?.-1 r The Commoner VOLUME 5, NUMBER 13 trw jtvt.,11 10 r $ i PERFECT THROUGH SUFFERING God never would sond you tup dark ness, If Ho felt you could bear the light; iiut you would not cling to His guid ing hand, If the way wore always bright; And you would not care to walk by faith, ' Could you always walk by sight. 'Tis truo Ho has many an anguish For your sorrowful heart to bear, And many a cruel thorn-crown For your tired head to wear; Ho knows how few would reach heav en at all If pain did not guide them there. So He sends you the blinding dark ness, And the furnace of seven-fold heat; 'Tis the only way, beliovo me, To keep you close to His feet, For 'tis always so easy to wander When our lives are glad and sweet. Then nestle your hand in your Father's And sing if you can, as you go; Your song may cheer some ono bo hind you Whoso courage is sinking low; And, well, if your lips do quivor God will love you better so. Selected. of us. I may not be able to answer having a remarkably sweet disposition nvorv letter, but I think I will; any way, I shall make the endeavor, and I shall appreciate every word you write. Do not bo afraid to criticise; do not be averse to pointing out mis takesthey are of the head (or it may be, the hand), and not of the heart. You know it is our aim to make our Home Department a constant sourco of helpfulness, and we can do this by passing along our little items of knowledge, or asking for Lolp from others ; we are all willing to bear each other's burdens, and we have among our readers some wonderfully wise and kind people. Write me, and al ways send your letter to me at The Commoner office, and, wherever I am, the letters will find me. Do not for get. I shall depend on you. Care of Palms Home Chat . Not long ago, I called on a friend, the mother of a large family, and found her worrying over tho "daily bread" necessary for the sustenance of tho many bodies. She said: "Do you know,, I worry myself nearly into my grave, trying to cater to the vary ing tastes of my husband and chil dren. Of some dishes we are fond, but in other directions, no two will eat the same thing, or, if they do, it must have a different preparation. Those who are in school must have a differ ent menu from those who are in the office, while the , out-door workers must have a food of their very own. It keeps mo planning all tho time." "Tho market seems abundantly sup plied, just now," I ventured? "That's just it," she said. "If I had but one choice, it would greatly simplify mat ters; but with so much at hand, I am constantly on tho rack to meet tho really reasonable demands for a va riety. The only way in which I see the least relief is to set each one to doing his or her own marketing. It will bo but a small matter to got it ready for the. table." Now, I wonder how many of you over Btop to think that your editor is situated very much as this conscien clous mother is. There is no lack of material, and it would be a compara tively easy matter to prepare and place a suitable menu on the tablo before you, if I know just what you would like just what you do not easily get tired of, or had some idea of your individual tastes. Even our favorite dishes may become un-an- petizing if served too often, while one does not always relish stale victuals, though many delightful dishes may be evolved from even the left-overs, with tho right sauce or dressing. But I must know your needs, in order to serve you properly and profitably. There is buLone way that I know of in which I may obtain the knowledge, and that is, like my friend, to ask you to "do your own marketing." I want you to write to me tho more the bet ter, suggesting subjects and passing your ideas along, and I will do my wwv vv oul you prautaDly to both The best variety of palm for gen eral culture is Kentia "Belmoreana. This sort has large and graceful fol iage of a rich, dark green, borne on long stalks which rise gracefully above the pot to the height of four and five feet, in three-year-old speci mens which have been well cared for. Soil is not of so much importance as many think, for good specimens can be grown in any garden loam if it is enriched by the application of a good fertilizer, but it is well to take some pains in preparing a compost for the plant. Two-thirds ordinary loam mixed with enough sharp sand and old, well-rotted cow-manure to make up the other third, will give ex cellent results, and such a soil is within reach of most amateurs. If the cow-manure can not be obtained, use more sand, and substitute bone meal as a fertilizer, using in the proportion of a table-spoonful for an eight-inch pot. This will last for three months or more. Then add as much more of the bone-meal to the soil, working it in well about the roots of the plant. 'Perfect drainage is very necessary. Have at least two inches of broken crockery or something similar in the bottom of the pot. More palm troubles are due to defective drainage than anything else. Too much water at the roots, or undue retention of it there will almost invariably result in unhealthy root action, the first indi cation of which is seen in the brown ing of the tips of the leaves. There fore, make sure to have good drain age. In watering, observe the old rule of -waiting until the Boil looks dry before applying anything. Then use enough to make the soil moist all through. An even, moderate amount of moisture is what should be aimed at. should endeavor to be just as sweet when no one is present but her fami ly. Her voice should bo just as soft, her patience as great, and her will ingness to help mother as manifest when no one is around to applaud, as though the whole neighborhood constituted an admiring audience in the door yard. This may require some effort, but every victory we gain makes it easier for us to gain an other. To. be just what we seem is an evidence of strength. To be other wise is to be deceitful. If a girl has an ungovernable temper, let her pro ceed to correct this serious evil, but she should make as serious an effort in the privacy of home, as when she is among strangers. There is something fine about the girl who makes no en deavor to put her best foot foremost, who "would rather have people know her as she really is, than to pose as something she is not. Her determina tion to be thoroughly honest, however, need not hinder her in correcting her faults. A girl is very apt to grow lax in her personal appearance if much alone. There is no excuse for this. Oire should always look- one's best, whether on a desert island or in the midst of many people. The girl who comes down stairs in the morning with her front hair done up in curl ing kids, ,her back hair uncombed, and wearing a morning gown fit only for the rag-bag or the wash-tub, is sure to be surprised some day by visitors. No excuse she can offer for her appearance will remove from the minds of her callers the impression she makes on them. Even though she says the usual thing", "Oh, don't look at me; I've got on every ola dud I have," and the visitors offend their own intelligence by replying, about as usual, "Oh, you lnok all right; no body would ever notice it if you didn't say anything," she will drop-one-half in their estimatibn. It is always best to look as neat and clean as we know how, if for no other reason than for our own personal satisfaction. We will be inspired with a much greater respect for ourselves, if, on glancing into a mirror, we behold neatly ar ranged hair and a fresh white collar, than if we see an Americanized edi tion of a Hottentot. Ex. less varieties of braids, varying from an inch in width, for some of tho Cluny patterns, to the finest peai-lings With tho aid of a stamped design, q. most any woman can put these braids together with a very few stitches thus preserving to a gown so trimmed at least a part of the distinction which all hand work gives, and which no machine work can more than imi tate. These laces will be used not only for .trimming, the Cluny for heavy materials, and the Bruges and Princess Louise for light, but there will be shoulder-collars, entire waists and jackets of them, and even hats, and possibly some covers for para sols. Cluny, like the English em broidery, will also be used for tea table covers, centre pieces, scarfs, and all decorative linens. Good Housekeeping. Simple Remedies It is often necessary to wash out the bowels of a sick infant, and this is best done by using a small rubber catheter with a small glass funnel attached, into which the fluid may be poured. Oil the catheter before inserting it into the rectum and use normal salt solution for washing out the bowels. Normal salt solution is made by dissolving a tea-spoonful of salt to a quart of boiling water; use warm, but not hot. Babies often have the colic, and a good way to cure it is to inject half a pint of warm water with three or four drops of essence of peppermint. It is better given this way than by the mouth. Water used for the baby's bowels should be care fully tempered, so as to be perfectly comfortable, and be neither too warm nor too cold. Conkey's Home Jour nal. " Currants ' Where they can be obtained, a very delightful fruit for sweet pickle is the currant. For seven pounds of red currants (not too ripe) use half a pint of strong vinegar, half a pint of currant juice, fourpounds granu lated sugar, two ounces stick cinna mon, and one ounce whole cloves. Bring the vinegar and the juice to the Dolling point, adding the sugar and currants, and add the cinnamon and cloves, each in a separate bag; let boil until it jellies; then pour out into earthen bowls known as fruit bowl3. It will require an hour, or a little more, to boil down to the proper con sistency. This "spiced" jelly is as beautiful as it is good. Respecting Self The girl whqjslcredited abroad with Lace Making Bruges lace, which is fine and will be used to trim the sheer linen, has been made in the convents of Bruges by old women whose hands have grown stiff clicking the bobbins back and forth, who learned it when they were children, from other old women, who had in their youth, learned it from other old women, and so on back for hundreds of years. Almost the same might be said of Cluny; and the Princess Louise, which is more nearly new than the others, is but a close imitation of duchesse. What is comparatively new about these and other laces which women make now adays, is the fact that machines really do the most of the work for these so called hand-made laces. Few Ameri can women will sacrifice their eyes to this tedious work, and none could be found who would sit as the forty French peasants sat, for seven years, to make the wonderful lace gown shown at a Paris exposition, and val ued at eighty-five thousand francs, (?17.000). Yet they must have lace to wear that is not all machine-made, so the machine has come to the rescue for tho difficult part, and there' are end- Lemons When persons are feverish and thirsty beyond what is natural, indi cated by a metallic taste in the mouth, especially after drinking water, or by 41 whitish appearance of a greater part of the tongue, one of the best cool ers, internal or external, is to take a lemori, cut off the top, sprinkle over it some fine white sugar, working it down "with a spoon, and then suck it slowly, squeezing the lemon and add ing more sugar as the acidity in creases from being brought to the surface from a lower point. Invalids with feverishness may take two or three lemons a day in this manner, with marked benefit. Lemon taken thus at tea-time would give a good night's sleep. Hygienic Breads Every housekeeper should learn to make good brown bread, and then make it often. When I hear any one say, "I don't like brown bread," I wonder what kind of brown bread they have been accustomed to. I never yet have cooked for any one who did not appear eager for it, and visitors act as if it was a luxury. If the members of your family are reluctant, try them with warm brown bread, then with toasted brown ureau, and -with toasted brown bread cream toast the brown bread will counter act the evil effects of the thickened milk and when they get a little uswd to it make the brown bread into brews, simmering in a little water, and stirring until stiff and free from lumps. Then there is Johnny-cake, the sweetened kind and the old fashioned hoe-cake. The latter when made just right is delicions. W meal coarse, -granulated Indian meal should be salted and well scalded, perhaps cooked a little on top of the stove until it is of just the right con sistenoy to spread on the hot griddle, then well-browned on both sides. There are also many varieties of noj gems those with rye- or Indian meat AN OLD AND TVELL TRIED REMEDY Mrs. Winblott's BoorniNO Stbup for cnuan toothing ehould always bo usod for children wnwo toethlnar. It sorUws the Runw, allays M "" SSu wind chollo aad Is the beet renlody for dlarrna. Twenty-nvo cents a botUo. i,:."t"&'-&ihirrtiH k4h..