads these stories, they should realize that they are bits of fiction, and a great many of the writers never saw a farm, or visited in the country. Every one should get a summer rest, if possible, and thero are many charming homes where the vacation can be spent cheaply and happily. Taking Care of tho Bedding During the hot months, bedding should be sunned as often as pos sible every day is none too often. Tho covering shduld be light in weight, and washable, and the mat tress should not ' be bo heavy as to make carrying It out of the house too great a burden. A cheap mat tress one made of excelsior with a cotton top is an extravagance, for it soon gets lumpy and is exceeding ly uncomfortable. It is better to pay a little more and get a felt mattress, and this should not be too heavy. There are mattresses made in two sections, and these can b'e handled with less labor. If the felt mattress is too hard (and some' of them do get very hard after a few years' use) It is well to have a cotton mattress, made like a heavy bed comfort, to lay on top of It. During hot weather the perspiration of the body is apt to make tho bedding smell badly un less it is often aired and sunned. For children, . nothing is more comfort able and economical than the old time "tick" filled with oat straw, which can be kept well stirred, and aired, and when it gets ground up, the filling can be renewed at small expense. But this can not always bo had by the city woman. The wheat straw can be bought at the feed stores, and will answer very well, with a cotton padding made separate, to lay on top. Everything that is slept in, or under, should be aired as often as possible, and the windows should be left open as much as possible. "And the Boys, Too." Just now we are hearing a great deal about the girls; but it is sug gested by a handful of letters from mothers, that we call attention to the fact that the boy, too, are reaping the harvest of "conditions" and should be looked after a little closer. So long as boys are allowed to school themselves in vice to such a degree as is now the case, it will be difficult to keep the girls from sometimes go ing wrong. The curse of city life fofl the children is that they have noU ing to do, and wo know .who trad ..W-jl