The commoner. (Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-1923, October 14, 1910, Page 8, Image 8
1 " ' fWy IWW Th6 Commoner, n 1 1 1 1 ii "" VOLUME 10, DUMBER '40 I ''' A f Tho Oliiincs of Amsterdam Par up above the noisy city, in the old, gray belfry tower, Tho cliiraes rang out their music each day at tho twilight hour. Abovo tho din and tho tumult, and tho rush of tho busy street, You can hear their solemn voices in an anthem clear and sweet. When tho busy day is dying, and the sunset gates, flung wide, Jtfark a path of crimson glory upon tho restless tide, Jlq tho white-winged fchips drop anchor and furl their snowy sails, ,'Whilo tho purple twilight gathers, and tho glowing crimson pales. but with different wording. The other poem begins "In a church in Amsterdam, within a steeple proud and tall, Aro the silver-throated chiming bells beloved by one and all." Ho would like to know tho au thor's name. Another poem is called for, "House by tho Side of the Road," by S. W. Fobs. Will some ono please send them?) JPhnn frnm tlto rklfl HTHV "hflfrV. the fe, chimes peel out again, !And a hush succeeds tho tumult as they ring their sweet refrain; tJo sound of discordant clangor mars tho perfect melody, But each, attuned by a master's hand, has a place In tho harmony. ( I climbed tho winding stairway that led to tho belfry tower, As tho sinking sun in tho westward heralded tho twilight hour; For I thought that surely tho music would bo clearer, swoeter far, Than when, through the din of the city, it seemed to float from afar. ("But, lo! as I neared the belfry, no f v Only a brazen clangor disturbed" the The ringer stood at tho key-board far down beneath the chimes, f And patiently struck the noisy keys, as lie uuu uuuuunteu umeu. Ho had never heard the music, though every day it swept Out over the sea and city, and in lingering echoes crept. ,Ho knew not how many sorrows were cheered by the evening strain And how men paused to listen as " they heard the sweet refrain. 'Ho only knew his duty, and did it with patient care; But he could not hear the music that flooded tho quiet air. Only .the jar and clanior fell harshly on "his ear, ('And he lost the mellow chiming that every one else could .hear. For tho Homo Life Married people are constantly be ing advised to "Never do things that you know are against the wishes of the other one, much as you may de sire to do so; above all things, have no secrets from each other." Would it not be a much better way, if both tho husband and the wife could rea lize that, while they may be "one" in many directions, in many others, the oneness can never bo main tained. "Jack" will always be a man (or should be), while "Jill" will always bo a woman, and they see life from very different viewpoints, no matter how good and desirous of making the other happy each may be. Men, apparently, do not need to learn this lesson; and the finer the man, the more things there are in which to become interested. Women would have a much happier life, if they would but recognize this what stony paths the way may lead. Tho man sees more or less of other people, while the wife and mother is shut away from nearly all social life because of her loving caro for her family. When the mountain did. not come to Mohamet, Mohamet went to the mountain, and if the world, in its best guise, refuses to come to the young, they go to the world. As much of the social life as possible Bhould be brought into the home; but the social life must be had, and is to be had by every member of the family and community, if onjy they will -set about it right. Many infor mal gatherings at which both the young, and the elderly may mingle, should be instituted throughout the neighborhood. The school houses should be utilized as meeting places, and so also should the little country church building. Youths should be taught that these public buildings are paid for out of the money they help to earn, and should he taken care or". They should he enlisted in the preservation and improvement of the school grounds, and thus de velop a sense of ownership. For the coming cold months thought should bo taken for the extra fuel for warm ing up the house of an evening, and for its lighting. "Let there be light," and let it bo abundant at these gatherings Teach the youths to love the light. Let the rooms be ragged, or ill-clad child or woman is never happy, or socially-inclined one, and the old garment can not always be patched or made over economi cally. Time is worth, something to the housewife. Many men take far better care of their stock than of their wife and dependent children. A man who neglects his stock, or his business is called by some unpleas ant names; but the neglect of family is too often covered up by the extra exertions of the overworked mother, and "Nobody never says nothin'." 4-v4-1 'iji- 4 tr f 4-T . -t n4 a 4-t liulu. j.'ui iv. in ju mtj uaiuio wiu... a 'Ui ,,; n- i ffSfLlL???.??! .CAn I good plan to have some kind of re freshments, if only a big basket of apples, each family bringing a sup ply of "good things." Try It this winter ' So, we, from our quiet watch-towers, may be sending a sweet refrain nd gladdening the lives ahout us, though we hear not a single strain, Our work may seem but discord, though wo do tho best wo can; But others will hear the music, if we carry out God's plan, Far above the world of sorrow and over the eternal sea, 'It will blend Tvith angeliq anthems, fc in sweetest harmony; It will ring in lingering ecnoes through the corridors of the sky, And the strains of earth's minor mu sic will blend with the strains on high. H-MInnie E. Kenny, in Congregationalism be happy ones, and to every one must come some disappointments and dis illusionments. Men and women should learn to compromise, and each make the most of what is most Interesting to him or her, keeping in mind always the harmony of tho home. Many things are hurtful which should, with a proper under standing, be harmless, and in many cases, giving up what is extremely desirable to the ono because the other does not like it, no matter how innocent the character of the pleas ure, has resulted in a matrimonial rupture which no indulgence could have brought about. Tho world is full of interesting things, and it is sheer selfishness for either the hus band or the wife to make rules of life for each other simply because they have taken up life's' duties to gether. Men can never understand why a woman cries, or why she frets, or why sho "nags," but ."there's a reason," and just the same, women can never understand why men like to smoke, or swear,- or fight the po litical game. We must each xf us try to make the most of every good thing, and see as little of the bad as possible, and remember that in marriage, as in other matters, "we experience only ourselves." (Ono of our readers has asked for , tho publication and authorship of tho above poem. I give it as I find it in an old scrap-book. Also a sim ilar poem, bearing the same title, Giving tho Young People a Chance As the cool weather comes ont the question of homo amusements and attractions rises before us. "Home's not merely four square walls," and a few pieces of furniture, and the boys and girls are not mere animals, content to eat and drink and sleep. Good foods, good beds and whole, clean, serviceable clothes are not all that is needed to make the home at tractive to either tho old or the young. Man, as well as his wife and children, is a social animal, and there is no punishment so terrible to tho criminal as solitary confinement. Yet many1 homes aro just that, so far as it 1b possible to make them so, and the children are rushing away to the social life, no matter oyer Good Tilings to Know When the man of the house goes to town, and replenishes his stock of tobacco,, he should invest a like amount in hardy bulbs or some other home-beautifler for the "gude" wife. He should keep a Btrict account with himself in the matter of individual expenses, and "tote fair" with the, rest of the family. No man has any right to claim that he "supports" his wife, when she does the work of the home and often a large share' of the chores outside. No woman, hag, any right to feel that she is being "sup ported She should honestly try to earn every penny she gets, but be sure she gets in some form every penny she earns. A sense of unjust dependence is degrading. A man .should see that his wife is clothed comfortably for the cold sea son. Many men, as well as many economically Inclined women, think tho women's clothes problem should wait until the "bargain sales" when the winter is half over, before pur chasing. If the woman and children have enough clothes to keep them comiortaDie until such sales occur, well and good, if they wish to do so; but don't force the wife and children to stand the chill of early winter, at the risk of contracting colds and cold weather ailments, in order to save a few pennies on each article.. Besides, no sensitive woman or child likes to go out shabbily clad where others are comfortable in the new cut of garment. It would be to the social advantage of many men, if they were a little more thoughtful of their own apparel. It Is well to wear the old clothes, even to patches and made overs, if one has to, of if the alternative is going in debt for the new. But one should be very sure that the neces sity for such heroism is there. A To Prevent Stooping Many growing girls, especially those tall for their age, are inclined to stoop, and many well-meaning per sons advocate the use of braces or shoulder-straps as a means of cor recting the tendency. The brace may force an upright carriage, but they give the wearer no strength of mus cle to maintain the position. A much better way is to teach the girls how to strengthen these muscles of tho chest, back and shoulders which pro duce an erect figure. Old fashioned mothers had their daughters drill with a plate or book, or other article on the head, and this is a good prac tice. But a much better way is to expand the chest with a long, deep breath and try to maintain the posi tion after the breath is expired. The lifting of the chest by the chest mus cles every time the thought of the position occurs, will do a great deal of good,. and, in time, correct the de fect. High pillows, and a soft bed spring is one cause of this stooping figure, but a child should not be al lowed to sit incorrectly, or "lop" when at rest. A Btooping figure makes one ungainly and awkward, and apart from the damage done to the health by a constantly contract ed and sunken chest, the slouching figure is a very unsightly' one. Moth ers and teachers should insist, on, tho lifted chest and the upright position, making the child go through the ex ercise's as often as possible. "Taking Cold in tho Back" .One is very likely to take cold in the back, and this leads to serious results at times. As the chill of early fall is already in the air, it is well to take precautions. The back, especially between the shoulders, should always be well covered, and one should not lean back against anvthinc that is cold. Tho back should not be in a direct draft, and when warming the back at the fire, it should not be kept exposed to tho heat after it becomes comfortably warm. For tho Toilet This is said to be one of the best toilet vinegars, helping to keep the skin firm. ' Only the best ingredients should be used: Four ounces of ex tract of cassia, one ounce extract of tuberose, three ounces tincture of orris root, three, ounces triple extract of rose, all added to a pint of the best white wine vinegar, to be naa only of reliable grocers. Shake well and let stand several days before using. Always apply with an ato mizer. An astringent that may, be used after the bath has one ounce of elder flower water, three ounces of rose water, a quarter ounce tincture of benzoin and five grains of tannic acid. Apply with a soft sponge. If a dry ness results, leave off. A good soap jelly to use at night in place of soap, where the soap Is too drying, is made as follows: Melt an ounce and a quarter of pure white castile soap, powdered or shaved quite thin, with an ounce and a half of strainod'-fioney, heating over hot water, and then add three quarters of an ounce of white wax, melted; then add a quarter of an ounce of r.utaML ,..jiT em IBL AWtiittiirtflfrMAW ..i. p &J4$fon i4ya4jtjtav. r iiUL&ii,.,,: