The commoner. (Lincoln, Neb.) 1901-1923, May 29, 1903, Page 9, Image 11
ir?i p ? " ? 4 v1J The Commoner. HAT Zt; DSOJ.. 9 F flf"1 rfWr"- dt, same of nutmeg, and Just enough flour to roll well. To Keep them from being Hard, take out of the oven as soon as done and do not dry them up. Matual Toleratlaa. The woman who is altogether satis fled with the girl her son has chosen for. his wife is seldom met with, while few sisters are able to recognize in a brother's affianced the adorable quali fies so apparent to himself. Natural as these feelings are, they should be sternly controlled, and when an en gagement is an accomplished fact, relatives should skowtheir good sense by accepting it .and making the most of it, oven though it be somewhat objectionable. It is as well to be si lent on the subject, for the young man loves the girl he has chosen, and Is blind to faults which may "bo ob vious to others, and, instead of di recting his attentions to these, let the mother or sister treat the pros pective relative with the courtesy due to the brother's choice, making allow ance for any noticeable defection in the girl. - The engaged young lady of today will be the daughter or sister of JJ? future, and will not be apt to. fcet the treatment accorded to-"0 Jj!r!y active bride. If she mep-h forced rivllftv nnd veiled -"aI1Ke sno may SofoiSL L , v-opportunity comes; if hJ la t-a cordially, she will ? lessen the affection which ner fdand would naturally feel for hi3 own people. This is the point where the wife has power over her husband3 relations, and it has often happened that, devoted mothers and sisters have had to be indebted to the new wife for the maintenance of their hold on the love of son and brother. It is no rare thing for a silly or jealous wife, to utterly wean the most devoted, son or brother away from his own family because of some fan cied or real slight put upon her by them, causing untold heartache and trouble to those to whose tender love and care she owes the fact of her hus band's existence. On the other hand, the affianced wife should guard against being too ready to take offense where very often no offense is intended. A bad son is generally at least an indifferent Lusband-, and a son's devotion to his mother in her increasing years is a beautiful thing to see. She should try to realize that the mother-in-law and sister-in-law have had to give up a great deal in yielding the son to her, and that It is her place to win DOCTOR ON IOOD Xxperlmeated oh Himself A physician of Gallon, O., says: "For the last few years I have been a sufferer from indigestion and al though I have used various remedies and prepared foods with some benefit It was not until I tried Grape-Nuts that I was completely cured. "As a food it is pleasant and agree able, very nutritious and is digested and assimilated with very little ef fort on the part of the digestive or gans. As a nerve food and restorer it has no equal and as such is especially adapted to students and other brain workers. It "contains the elements necessary for the building of nervo tissue and by so doing maintains an equilibrium of waste and repair. "It also enriches the blood by giv ing an increased number of red blood corpuscles aid in this way strength ens all the organs, providing a vital fluid made more nearly perfect I take great pleasure in recommending its use to my patients for I value it as a food and know it will benefit all who use it" Name furniBhed by Postum .Co., Battle Creek, Mich. their love and confidence now that she is indeed to bo one with them. Mothers should explain these matters to their daughters. Among Our Flower. We are so busy with ouv flower gardening this month that wo scarce ly have time to think of anything else and that is as it should be. The moro hours we spend in the open air and invigorating sunshine, tho less we shall know of nerve-ache and discour agement There is a fascination about the work which few other tasks pos sess, and we endure the fow attend ant discomforts with tho true martyr spirit, feeling well repaid for all our trouble by the promise of future beauty given out by the "little green things growing." But it is not M promise, for there is already iriuch beauty, and many plants p In full bloom. Many of tho biennials and perennials sown lo year are now either blooming, or showing bud, and every day tl,tfre s a new surprise In store for us. yjysti. tho spring planting is over j,ad before one's zeal has entirely cooled, It is a good idea to turn one's attention toward perennials for tho coming year. First order tho seeds from sonie reliable firm, and while waitLig for .them to come, obtain some Wooden soap boxes about a foot high; fill these half full of manure, then put on it a layer of rich garden soil about four inches deep; then plant your seeds, each kind separately. Keep the boxes out of doors in a moderately sunny place, and water as it needs keeping the soil just moist not wet When the plants are large enough to handle safely (they should have several leaves) lift them, either into a bed specially prepared for them, or to a permanent place in tho border. It is best to get them firmly established before cold weather. Choose a cloudy day for the trans planting, and have tho soil in the box wet, taking up a good lump of dirt with each plant A fow kinds will give blossoms this year, but most of tLem will spend the time in gotting established. Before placing them in a perma nent border, study the plants, their size, habits, likes and dislikes; some will do best only in the sunshine," some will insist on having shade in varying degrees; some will be tall growers, some short Some will re quire r,oom for expansion, whilo oth ers will reach upward only. These things may all be learned from the florist's catalogue, if you will heed the descriptions. Much may be learned from tho floral magazines, and if you are in want of special informa tion, the editors and correspondents will be glad to help your for the asking. Floral Notes. It is a mistake to trust anything to luck when it comes to cultivation of flowers. If you are inexperienced, do not rely too much on your own judgment; get the most reliable in formation, and act upon it, but re member that practical experience and close study of your plants beats any thing else. It is a mistake to expect your flow.r garden to shift for itself, even when you have given it a good start; you must give it proper attention at all times, or it will be a failure, and a neglected garden is always a sorrow ful spectacle. Do not expect your plants to be sat isfactory if. you sow seed and set ou. the plants without regard to their need; do your work intelligently, and inform yourself regarding the local ity necessary for everything you plant You cannot know too much about them; they are like little chil- dron, and must be treated as living things. A beautiful plant for tho comotory is tho white pacony, which, when well established, will always bo beautiful, and it is perfectly hardy. Tho hardy cream-and-whito Iris Is another love ly flower, and, once planted, will scl dom fail to give its beautiful blos soms in tho spring. Both of these plants should be set out in tho fall. Noither of the abovo plants require very rich soil, but should havo coarse manure thrown over them in the winter. If one expects to havo winter flow ers from anything but bulbs, the plants should ha procured now and properly .trained and cared for dur ing tle summer. Even a small dls rduy of flowers cannot be obtained un less tho plants are prepared for the work expected of them. Geraniums should not bo allowed to bloom in summer if Intended to brighten tho window gardon In winter. Tho price of a bow of ribbon or a' yard of laco that will add nothing to your beauty or happiness will furnish tho wholo family, and every passer by, with a feast of beauty and per fume for months, besides lifting your hearts nearer the Author of all beauty and loveliness for all tlmo to come. Mistakes are ladders to success, onlv you must keep climbing and climbing. Ana don't say, "I wish I could havo flowers about my home," but make up your mind to havo them, and do il Havo a little time, every day for tho uowers a few minutes will do. Late Plantings. To mo, as to many other readers of Tho Commoner, there is nothing so beautiful as flowers and little chil dren. If I were to choose of all beauty and sweetness, I would choose a little child, but I would ask that a flowering plant bo sent to keep it company, wo cannot all have the little child, or, having it, wo can not always keep it, for childron grow out of our arms, and tho world claims them, almost before we real ize what it means to havo them with us. But, whatever our condition, station and environments, we can alwad havo a few flowers, and if we love them as wo should we grow to loox upon them as living things. We a1! have our favorites, and there aro "kinds" for every condition. Some havo phenomenal "luck" with tho rose, while to another it is given to perfect the lily; others love best the modest violet, whilo many find their greatest gratification in raising the glaring golds and scarlets. Foliage plants appeal most strongly to my neighbor on the right, while to my neighbor on the left there is nothing so enchanting as tno delicate ferns. So, God has given us. something of everything, and every one may bo satisfied. Do not despair though the late freeze did ruin your gardens. It is not yet too late to sow seeds of man? kinds, and now is tho season when florists send out their "collections" at very reasonable prices. Many things do better set out now than at an earlier date, so take heart and try again. In the matter of hardy peren nials and shrubbery, roses, lillles and many other things, remember that you are selecting for years to come, rathei than for the present one. Roaes and shrubbery will do little more this year than to make root and stem, get ting established, and gathering strength to bloom in later years. So it is not so much matter if you are a little late in the planting. But, whatever you do, try to have a few flower's about your homes. If you have little tlmo to give to them, select the hardy kinds "Isbmaels" of tho flower world, which fight their way up against all odds; brave, bright WhenWillYour Postal Come? You who aro sick and need help when will you ask mo for it? Why do you wait, while thousands are getting cured? They simply writo rac a postaljust as I ask of you. I will mall you an ordergood at any drug store for six bottles Dr. Shoop's Restorative. You may take It a month on trial. If it succeeds, tho cost is $5.50. If it falls, I will pay tho druggist myself and your mere word shall decide it Don't you realize that such an offer would ruin mo unless I had a remark able remedy? Could thoro bo better ovidenco that I am curing tho sick ones who writo? My records show that 39 out of each 40 pay for tho treatment gladly, because they get well. There aro 39 chances in 40 that you will gladly pay, too. My success comes from strengthen ing tho inside nerves, which alone operate, tho vital organs. I havo spent my life in learning how to do It A weak organ means weak nerve power. It is like a weak englno that needs more steam. To doctor tho organ is useless; what it needs is power to act My Restorative alone brings back that power, and In most of these diseases no other way can cure. My book will tell you why. Simp state wfaleh book j on want, and address Dr. Bhoop, Box S15 Baclne, Wis. Mild cases, not chronic, are often cared by one or two bottles. At all drnRffUta. rOOl KO. I 01 DT8PZMH (OOK KO. t Off THE HSAKT IOOK XO. Off TM EID.fBTS COOK XO. 4 rORWOMttf. S40X ff 0. 1 ion KIN. (Mtl.4) IOOK KO. t Off XKXUKATUU smiling things that never know a fear, but which grow seemingly in spite of inclement seasons or insect .enemleu If your "conditions" are "favor able," havo what you like. Only, do havo flowers about you. Dining; Room Notes The salad, crisp and Inviting, Is al ways placed on tho table before tho family sits down. It is In the indi vidual portions on a plate at the left of tho forks, the bread-and-butter plate being at the tips of the tines of tho same implement with two butter balls and the butter-knife on it If radishes or olives aro served, then a few of these, together with a small mound of salt, are on the plate with tho butter. 'there are always two thin slices of bread on the plate also. The dinner and salad course may be removed together, and the table brushed with a folded napkin Into a plate to hold the crumbs. The dessert is brought in last, and the small cups of coffee may be poured at the table. Tho chief points in all table-setting and serving aro neatness and quickness. If these be attained, the simplest dishes will be Inviting, and tho dinner, breakfast and supper hour should be a time of relaxation and .so cial intercourse. The little nlcelties of setting and serving should be observed every day, thus avoiding the awk wardness and unusual effort when ex pected company arrives. Ex. So much of the new styles of garni ture depends upon one's skill with the needle that It would be well If tho home seamstress would practice the several stltchings now so much in vogue. Fagotting, feather-stitching, French knots, worked wheels, crosses and tailor's arrowheads, etc., are all dono by hand with filo, crochet silk, embroidery silk, etc., according to tho material upon which they are used, and make fashionable and inexpensive trimming for waists, skirts, dressing sacks, collars and cuffs, stocks, etc. ,- r s v v- y