The commoner. (Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-1923, May 31, 1907, Page 10, Image 10
7wtwFNiMrr'Hwr w to s 10 The Commoner. R , VOLUME 7, NUMBER 20 A '? VJiJUl X Tho Marks of the Cross No longer does tho world send forth its call For men to strive and suffer all alone, To stand for faith and fall as mar tyrs fall, Beneath tho hittor blows of stone i on stone; No longer but tho neighbor at your side, Who greets you every day with . smile all fair, Would cause you to look at him open oyod, Did you but know what marks his shoulders bear! And they who spend their strength in mills and mart, Who swing the sledge, or bend above the books, Or in the world's great taBk do their one part In unfrequented, hidden, dusty nooks; "" Who in high places rule, and they who servo, And often see their gold has turned to dross, Who pay tho toll of strength and soul and nerve t Upon their shoulders' is tho chaf ing cross. And we need but look back addwn the years '; To those old days now shadowed In our dreams, Until wo find the, one who changed our tears ' '. ' To smiles that glowed In laugh ter's brightest gleams, And see the mother patient, hope ful, fond Who gave us of herself by day and night, And looked to the to-morrows far beyond "' Yet she would say her cross was. ever light. And each and all, today'tomorrow - yes, Through all the endless avenue of time, ' We bear our cross in pleasure or distress, Though on the way. we falter as wo climb. tio longer have we martyrs?, Way, but then It bootg not if we garner "gain or loss; V' There is no one of all the sons of men Whose shoulders show1 no mark ings of the cross.: -: Walter B. Nesbittf, in Republic. ."Balanced Rations", Every farm paper is full of teach ings on these subjects, and the speakers at institutes and other gatherings for the farm people talk learnedly of food proportions. These foods are for the animals of the farm; but, valuable as these ani mals are, there are other, far more valuable bodies getting their living out of the farm, for the welfare of which little thought is seemingly taken. A tired tarm wife writes to me": "If the men can have lectur ers com and talk to them about balanced rations for the animals of the stockyard, I do not see why they should not have some one who knows come and tell ua what to feed AN OLD AND WELL TRIED REMEDY Mks. Wiwslow's SooTiiftfti STitupforohil' drcn teething should always be used for chil dren while teething. Itsottons the cums. allays all pain. cures wind colic and is tho best remedy for diarrhoea'. Twonty-Uve cents abottla. '"i .1 the children, and why such foods should be given. Very few home mothers know anything about prac tical chemistry, and we have so lit tle time to give to reading, that we can not learn. Talk as one may, the work on the farm is hard hafd; and few women have the nerve force left, after their necessary work is done, to try to understand long, technical articles on tho chemistry of foods. Most of farmers, however.. do not regard their children's wel- rare as being quite as Important as that of their stock." And right here comes In the im portance of the so-often decried "club." In every neighborhood there should bo "mothers' meetings"' or gatherings, at which questions may be asked by the uninformed, and answered by the more experi enced. For this purpose, an organ ization is better than a mere chance gathering for if the meetlnern nrr anticipated and prepared for, the at tendance will bo better, and more regular. Better interest will bo manifested, and many a "troubled Martha" will take time to take her perplexities to a meeting where she knows she may find a solution for her problems. Now that -the long days re with us, why not make up our minds to form a club, and then do it. You remember, the Bible tellB us of the efficacy of the "two or three gathered together," and you can not fail to receive bene fit from this mingling with other minds.: However good and kind your husbands may be; they ' are not so much interested in the welfare of the children as the mother should bo. Make room for the afternoon meeting at least once a week. JLet the luncheon be a "neighborhood" affair, each one bringing a contribu tion to the refreshments, so "as not to make the affair burdensome to the hostess. Do try it, sisters.. Tho Summer Outing .It Is not too early to begin plan-" ning for the. summer outing. We may have but a day, or a few of thejh, at most, arid there may be po money to spend on dress or trav el; but this should not 'discourage us. Wo all need tho vacation, and we are all loncrinir to cet mv the green, fields, the forest, the stream, or the water-side. Not even the farm family, so "surrounded by the beauties of. nature as at times to. tire of them, wants to.. go to the city for a change. Further away from the haunts of human beings, into the wilds and solitudes, is the one cry, "back to nature," and to the fresh, syeet air ,and lear, health--giving sunshine. if, one will but plan wisely, doing little by lit tle the things that must bo done, keeping always in view the things that will serve best for the holiday flitting, the "getting ready to go," should not be burdensome. We should leave behind us all the un necessary, hindering things, and look forward to the simple life that befits our anticipations of restful change; the dominant idea should be comfort, and the casting aside of care. If matters are looked at in the right light, there can be real comfort and rest for a very little money. . If you can "not spend inoney and time to go far away, take "day" vacations as often as possible; or even an afternoon, .spent in luxur ious idleness in the woods or the meadows, or in some not frequently Yisited place, will. rejuvenate the par- ticipants, men, women or" children. A few neighbors could go together some day, If only to a camping ground a few miles away, or to some shady, grassy pasture, or on the banks of a stream, with no "fussing about food." carbed in comfortable. every day garments that will stand the disasters of the trip, giving the day over to idle happiness. If the whole family could not be spared, let the mothers have the day, free from th5 care of the kitchen, taking