35QEI .0 "Fys l SIM 10 The Commoner. VOLUME 7, NUMBER 40 it S 'i - W . H MU ' i BO MHfv ' Tho Tapestry Weavers vLot us lourn a useful lesson, . No braver lesson can be, From the ways of the tapestry weavors On the other side of the sea, Above their heads the pattern hangs, They study it with" care; And as to and fro the shuttle leaps Thoir eyes are fastened- there. They tell this curious thing .beside L Of the patient, plodding weaver; Ho works on the wrong side over more, But .works for the right side ever; It is only when the weaving stops, 4ud the web is loosed and turned, .That lie sees his real handiwork, That his marvelous skill is learned. Ah, the sight of its delicate beauty; It pays him for all the cost; -No rarer, daintier work than his Wtfs ever done by the -frost. Then the master bringeth him golden hire - And givoth him praise as well; " .And how happy tho heart of' the weaver Is No tongue but his own can tell. , The years of man are the looms of God, Let down from the place of the sun, Wherein we all are weaving, Till the mystic web is done; Weaving blindly, but weaving surely, Bach for himself his fate, Wo may not see how the right side looks, We can only weave and wait. ' But looking above for the pattern, Nq weaver hath need 'to fear, Only let him look clear into heavenr Tho Perfect Pattern is there. If he keep the face of the Savior Forever and always in sight, His toil shall be sweeter than honey, And his weaving sure to be right. And 'when his task 1r Andnd. thd the web is turned and shown, V,-ja:iiai! utiiir uie voice OI 1110 Master f : - It shall say to him, "Well done!" ahu the white-winged angels from heaven To bear him thence shall come down, An God shall give him. for hire, Not a golden coin, but a crown. Selected. we hctld so dear? In this devotion to "our own," we may too often forget that the sacrifice of self may not be the wisest offering, and we should now and then be cautloped against. an extravagance that will only lead to disaster. Every woman needs to be taught the value of her self; to know that tho service of head and heart should far outweigh tho mere labor of the "hands. She needs, also, to be taught that the happiness and comfort of tho home hinges far more on her careful pro visions for hor own health than upon tho slavish drudging for fear some "duty" she is said to owe to her family may be neglected. Let us learn to care for ourselves to allow ourselves to be waited on. A little selfishness now and then might do a world of good. We recognize "duties" enough, heaven knows; but the pleasure a healthy woman takes in caring for her family should never( be advertised as one of them. The caring for one's self, so apt to be neglected, may be justly classed as a duty, and its obligations should be pointed out, but the duty is to our self. rA Duty .Wo Owe to Self , In many articles written for or by women, we are admonished that -wo "owe it as a duty to our hus bands and children to take care of ourselves." That may all be true; but ao we not owe it in far greater measure to ourselves? Husbands and friends and ' children may all be taken from us, yet, ourself, like the poor, we have always with us. Then, toQ, I do not think the word "duty" is the right one to use. To .me the-word duty is suggestive of bard, stern necessity a something to be done because it must be done not because we lovo the doing, or joy in the sorvlce. Duty is always pictured as gray-garbed and ungra cious a something that pushes 'or pulls one unfeelingly toward some distasteful task. Looking ater the comfort of our loved ones may demand of us much of self-denial, of self-sacrifice, and self-effacement; but do wo not go joyously about tho service, thinking only of tho happiness and comfort our acts shall bring into the liys Aiding the Circulation One of the easiest, and least in convenient "baths" to be" taken is the "friction" bath. This consists of simply rubbing every part of the body briskly, with either the bare hand, a dry towel, or with soft brushes, and js an excellent way to start the circulation of the blood. It 'can be taken in the morning on get ting out of bed, at night on retiring or at other times found most con venient. The friction bath is excel lent for Jhe toning up of the ner vous system, and of especial value to be taken just before or after a cool sponge bath, bringing a warm glow all over the surface. A rough turkish towel is excellent to use in tho rubbing process. Many sufferers from cold, clammv feet will find relief through washing the feet every night, first through hot water, then douching them with cold water, after which drv with Knff. towels, then rub vigorously either with the bare hand, or a roucrh towel, or with both, rubbing each toe separately, spreading them, and massaging on all sides.. Cold feet are generally the result of poor cir culation of the blood, and this bath ing and rubbing thoroughly will bring the blood to the surface and through them. Try exercise for "warmth, rather than "hugging the stove," when you feel chilly. Start the warmth from within, arid do not depend upon thick clothing or artificial heat. A unsic walk In the outer. air will do more good than gallons . of bitter tonic. Plenty of pure water and fresh air with a determination to get ono's full share of both,, will work wonders in one's . health, if perse vered in. With most of people, the "pass-book" takes the place of the bank book, and their "surplus" is entered in the names of the trades people instead of their own. In case of misfortune, sickness, or out-of-ordinary expenses, such people hardly know which way to turn to meet their necessities, and the result, too often, is that every thing they have must bo sacrificed, or they must not only leave the neighborhood, but their reputation for honest dealing as well, in order to start anew Where they are not known. Many do this. If the bread winner should happen to lose his position, the family Is plunged deep er in debt, or is forced to do with out necessities, while the trades people are not so anxious to "charge" things as when the money is coming in regularly, even though the bills are not all paid promptly. It is a wise plan to save some thing, even a dollar, each month over and