The Sioux County journal. (Harrison, Nebraska) 1888-1899, May 09, 1895, Image 3
i That Tired Feeling! It if remarkable liow many people forerunner of nervous prostration, j there are who have That Tired I'eeliu:: and aeetn to think it is of no impor tance or that nothing need be done for it. They would not be so careless I. they realized how really serious the toalady Is. Hut they think or say "It will go oil after a while.' We do not mean the lecitlruate weariness which all experience alter a t'ttrd day's work, but that all-gone, worn-out feeling which is especially overpowering In the morning, when the body should be refreshed and ready for work. It is often only the Hood's Sarsaparilla Makes Pure Mood. ir ASK YOUR DRUGGIST FOR The best v'Nursing Mothers. Infants0 CHILDREN JOHN CARLE A SONS, New York. Send for it. It's Free. Every man who is disatind with hit kuiroun!iiig who ant io Let ter his umditiun in life who knovK that he can do so if given hall a chance, should write to J. Francis, Omaha, Nrb., for a copy of a little book recently issued by the Passen ger department of the Burlington Route. It is entitled "A New Empire" and contains 32 paces' of information about Sheridan County and the Ilig II irn basin, Wyoming, a irritable land of promise, towards which the ey of thousands are now hopefully turned. fiF DAVIS HAND OR POWER VfU rCRE SEPARATOR I L J On t hi 4 mora tMtfr B't of hiiriitr I LsJ inllty Utan bjr other known iy-tmt. I CAVSS MONIV AND LABOR BtiMfrott 1 to 1 Ms) How, pitentblot 1 f M.il.d Fr... J DAVIS RASKIN SLIHI. AB1 aro . Sot HuiafMKur "A Fair Face Cannot Atone for An Untidy House." Use SAPOLIO SANTA CLAUS SOAP Sold Terywher. Made osUy bf The N. K. Falrbanh Company, Chicago. I mrmmmm 1 1 J For Twenty Years Scott's Emulsion lias been endorsed by physicians of tbe whole world. There is no secret about its ingrodtonts. Physicians prescribe Scott's Emulsion isssSHHr BmaaaBBBaHaaBMBHBia7 because they know what great nourishing and curative prop-,, ertie8 it contains. They know it is what it is represented'' to bo ; namely, a perfect emulsion of the best Norway Cod liver Oil witli tho hypophospbites of limo and soda. For Ooughi, Colds, Sore Throat, Bronchitis, Weak Lungs, Oonsump tion, Scrofula, Auatmia, Weak Babies, Thin Children, Eloksts, Hat- suaua, Loss of Flesh, General Debility, and all conditions of Wasting. -Tho only genuine Scott's Emulsion is put in salmtn colertd wrap fir. Refuse inforior sultttitutes I Smifvr ftmfhltt m Stttft EmmJtitn. FREE. ott lowns, N. Y. All Druacists. BO cent tl. with all the horrible suffering that term implies That fired Feeling and nervousness are sure indications of an impure and in povenslied condition of the blood. The craving of the system for help can only be met by purifying the blood. Hood's Sars.ipanila lath 01 e gieat blood purilier. It expels all impurities, gives vitality and strength,! regulates the digestiou and wakej tht weak strong. ' In the spring I felt very much run dow ri - mi strength r appeiite i begun to tuke HooJ s an pari ia ami my uppetitt ih.;irove i and I .lid not have thai tired led in g " II. H. Svii iitEi, Kan Lcvcretl, Mass IJi- Breathing- I IJltlif til. Cultivate the habit of breathing through the nose and taking deep breaths. If this habit was universal, there is little doubt that pulmon iry af fections would be decreased oue-Lalf. An English physician calls attention to tin fact, thai deep and forced res pirations will Xeep thi e lire body in a glow in the colJest weather, no matter how thinly one may be clad He was him elf half frozeu to death one night and began taking deep breaths and keening the air in his lungs as long as possiuK The result wag t'iat he was thoroughly comfortable In a few min utes. The deep respirations, he says, stimulale the blood currents by direct muscular exertion, and cause the en tire system to become pervaded with the rapidly generated heat.. In the middle of the ear Bre three small bones, respectively named the stirrup, the anvil and the mallet, from fancied resemblances to those articles. W.L Douglas S3 shoe. T ton. A KINS. "J3. COEDOVAM, K'- ;lt43V Fine CaiIKahcakso. ... V ao KA nni ire - .... 49sp2.W0flKINtr.,' 'LADIES KHOCirTOH.MJUJ. Over One Mlllloa People wear the W. L. Douglas $3 & $4 Sboes All our shot are equally Aatfefactory They iflve th be I viluc tor the money. They qua1 cuatora hoe In ityl and ( lit. Ttioir wearing qualittaa art uniurpuied. The piicos are uniform,- tumped n mIi. From $1 to 3 tav4 var ethrr mmkt. if your dealer CiU'Krt tuppi you wecto. PATENTS. THADiS-BIARKS. E'ro !Dt.on nd Ai w to I'nt-nuh'litr r f In 1 t m n Hiid for irntor' tlui-u- or Hf ij(M Double the satisfaction obtained from ordinary soap and only half the expense and bother. That's why thousands of thoughtful, thrifty women use Santa Claus Soap. They have learned by practical, thorough tests that for washday or every day use there is no soap ia the world that nearly equals JX-kP'J I "Ah! good evening, Miss L'Estrange WW CHAPTEK II. (Continued.) "How goes it, fair cousin?" said Mars den, who was the last to enter. "It Is luite thirty-nix hours since I saw you; I suppose nothing strange has occurred in the interval? You ahull have your puppy to-morrow. I told Stubbs to bring him over: do not feed him too well." "What a pretty place," said Mm. Ruth ven, looking out 011 the lawn. "Hut the view ia a little limited, is it not, Mr. Mars di'ii? You must feel rather triate, my dear Miss L'Estrange, ahut up here after the freedom of life abroad?" "Life is tiim h freer here, I assure you. I can go in nnd out as 1 like; and I find ao much to do, the luy ia not long enough." "When you me 11 little older, anil am bition begins to wake," said Mrs. Ituth ven, with n en reusing smile, "you will nigh for a wider sphere and, uo doubt, find it." "Ah;" exclaimed Nora, her heart over flowing with a ugue, delicious, uiiue ' countable sense of pleasure, "1 believe 1 I n 111 inciipnble of ninbition. Why ahould I trouble about anything beyond my pres ent slute? I have all I want, all I can liHiHsibly wish for: if I need a little change ,. t'rav,. awhile-but always with the ilelii ioiis si-nsc of harinu a home ready for me. 1 look upon myself as a very lucky (,'iri." Mrs. Itnihieii IuiikIiciI lightly, with a tinp- of mockery. "1 have at leant Keen me content cil bull vidua I," he Hiiid, throw ing a languiidiitig glance to Marsdeu, who en me to her iie. , "I u in glad to have been ulile to intro duce you to a happy valley, which the princess, it 14 possessor, doca not pine to leave," he naid. A templing tea table wan spread with toast and hot cakes, and the conversation grew lively, 11 ml even noisy, ns the pros pects of the hull were discussed. At last the evening began to darken, anil Lady I torringtoii proposed their returning. "You look pale am) wenry," said Mara lien, in a low mice to Mrs. ltiithven; "stay here, ami I will send the pony carriage over for you." "Mi, (lunik you! I shall niannge to walk back." Adieus cM-hanged, the party set forth, Norn and I'.ca accompanying them as far ns tin- bridge. When half way across, Marsdeu cm laimeil: "Kxcuse me a mo ment -I quite lorgot a message for Mrs. IKstiangc," and he turned quickly, over taking Nora, who was alone. "lie mire you send for what flowers you require, Nora," he said. "I told the gar dener not to cut' any till he knew what you wanted." "You are really too good, squire. Your guests will uant them all. I have what I need at home." "Then I will select for you myself. See that you wear mine, if you prefer Win toti'a " "Why, Mr. Wlnton would never dream of offering ony one flowers," said Nora, laughing; "go and take care of Mrs. Uuth ven," and she ran away into the house, reaching it in time to say good-by to Wiu tori, who was about to start on his home ward walk to Oldbridge. Mrs. Knthven was very tired, she said, and therefore silent, but In reality she was asking herself, over and over again, what it was that .Mnrsden went back for. Khe deeply distrusted Nora. CIIAI'TEU III. Hoth Mrs. IKstrange and her step daughter uttered exclamations of surprise Hid admiration as they entered the hall of ICvesleigh Manor House on the night of the ball. The ladies of Ilrookdale came early, they wished to see the rooms before the crowd assembled. "Lady Ilorrington ia in the white draw ing room," anld the butler, opening the first door on the left. This was the smaller of the two draw ing rooms, and was as bright and beauti ful as lights, flowers and groups of plautB could make It. Lady Dorrington, In velvet and dia monds, stood In the center, with nearly all the house party, re-enforced by several gentlemen) Nora had uot seen before, gath ered round her. Directly the butler announced "Mrs. and Miss L'Estrange," Marsden came forward, shook hands very cordially with Mrs. L'Estrange, and let her pass on to Lady Dorrington; then stopping Nora, to whom be showed a programme, said, "I bare put down my name for waltz num ber eight," pointing out the word "Clif ford," written in Ink against