plain, wholesome foods and some thing in which to "make coffee" over the camp fire, and let the little folks do the table setting and chores. You don't know how the little Jthings enjoy -the responsibility of waitingjDn the "big folks." . Tho "Help" Problem When., our housekeepers learn to get all the help they can, and keep all the help they get, the housekeep ing problem will be much easier of solution than it now is. It is won derful, how many little contriv ances: as well as large ones are now on the market in the interests of the housewife. In, a great many re gions, gas is to be had quite reason ably for.f.uel, and the old coal or wood range can be set aside during the hotweather, while in others, the "wicklesa blue-flame oil cookers,'' with one, two or three burners, or even more,, may-be had at a cost bf from" $4 tn $&. n-n'A 1rarnoana 'n )V i ii V j . Z ' f . twwnu WjiA iwui quj is saia to oe a better, as well as a .cheaper fuel, than any other, and the stove is as safe as the oil lamp, and as easily kept clean. With either a gas or an oil stove and a good steam-cooker, the terrors of putting up fruit are great ly lessened. The steam cooker is as valuable for cooking foods as the cooking chest, and every housewife should have one. Some women buy these things, and before they have learned to use them, or know their vaiue, mey set them aside, and go back to, the old methods, roasting themselves, as well as the dinner. In time, we shall have denatured al cohol for fuel in the home, and this is said to be a far safer fuel and illu rainant than the inflammable gaso line we have so long used. if is a pleasure to go through a large de partment, or other store having de partments set aside for household furnishings, to see how very many little conveniences, at very small' cost, are now ready for the fortunate housekeeper who has the good sense to furnish her kitchen and laundry before she spends any money in use less bric-a-brac or dust-catching draperies for the rooms seldom used. One of the "must-haves." of every family should be a good washing machine and wringer; but there are other conveniences that will lessen the work of the laundry, and, alto gether, the whole outfit will not cost as much as a break-down from over work, or the hiring of a usually in competent laundress because the housewife is not able to do the laun dry work. My dear readers, if you can get out of the heavy. work, do so; but if you can not, do get the helpful machinery! h " '. ' . - i- , , "Dust Uiitb Dust"' :- ' ' A letter, comes Q, me frani'.one'of our readers in, , the .sparsely settled region of the far northwest, bearing the, intelligence that another human soul had passed out into the Un known, .and the writer, adds that the wishes of the deceased were carried out in the cremation of the poor perishing shell of mortality left be hind. The remains -were carried to a large city on the coast, and the ashes returned, dust unto dust, to the earth that gave it - . "Dust unto dust," this friend had often said tn m 4ri ii" iww& youth-time when we 'had walked tho aamu yvn.ua auu snaroa eaca other's sorrows and joy's. The slow process of decay under ihe cofflri-lid had been so dreaded, and cremation Would but hasten the process of re turning" the body to ite elements, and had sedmed so desirable that this had been a last request. One need not read of the exhuming of the mummified bodies or scattered bones that have lain so Iprig in the ceme teries and burial places of the old w,orld to realize that there is no rest for the dead that can be assured by burial in the earth, or packing away in costly tombs. Even now, we read almost daily of tho uncov ering of bones through excavations, or of the removal of bodies from crowded cemeteries to make room for the invasion of commerce. We robe our dead in spotless white, cover their coffins with flowers, and lower the precious bodies into the earth, anof when all is hidden, we seek to lessen our sorrow by tenderly caring for the mound that hides them. But we are here such a lit tle while! t A day, a month, a year, ahd we, toQ, may .be put away, and there may be no other hands to deck the mounds, of either the loving or the loved. ,. So many graves lfer neg lected, sunken, the sleepers 'for gotten; ' ' jV '" u..- The Jdea of; , cremation is not ,-n'o w so distressing as'it once was, and' the practice ,'is. growing; in many largo cities there ar.e established cremato ries where every, digressing feature is hidden from, the mourner, and when the white dust Is' given back to us in its lovely urn, we may, if we wish, keep, it, or dispose of It as seemeth best to us. We know that our dead can never be disturbed and, instead of the long, slow decay, the 4oyefl body has passed af once into thQkdust that may be returned to its natiye dust, never more to know the desecration of unfriendly, or careless hands. '"Beginning Anew" It is useless to grieve over any error pf the past. Forgive yourself,' and strive-to set up a new life in which this bitter experience may serve to set you On your way to a better and higher road. Cease your sorrowful self-accusations, and put all your energies into a climb for the purer atmosphere. We sin through ignorance, or it may be, weakness; it is the sin that must die-not the sinner. When we know Xr Yeone wrong an are sorry for it, the battle is half w0n; we must finish it by forsaking thq broIS back we must press forwards day by day, doing always the host we an?idnemSe iS,Jain' and actIa s antidote. The idea that the Rmii muft Bue. -for eint of thl hoy S,!?"03;"18- The soul does Sff If Then, ifc rea"zes the result of the broken law. It must heal itself. I'd oTen6 ITs tm"St ?ay e peS? im? ?a hi J? hQQny way of learn S? e hard Iessns set for us Wheji we realize that we have erred the one thing to do is to do bitter an? bC2SinSt? ourselve, ?f i t0, ?how ou earnest e-p-ntance by doing something to .help others' over the rphgh rilaces it? a life-tq wash out the stains; to El hijeakand pon ouThe bruises. Stop wailing, and go to J I0!' Siug,' if but a note oVtwo, nanTw ,alry.s UPW4 along the path that leads to the perfect plane (ot by vL t 'H"4 I U. .., ISSS-8'4'" 5SSBJaMlj, rr teaiiW--.ittLiBw.K.: