10 The Commoner. VOLUME 6, NUMBER 25 mdW''?', vvaviaim r r 'v a-rrm. ftVijteHrK h . ! n ii an ffrhrr-r i TS.I - Hf V HKX X XIT.Ifl MM M WI t lTflg-- B " JV KSTMJfrHriMU tW ""BTBP-Br''W I JMKm jm'-jjl.'' '"' """ inmy VrrYtiSrt?itTaTs::iga' - ' - "" ( tai&L .rjmnw Abbv 1-03 BB'vlO-CSaf iSZ u Jarpm4r ac2cacc Cdmftiafedliv: tMeuWst&mlp frr. . urtment Misunderstood Tho meed of praise too long withhold May oft-times come in vain Both powerless to undo the past, Or quench tho awful pain That liko a hidden firo burns on' Till all ambition's strength is gone. , The tears that come so tardily , May fall upon a grave; Tho .tenderness may come too late ' 'To strengthen, chocr or save, If ho who walked and worked alone Lies, dreamless, undor somo white stone. What though you say, "How well he did! How marvellous his pen T'liat drew the veil from human hearts To please the eyes of men!" Ah, yes; .so playful each pen-stroke You knew not when the great .heart broke ! Oh,if "such praise had only come Before the piteous words were said That loosed lite fingers from the pen, And bade him- join the dead Ah, honors can not stir or thrill Tho pulse, nor praises pierce death's chill! The far, white heights to which he climbed L But made the- stars tho further seem ; The -moon lbolced down through tos sing clouds Life seemed a loveless dream. On those cold height's he missed the thrill Of joys which all your pulses fill. You can not call it true success Because men say that he was creat: Ho missed tho blessings all men have Tho commonnlacen of vonr fnt ''He would have bartered fame and pen And left his mountain-tops to win. You heard his bitter cry to men, And said "He sings another song!" j.You said, "Hear how ho writes of " . : , pain "' As though he felt it!" "Lord, how long," Ho cried, "must I stand here alone?" He asked for bread: You gave a stone. A mnrblo shaft to mark his rest; While you, unknowing, know too late That he who voiced his soul in song Was not. ftlld linvor nnnl.l li rr- Earth held his spirit grand in thrall, Till Death released him. That is all. Selected Our Social Chat Now that the schools are closed many girls are, for the first time' seriously asking themselves what they are to do for a living. Many of them know very little about what consti tutes a "living," as they have always had the home behind them, and never realized what necessity of a serious nature means. Scarcely a woman whose name heads a department in any publication, but-has moro-or less appeal for helpfulness from these girls and young women. And every one of these women who are sup posed to be "successes," because they have wou work on the battlefield of AN OLD AND WELL THIRD niCMUTDT Mns. WiNSLoWBSooTmNo Syrup for online teethbig nhonld always .be used for children ihX letthlnir. Itsoftona tho emu, . u.J. .n "5?" wn'18 Wind oollo andlathn h"nZ VLT-" V" ,'.?"' " ffwonty.flv0nnt hm T--' w uuirncu. tho world, would bo glad b help these undecided sisters if they could. But they the applicants for advice seem looking for "an easy place," where the work is "respectable," for getting that it is the person, not the place that ennobles. Not one of the many who have written to mo has seemed satisfied to take up house work, in any of its branches. They are all looking to the stores, facto ries and offices. Whether this is right or not, is a question I do not care to discuss. I am a wage-worker, myself; but I am a housekeeper, too. I try to do each work equally well. Bye and bye, we shall find women going back to the homes to the home kitchens, in search of the health of which the factories, in more ways than one, have robbed thorn. They will grow tired of factory foods, and factory garments and factory homes. But the kitchen of the future, like the woman who goes back to it, will be improved. The ( crude inconven iences and wasteful ways will be abol ished, and the "coming kitchen," liko the coming cook and housekeoper, will be something of a joy. Women will know there is no disgrace to be at tached to the name of "cook," or to the doing of the work of one. Cook ery will be raised to the ranks of the "learned professions," as, indeed, it should be, for it is at the very found ation of all health, both of body, mind and morals. New methods, new ma chinery, sanitation and hygiene will all be there to ereet her. and sho her- .self, will be ready clothed with in telligence and knowledge of ways and means which make for success. A good cook and housekeeper is never out of employment voluntarily. Looking to the Future No girl or woman, however closely guarded, can escape the possibility iv;u uiaj urwe or uaving to care for herself, and perhaps others, at some turn of the tide of fortune. No one who has closely observed the struggles of women in a large city, to earn a living, can fail to note the pe culiar hardships of married women suddenly forced from the home into bread-winning. In most large cities, there are thousand f wnmon .., the age of forty years upward, un skilled in any business or trade, who are forced by some necessity to en gage in gainful occupations. Many yjL uicob wumun are wives or widows who, long past the age when they '"b"1 ufiuumiy uuve oeen expected to go out into the world and work have suddenly found themselves forced out of the home to seek em ployment, in order to support small children or a disabled or invalid hus band, without having had the least training in any business or trade. There is no sadder spectacle than that of the middle-aged or old woman trying to earn a living with no ad equate enuininmir fm on,, i. Everything is against her. A younger i7 ' ,r. il ulIsuc. auaptable girl, will readily find places where a bare living may be made while serving a few months apprenticeship, or giving a short time to a course of study pre paratory to filling some of the many openings for such; but the elderly woman, forced through necessity to work out," must accept even the poorost wage3 given for unskilled lab or, however unsuited to the strength or tastes, because the present needs of dependent ones is so insistent that there is no other choice. Few women past middle age work at wage-earning except from necessity, and thous ands of tho women who seem pros perous, and are blamed for (appar ently) "crowding out the men", are doing the work because there is no other way the dependent ones must be fed, and there is no other support. Married women cannot always depend on the "protector" for even the