above expenses. When one has established the habit of saving that amount, depositing it in some safe place where the temptation to spend could not reach it, the desire to make the saving a little larger will set our wits to work, and we will soon find that there are at least a lew leaks that can be stopped. A dollar saved is not much; but it' means self-respect and a sense of independence, and if the dollar is on our bide of the account, we may be sure the trades Npeople will respect us, too, to1 that-extent. An honest person will admire you all the more that you keep within your income, even though the effects of your self denial does "show through',' in places. "Running nn Account" One of the greatest misfortunes that can befall the average person is to have a "credit account" with tho trades-people. If we were forced to pay cash for . everything we bought, we would do without a great many things and be much better off. It is very hard to live within a fixed limit of expenses if one can have things "charged," for in that case, tho temptation to live more luxur iously than we ought is very great. Logical Punishment . . A rude child must not join the company In the "parlor until he is willing tp behave the parlor is sa cred, to courtesy, wnicn means only minute consideration for others. An ill-tempered child must vent his spleen on emptiness, since friendly ears would ache when listening to the r insanities of anger. A tardy child should find his pleasures de layed; if he dawdles in dressing he must lose some part of his breakfast. If he lingers unduly over getting to bed at night, his bedtime should come earlier the next night to make up for lost sleep. The child who will not help others should not be helped. ' If he quarrels, he should be left companionless; If he lies, his word should not count other per sons' speech may be golden, but his is counterfeit; his simple statement must be proved, it can not stand un supported. If he steals, he must restore what he took, with open ac knowledgement of his deed; if he persists, he must steal his own free dom and be shut up. If he fights he must be cut off from association with those whom, he thus maltreats. In all these instances, a misbehav ing child merely gets a home fore taste of what tho world decrees for a misbehaving man. In most cases', the child himself will recognize the justice of such a return of the deed upon tho doer. The busy mother, with other children, a husband, a house to manage, and a few faults and frailties of her own, can not al ways make sure of dealing prompt and perfect retribution; but she must try to teach tho child to regulate his conduct because he really wants to be good; to teach him to fear the sin, and not the consequences of It to himself: She" should seek to make the punishment Bhe feels she m ,,? administer so convincing and Z lightening as to set the child in work mastering his own shorteorn ings. Above all things, one must have patience and forbearance ami the charity that "covereth a multi tude of sins," when dealing with o,0 child, striving to keep the idea 0f the sin separate1 from the sufforins the consequences" must surely brint? not only to the child himself but to others. Success. Floral Notes Try planting sweet peas in No vember for early . blodming" next spring. Plant in shallow trenches six inches deep, covering the peas a couple of inches. In the spring follow tho growth' by drawing the soil to the plant as it grows until the trench is filled. The roots of the plant will thus be deep enough to withstand the drouth later in the season, and the principal growth will be made in the cool months. A frame placed -over the pansy bed when frosts come and covered with a glass sash, if properly man aged, will affort sufficient protec tion to keep the plants blooming. Place the sash on 'only on cold nights and days, as there is more danger from too much heat than from severe Cold. On very cold nights cover the sash with old car pet or matting, removing in the day time. Many hybrid perpetual roses sold in the open market are grafted on a stock that grows, vigorously but does not bloom. If .the graft dies, shoots come up from the root-stock, and there is plenty of foliage, but no bloom. Whey buying your dor mant rose .plants this fall, send your order to a reliable florist, and in sist On the rose plant being grown on its own roots. Many of the monthly blooming roses are hardy if given a little care in severe weath er, and these roses bloom from early spring until late autumn the bushes being full of buds up to the late, severe frosts. Get the .two or three-year-old size for planting this fall or early next spring. Simple Accessories The girl or woman who is skilled in the use of the needle, or can handle a sewing machine well can save much" by making her own dress accessories. Ruffled strips for the fronts of shirtwaists are very popu lar and easily made, but cost some .thing when bought by the yard. If made detachable they can be easily laundered, and worn with different waists, and give a dressy effect to a plain garment. These ruffles are made of plain lawn, linen, dotted muslin, or any such suitable ma terial, and the edges of these are often trimmed with narrow lace; or two strips of embroidery or lace-may be used for the ruffles; or the edges of the ruffles may be bound with pretty colors before plaiting. Hand embroidery may also be used on the straight band down the , front, on the ends, or on tho hem. The lower end may be left straight, or tucked under the belt, or finished and come above the belt an inch. or two. Cuffs made in the same way to match the strip may be worn'. To make the ruffle, take a strip of suitable material four inches wide and "forty-eight inches long, if to bo plaited, but if gathered thirty-two inches is long-enough. Hem both edges very narrowly, and if to be trimmed, sew on the lace, or bind the edges, then with the machine or hand, lmife-plait very finely. " Press AN OLD AND WEI TRIED BEMEDY Mns. WiNgr.ow'a Sootiiino Svkup for children tcethlntr should always bo iuyl for 'children while toothing. It sottons tho sums, allays all pain, curw wind colic 0114 Is tho host remedy for diarrhoea. Twenty-five cents a bottle- - b , i 9HBI a a l.-V,