that num ber; "you cannot alter It, you see." "I shall not want to alter it," returned Nora, looking up with a smile. "I funcy yon are the best dancer here." She was struck with tho expression of his eyes. They were fiercely bright, ami had a certain Indescribable look of Intense resolution, while his face was white, and the veins in his forehead showed dis tinctly; otherwise he was strikingly hand some and distinguished. Evening dress suited him well. "Mrs. and Miss Saunders, Captain Ieth bridge, Mr.. W'inton," were announced u rapid succession. Lady Dorringtou went forward to receive them. "My severe duties are about to com mence," said Marsden, who still held the program, wtilcn no now put Into Nora's hand, managing to catch and press It as ho did so. "I look to you for my reward by and by." "1 wonder," thought Nora, looking after him as he went to greet his guests, "if tho squire is ever In earnest?" Her conjectures were Interrupted by the appearance of Mrs. Ituthven, who came in from the room beyond. iShe look ed radiant and fairy-like In soft satin and delicate lace, and absolutely ablaze with Jewels. "I never saw anything like her Jewels," sold Nora to Wlnton, who had taken his stand beside her. "I should like to know their real value, and what they cost old (Juthrle," he re turned. "I fancy there are some curious stories attached to these fine things." Here Mrs. Ituthven came straight to where they stood, followed by a neat, ac curately dressed, keen-eyed man. "Ah! good evening Isu t this a pretty room'' Iteally, the decorations are iu admirable taste. I must compliment you on your dress, if you will forgive me," she said, looking keenly at Nora from head to foot, with a com prehensive glance. "I am infinitely flattered, Mrs. Ituth ven," exclaimed Nora, with a pleased smile and a slight blush; "your approba tion is a compliment as to you, you are quite too dazzling. I never saw any thing like your rubies before. I confess I ahould like to see all your jewels one day." "You shall, if you like. Meantime, here is Captain Shirley, waiting for the intro duction I promised him. Captain Shir ley Miss L'Kstrange." "May I have the honor of the first dance. Miss L'Kstrange?" he asked, with a low bow and an air of repressed eager ness. "With pleasure." She handed him her card. Having in scribed his name, he hesitated, aud said, with a smile of entreaty: "Dare 1 ask for the second waltz?" "Very well," returned Nora, with a lit tle laugh at his imploring tone. "I assure you, Captain Shirley is a cap ital partner," put in Mrs. Kuthven. Then addressing him, she added: "The rooms are filling rapidly. Give me your arm, and I will join Lady Dor rington. He sliull return directly. Miss L'Kst range." "Well," said Wlnton, who had ex changed a nod of recognition with Shir ley, "I think you might have given me the first quadrille, any idiot can walk through a quadrille!" "You know I could not ask you," said Nora, glancing up into his eyes with a bright, amused sparkle in her own. "And as you said nothing about it, I never thought you would deign to dance." "I don't suppose you ever gave me a thought, and you are right: I have stiffen ed too much and too soon into elderly ways to be a lit partner for a creature like you." "Mr, Winton," with an air half mock ing, half kindly, "will you do me the honor of dancing the first quadrille?" aud she handed him her program, from which lie perceived that the first dance was a waltz, the second a quadrille. Mark Winton flushed through his sun tanned skin us he returned the correct re ply: "Most happy I Where shall I find you?" he added eagerly, as he saw Shirley re turning. Here, 1 snail return to ttns room, and she was gone. Mrs. Kuthven's triumph began with the dancing. Though some of the country grandees were present, the host opened the ball with her, and he had never before been so charming, or so devoted in his attentions; he explained with an amusing air of martyrdom the cruel necessity for his taking the Marchioness of Hlankford, an Immensely stout, talkative woman, with gray hair aud mustache, to supper; but there was no escape. Mrs. Kuthven had never felt so secure, so elated. What wonderful luck hers was, to be ardently in love with the right man! Meantime, the guests poured in, and dancing had begun with great spirit. "I feel as if I ought to look for you and olTer you my arm," said Nora, as Win ton rose to give her his seat beside Mrs. L Lstrange, when Shirley brought her hack. "Having asked you to dance, I should act the role completely." "I will excuse you." hy do you not dance, Helen?" she resumed. "Lord Dorrington tells me you refused him peremptorily. "It would not be becoming in the chap eron of a great grown-up daughter to dance," returned Mrs. L'Estrauga good humnredly. "You must give me a quadrille, Mrs L Estrange, said Winton, "for the sake of 'Auld Lang Syne.' I don't think I have danced since the old rectory days, wnen you usea 10 ne my partner you re member? I do, indeed! A quick sigh caught Nora's ear, and she noticed the soft, sad look which stole over her stepmother's countenance. Mrs. L'Estrange was a small, elegant, but somewhat colorless woman, with pale-blue eyes, and pale-brown hair, a pretty figure, and very soft, quiet man ners; she could talk well when roused, but had always the air of preferring to be still and silent "She has had a try ing life!" 'thought Nora, while Wlnton said, "Well I will come and look for you presently." Then he gave Nora Ids arm, and they took their places. "I think you must have danced more than you admit," said she, when tbe quad rille was over. "You made very few mis takes 1" "I watched my neighbors, and the evolu tions are not difficult. No; don't go back yet; you Will be snapped up by your next partner. Who ia It, Letbbridge?" "No, a friend of the squire's, wdio Intro duced him, I.ord Alfred Harcourt." "I don't think he will amuse youl Have yon been in the conservatory yet? It is really very pretty." "No!" yielding to his movement In that direction. Winton led her Into the hall, where num erous groups sat and stood about, down the passage before mentioned to the buf fet, and then across the breakfast room as yet unoccupied, where card tables were set forth, into the conservatory. This was dimly lighted by silvery lamps among the foliage, and freshened by the splash of a couple of fountains. The fragrance of the flowers, the cool stiffness, after the noise and heat of the ball room, were most weleuuju. "This is loTly, Indeed!" cried Nora, "none of the balls 1 was at in London were half so beautiful." "How many did you go to?" asked Wlnton. "Three," she replied; "you like accu racy." "It is essential. What Is this place at the end?" "Let us explore!" cried Nora. A door which let out to tho terrace had been replaced by a deep red velvot cur tain, which, looped to one sldo, gave ad mittance to a Turkish tent, draped with rich, mellow-colored Oriental stuffa, In termixed with gold. A. divan with em broidered cushions occupied one side, and S stained glass lantern swung from ths center, while a long mirror opposite the door reproduced the charming effect of the interior. "This is admirably done," said Winton, looking round. "No doubt Mr. Marsdeu has had it done to ph ase Mrs. Ituthven, aud remind her of her Eastern life!" "I don't suppose that would give her any particular pleasure," said Winton dryly. "Are you sometimes taken with ill-natured fits'" asked Nora, looking up into his eyes. "Never," he replied, emphatically, "I am always generous, just and reason able! Will you sit down, aud allow me to eularge a little further on my own ad mirable qualities? Tbe cushions are soft and comfortable." "I must not, however interesting the subject! My partner will be looking for me and " Without a syllable of remonstrance, Winton gave her his arm, and they began to retrace their steps. "When the waltz is over we must bring Helen to see this beautiful tent," said Nora. "Tell me, Mr. Winton," she went on after a short pause, "was Helen ever young and mer ry, and thoughtless, like me, for In stance?" "Never like you," quickly; "I wish she had been, for her own sake. She never had your buoyancy or vitality; but she was bright once, and full of feeling; she had hard lines for some time after her father's death. I often used to wonder how she was getting on, poor dear little soul, and was glad to find her us happy as she is." "Ah! Miss L'Estrunge, where have you been hiding yourself?" cried Lord Alfred Harcourt, meeting them iu the doorway of the refreshment room. "I have been looking everywhere for you; this is our waltz." Winton resigned her to the new claim ant and was almost immediately button holed by uu old officer who had known him in India. It was some time before he got back into safe anchorage beside Mrs. L'Esrrange; with Nora he did not get a Word till later, as she only returned ut in tervals to he immediately curried off again by a fresh partner. Mrs. Ituthven, bland, smiling, attentive to all with wjioni she cume in contact, wus nevertheless keenly watchful of her host, and his doings. lie hud opened the ball with her, and then his duties kept them upart until the fifth or sixth dance. "At last!" exclaimed Marsden, coming up to the sofa where she snt talking to Lord Dorrington, who speedily effaced himself. "At lust I have a moment's liberty, and I hope you can give me the next. It is a waltz. 1 have watched you floating around the room with sundry incitpahles unable to do iustice to the rhythm of your fairy feet, till I cursed in my heart, though obliged to give good words with my tongue! Let me see your card. 'Sir Ceorge ltrocklehurst,' may I go and dispose of him? Yes, do let me promise and vow three, or thirty-three, things in your name. I must have this waltz with you!" "I give you curte blanche," replied Mrs. Kuthven, with downcast eyes, almost overpowered with an intoxicating sense of delight at his tone. "Here he comes. "My dear fellow," cried Marsden, ad dressing him, "will you do me a very great favor? I have, only this one waltz free till nearly the end of the evening; will you resign your great privilege of dancing it with Mrs. Kuthven in exchange for how many? two dances after sup permay I say two, Mrs. Kuthven?" Mrs. Kuthven bowed with a gracious smile, saying: "Perhaps Sir George has not so many disengaged." "With Mrs. Kuthven's approval, I can refuse nothing to my good host," return ed Sir George, a tall, thin, pompous man, with a profound belief in his own impor tance. "A thousand thanks! Now let me pro vide you with another partner." "Thank you, no! I do not much care for dancing in the abstract." A low bow. "The first and second dance after supper, then." He wrote them solemnly on his card, and disap peared. "Then, there goes the Marshal Nlel waltz! Don't let us lose time. Come, ma belle Nourniahall May I presume to call you so?" said Marsdeu In a low tone as he gave her his arm aud they walked Into tho ball room. "Certainly iu your shining golden gown and flashing jewels, you suggest the Light of the Harem." He put his ann around her, and they whirled away into the crush of dancers, (To be continued What Esau Hunted. "About noon we 8a w a beast stand ing on a mountain top looklag down at us. When we saw It we ..bought that It was a camel, but Callnus said that the beast was a rhinoceros or unicorn. It hath a horn set in the midst of Its forehead, four feot long, aud whatso ever it butts at it runs htm through and pounds him against tbe rocks. It Is sold by writers on natural history that they place a young virgin In his way, whereat he puts away from him all his fierceness, and lays down his head, and Is held thus entranced until ho be taken and slain." Thus wrote that delightfully naive observer, Father Felix Fabrl, who vis ited Sinai 4(K) years ago. Modern pil grims who have followed in his foot steps with their eyes open will at once recognize that the animal be saw was the bedan, or Slnaltlc Ibex, which gn7.es down on passing caravans from the cliffs which tower above their toute. He Is seldom vlBlble to them unless his shapely figure happens to be sil houetted on the sky line. This wild goat Inhabits the mountains on either side of the I ted Sea and the steep gul lies of Moat), and is the only represen tative of the deer or goat tribes In these regions. Esau doubtless bunted It, and those few sportsmen who have followed his example will :iot be sur prised that the uncertainties of the cIuiho cost lil m his birthright. The Nineteenth Century. Iu tho case of E!S North German women, Prof. Knthe reports that gray hairs iipponrod ut the following ages: In one, at twenty-eight years; In five, at thirty to thirty-four; In sixteen, at thirty-five to thirty-nine; In thirty-seven ut forty to forty-nine; In forty-three, at fifty to fifty-nine; In nineteen, at sixty to slxty-nluo; In five, at seventy to seventy-nine; and In two at eighty to eighty-five. The Christian should never go where It would throw a damper over things to mention the name of Christ Baked Veal. Take two or three slices of veal Bteak, put them Into a bake pan, cover rather thickly with fine bread crumbs sea soned with salt pepper and a very little mace. Lay two or three thin slice of salt pork on the top of each steak and put one or two slices on the bot tom of the pan; pour In about a cupful of hot water, and If convenient drop in a sprig or two of parsley. Bake un til tender, baRting every fifteen min utes. Add a little hot water as the water in the pan bolls away, leaving enough for gravy. When done, place . the steaks on a hot platter to keep warm while you make the gravy. Cook one scant tnblespoonful of flour In one talilespoouful of hot butter till smooth and brown, add a little hot water to tbe gravy in the pan, scrape the sldee and bottom of the pan carefully, to remove all the browned parts. Strain this grad ually Into the butter and flour, stirring constantly. Add the Juice of half a lemon, and season with pepper and salt. Turn the gravy over the steaks and serve at once. This Is an inex pensive dish, but If carefully prepared will be found very palatable. The Chaflng-Difch Party. So great Is the rivalry among the owners of fine chafing-dishes and choice recipes to be cooked In them, that cooking clubs, of both men aud women, frequently meet and prepare a luncheon or ten-o'clock supper entirely over the chafing-dish. Each person brings or sends his dish and the mate rials for making it In advance, and the feast is cooked course by course by the different chefs. To prevent a super abundance of one kind of food, each guest Is notified of the dishes that will compose the menu, or permitted to send In word of the concoction at which he Is most skilful. In this fashion a chafing-dish party may have much of the deligLt and terror of a summer pic nic Ice Cream In Cups of Flowers. Ice cream In the cups of flowers made of candy and tinted are furnished by fashionable caterers. At a luncheon not long ago the flower-cups were large lavender orchids; tbe same colored flowers, though they were natural, and not the creation of tbe caterer, were used in the center of the table, where a beautiful cluster of them was fringed by a mass of maidenhair ferns and then by a border of violets. The same violets were, though It was not appar ent, mnde Into separate bunches, aud from each of them a lavender satin ribbon extended to the plate of a guest. After they were seated the rib bons were drawn forward and each woman had a bouq let of violets. Dressing for Oysters. A piquant and very good occasional dressing for raw oysters Is made from a tablespoonful of chopped shallot, & teaspoonful of chives also chopped, a saltspoonful of salt, a saltspoonful of white pepper, freshly and coarsely ground, five tablespoon fuls of tarra gon vinegar, and a tablespoonful of lime-juice. Put the Ingredients togeth er, mix them well, cover, and stand an hour before using. Coffee Cake. One egg, one cup of molasses, one cup of melted butter, two cups of brown sugar, one cup of strong, clear coffee, five cups of flour (reserving a little to flour the fruit), one teaspoon ful each of soda, cinnamon and clove and one nutmeg grated, one cup of currants and two cups of raisins seed ed and chopped. Mix In the order giv en and bake In one loaf. - . Cheeee Sandwiches. " " Cut up fine any bits of cheese that cannot well be used any other way, add a little cream or melted buter and let It beat slowly till the cheese Is melt ed and the whoe becomes a paste. If liked, season with salt, cayenne pepper and mustard. Spread this mixture on thin slices of bread and put together. Pineapples Are Wholesome. Ripe pineapples have been put upon the list of food especially healthful for persons troubled with indigestion, the Juice being especially valuable In such cases. In countries where the fruit Is Indigenous Its value ns a remedy for dyspepsia Is well known. Useful Inventions. A Chicago woman has invented a useful fish-knife that scales, cleans, and bones a fish without mangling It. Another useful Invention discovered during the year Is a new liquid that makes lace curtains absolutely proof against fire from gas or lamp flames. Egg". Ornithologists say It Is a general rule of nature that the smallest birds lay the greatest number of eggs; but In the humming bird this rule Is reversed. It lays only two eggs, which are white, round, aud of the size of peas. The tiny bird Is so tearless at the time of nesting that It ns been known to at tack and blind a person when search ing for Its eggs. The Reins of Conversation. The reader of human nature finds no difficulty In solving small social prob lems. For example, one never need be bored by constant talkers or cast Into the shade by brilliant ones. It Is only necessary to say to one of the former, "Now talk to me," to silence her com pletely, nnd no woman ever lived who could appear other than Imbecile after being told that she was expectod to be brilliant The dullest person remem bering these rules, may hare ths reins of conversation In her own bands.