necess ities of life, even when the "protector" is a strong man, earning good wages. For this reason, every girl should be given a training in some branch of business, trade -or profession, where by she may bo enabled to meet th6 "evil days," should they befall her. Before Marriage No man has a right to ask a woman to take up tho duties of a family un less he can support a home, and no woman is wise to take up such duties without a reasonable prospect of such support. Marriage means, for a wom an, that her earning power is circum scribed by the new relations of life, if not wholly curtailed. It is morally wrong to bring children into the world unless there is a reasonable assur ance that we are able to give them some of the opportunities and helps that go to fit them for a life's work. These considerations are bound to come up after marriage, and it is bet ter to give them some thought in time to satisfy ourselves of either the pos ibility or the impossibility. If care fully considered, it will save much heartache and moments of discour agement. "To encourage the birth of children without proper provision for their support is to obtain a verv small anees. sion to the population of the country at the expense of a very great acces sion of misery," says Malthus. Some fathers think if they barely make a Jiving, controlling in the effort the lives of the wife and unfortunate chil dren given them, they are doing noth ing censurable. But simply to eke out a living is a negative vice, and a man should realize that he owes more to the woman he marries and the chil dren he brings into the world than a mere animal existence. Thqre must be a higher object than merely to get and acquire, and before there can be a higher type of enjoyment, there musi; be the means to purchase it. Ferret out the sorrows in most fam ilies, and at the root of it all will be found to lie the need of the where withal to give to those dependent on us the coveted and desirable pleas ures and equipment for a life of use fulness. One should be taught from the first to earn a little more than is spent, and in this way an increase, though of slow growth, will be appar ent. We have but to look at the hundreds of homes for the care of indigent children, and watch the streani of worse than parentless little ones constantly pouring into them, to. realize that marriage should be en couraged with much discriminating care. Not all men and women are fit for parenthood. Ex. wUhputS!11' r worried' she e- Tv irjthier mistake:is t she hard ly knows how to rest. If she is tired she may sit down; but she will be darning stockings, mending the cloth- ng, crocheting shawls or embroider ing doileys. She does not realize that this is work, or that it tires. If she is exhausted, she will write letters or run up her accounts"-and the accounts" of most women are regular Chinese puzzles, requiring a strona head to unravel them, because the fac ulty of "figuring", in- the woman's make up has boen allowed to lapse she so seldom has anything of conse quence to "figure." All over the country women's hos pitals flourish, and doctors grow rich because of these two mistakes of women. Instead of studying up suit able foods to eat, and then taking time to deliberately eat them, tho average woman makes her meals on stuffs from- the drug store. It may not cost quite so much in money (and it may cost more) as good nourishing foods, but the expense as re gards broken health and unhappy homes is one of the biggest extrav agances we have to deal with. A woman will walk a dozen blocks and fiKht her wav thrombi ,wmi n i,n .gain-counter crowd to save, a nickel, and will waste a dollar's worth of en ergy in order to save a dime. Why? Well, she considers the energy as be ing her own, and she has been taught that the dime is the husband's prop erty. She will only have to suffer for the waste of the one, while she feels that she must account for tho other, and she chooses what she' con siders the least of the two evils. A Woman's Mistakes One of the most serious mistakes a woman makes is in the matter of eating. If a man is npt about, a woman thinks a cup of tea, or any old scrap, is enough. If there is any retrenchment to bo done, she begins at the grocer-and-butchor end of ex penses. If she is busy, she will not y waste the time" to eat; If she is un happy, it affects her appetite, or, if "Home-Made and Home-Cured" Now Is the season when fruits of all kinds are beginning to be plenti ful, and the products of tho garden are at their best. The housewife who "does her own things" is to be en vied, and especially so when one reads of the uncleanliness, , adulterants, poisonous preservatives, inferior qual ity of the fruits and vegetables, etc., which are used in the food products of the great factories of the land indeed, of the world. We remember the oiden days, when there was no question as to "what was what" when it came to the table; the only ques tion being whether thare was enough to "go 'round." The farm and village family may have pure foods, whatever the re stricted city dweller must put up with. Canning outfits for family use may be had cheaply in some in stances not costing over ten dollars, and lasting, with good care, for years. The cost may be divided among sev eral families, but a "neighborhood" outfit would not be very satisfactory, as all are not alike careful of it, and it is not always available when want ed. It is better, with such things, to neither borrow nor len,d, no matter how unneighborly such a course might seem. In all neighborhoods there are some who will rather buy their foods than to put them up, or having put up a store with poor success, must buy of more fortunate (or careful) ones. A canning outfit could be made to pay for itself. Fruit juices should be stored plenti fully, to be used in cookery and for pleasant, non-alcoholic drinks, and this can be readily done. A small evaporator, to fit onto the kitchen range, will cost about five dollars, and the fruit can be dried in them as one has time, or has room on the range. BETTER THAN SPANKING F panklng does not euro children of bod wotting. If jt did tlioro would bo fow chlldron tlint would do It. Tboro 1b u coontltutlonnl cnuso for this, lira M. Summers, Box 118, Notro Damo, Ind., will bond her home treatment to any mother. Sho nsks no onoy. Write her today if your children trouDlu you In this way. Don't blame tho cuUd. 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