THE DAILY HERALD: PLATYSMOUTxi, tfiffltASKA, TUESDAY, AUGUST U. 1S88. 1 ..(ABLE FRIENDS. ITY FOLKS GUARD AGAINST .PLEASANT ACQUAINTANCES. .ottu of Home Circle Conversation. Taken In by a Charming Fellow A Nice lAtoVlng Couple An Cnnopblatl cated View Note. Notwithstanding the true American free dom of approach and readiness to accept the advances of others which perhaps exists In a greater measure in New York than else where, there are yet certain bounds of in timacy which may not bo passed until time Las ripened acquaintance into confidential friendship. The man one meets daily at the ofilee, in the store, on the elevated railroad or at the club converses freely after Intro duction, and loth gives and receives pleasure by daily talks, but ho is not invited to vihit the home circle, nor does he give such a in vitation until long acquaintance has famili arized each party with the circumstances of of tho other's life. In a recent home circle conversation the writer asked the question: "How long and well should one know a erson before com nftuing himself to confidential friendshipf The answers, as was to be expected, were as different as the natures of thone who n;nde them. "I can judge a man tolerably well at night," said on impetuous New Englander, not yet fumiliar with metropolitan wuys. "If he has an honest eye and a goal faco, is not marked with a rummy nose, and talks sensibly, I should not bo afraid to ask him to my home. lie might turn out badly some time, and I might bo ashamed of having known him, but that cannot be helped. One never knows tho whole of anybody's life Lis tory." There was an ominous pause after this effusive statement It was not pleasant to express less generous sentiments, but the countenances of the auditors showed that they could not agree with him. AWKCLLY TAKEN IN. "You will find that you cannot go on that rule here," said one who has lived longer in this city. "I used to feel just that way and acted accordingly, but now I make it a rule never to invite an acquaintance to call until J have known him favorably at least three months. If I am introduced to a stranger and like his appearance, I try to be cordial to him during that time. Not hearing anything against him, or seeing any thing wrong about him, I then givo him an Invitation. I was awfully taken in ouce by one of the most charming fellows in the world. Ho looked like a prince and talked like an angel, but he is in Canada now and a bank down town mourns for him and several thousand dollars which he stole. Since then I have not lieen hasty in making friends." "Three months is not nearly long enough," said a bright, chatty lady, tho sister of a well known clergyman. "Ben (her brother) and I havo to meet all sorts of people in our church work, and we always wait a year. Most of our friends did so with us and they were rjgbt, judging by our experiences. One of the nicest and daintiest of little women moved Into the flat next to ours soon after brother was called liere, and I told hira I meant to call on her. I didn't go just then because I had to go homo and take care of mother during a Fickness. One day after I had got back I happened to pass her door while she was say ing good by to a friend, and I heard more glang words in one minute than in all my life before. You can guess that 1 decided pot to make her acquaintance." "You were perfectly right in saying that a year is not too long," said another lady, picking up the conversational thread. "When wo lived on street we Lad for near neighbors as nice a looking couple as ever were seen. Tha man went to hi3 busi ness every morning, and tho woman was singing over her work all day long. My hus fl.and thought they were nice, and so did I, but we learned better before long. Ono niht they had a supper party that began at 10o'clock and ended at daybreak. Every ono must have been drunk, for they sang and .boated so that nobody else in tho house could get a wink of sleep. After that we beard them scolding each other every night, and at last something exploded like a cannon cracker between th-a. Both commenced divorce proceedings, and tha wife was turned out of the house because she couldn't pay her rent and the husband would not." JN A VEUT QCEEa WAT. "No doubt all of you are right from the point of view of personal interest," said the unsophisticated New Englander, who has not yet realised that jiersonal interest rules the best of us in an inordinate measure. "You have had bad luck, but most people are good and well disposed. Now, I've just made some new friends in a very queer way, and I mean to stick by them until I find they are pot all right Last night when I was going up the stairs of my boarding house in my usual dumheaded, absent minded style, I turned into tho room below mine by mis take. Thinking, of course, that I was in my own room I was dumfounded at its appear ance, with trunks piled up in the comer and ladies' dresses hanging in the open closet A low, sweet female voice struck on my ear as I stood thero amazed. 'There, baby,' it said, is papa.' and before I could turn her arms were about my neck. Then sho saw what had happened and accepted my apology, though not very graciously at first We are good friends now, I am glad to Kay, and laughed over the accident this morning." A general comparison of notes was made at the end of this funny story. The conclu sion reached was not perhaps the best, but most peoplo will think it a prudent one. All kinds of people live in this great city. Not only arc thero good angels with good faces, and bad angels with bad faces, but there ara also good men and women whose counte nances would convict them of any crime, and evil disposed wretches who look as if iey belonged to heaven rather tbaa on earth, and who talk as sweetly as if "but ter wouldn't melt in their mouths." Every man and woman rightly limits the list of in- timate friends to tne ruie 01 congeniality. "Well disposed, decent, law abiding people very properly avoid those who have not sim ilar virtues. In a large city active and stir ring people meet new acquaintances every .i,-- tiimu miht to be received pleasantly Tiitoiv. lmt mav in common fairness bo compelled to wait until time has proved their desirability as friends. New York Tress. The Novelist In Society. The professional character of French lit erary society makes one of tho chief dis lietweon literature in France and in England. An English writer doeJ not con fine biniseir, eiiner wnouy or iarwy, vj ui of v f his brethren in art: he does not. terbaps, even prefer his brother novelist to any intelligent person. He, too, is like Dog berry, and seldom allows nw guia 10 appear. 1 1 . ,,..r.ri tn Va received like an v other sren y -. . .... v;. fr-ivT.a lAvincr hifilitirarv character to be inferred from a Jest now and then, or passing reference. Discussions upon art and its methods have been gently but ' -mly discouraged hitherto in his society. other eoclc-ty across the chancel is not lists form their group, as painters do bavin? a thousand technical ' " AV WW W v ' ARE EMBEZZLEMENTS INCREASING? Society Larcely to Blame for tfce Down fall of a Weak Man. The New York Herald has compiled a list of the embezzlements during the pact year, and from this list it reaches the conclusion that defalcations are on tho increase and that the confidence of the employer is being abused more and more. Its ground for this inference is that the embezzlements and the pumber of embezzlers of 18S3 are so much greater than those of 1878. This may be true, and yet it does not follow that dishonesty among employes is increasing. The ratio of this class of crimes may be no larger in 1888 than in 1S78, although the number of em bezzlements in the later year may exceed those in the earlier. Because we have more capital employed in business, more business institutions, more positions of trust to be filled. The monetary transactions have largely increosed and also tho number of em ployes. With this growth in business comes a growth in crime, becanse the field of oiera tious for dishonest employes has been so greatly extended. A good deal of this augmented crime can be traced, first, to the employers themselves, and, second, to the false standards of life. Society is largely to blame for the downfall of a weak man. It has erected meretricious standards of quality, and those who seek and obtain admission into that society must live up to these meretricious standards or else they will bo ignored. A weak, dependent mnu, one that seeks for any kind of social distinction, no matter how puerile it may be. is utterly crushed if society ignores him. He must be recognized. And this feeling of despair is the first step toward his personal destruction. If ho should have an extravagant wife and family who also have the craze for social recogni tion, he is compelled to get it If he cannot earn enough money to maintain the show, he begins to appropriate small sums from his employer in the hope that by speculating or gambling he can make a good deal more. He may not mean to steal in the beginuing. But ho generally loses, and tuen the descent in thd down grade commences. After the first pec ulation the remainder como easy, ana ueiore he knows it he is an embezzler to the extent of thousands of dollars. There are some clerks who steal merely because they like to steal, but these are in the minority. They should not be considered in analysing the causes that underlie the desire to embezzle. Employers are to blame in this class of cases, not primarily, perhaps, for the embez zlers generally belong to tho trusted class of employes who get good salaries. But they are to blame for failure to prosecute because friends or relatives make up the deficit When this Is done the matter is dropped and the embezzler, having felt no disgrace, dos not appreciate tho full extent pf his. prime. The employer who does this does himself no benefit, but does a positive harm to society. Every dishonest clerk or official should be punished not only because he has done that which merits some kind of a penalty, but be cause he has violated a statute. People who violate laws with impunity, by and by begin to lose their respect for the law. There is yet another consideration. Every time that a clerk is discovered in dishonest action he should be punished as a warning to others who may con template wrong doing. Employers ei r again by putting young men in places of responsibility and then paying them meager salaries. It is human nature to err. And the man who holds a position of some importance will in time consider him self also to be of some importance. When this mental condition i3 reached, he mustliye better, dress better, and enjoy life n all its phases more completely. This takes money. If his employer does not give it to him for services rendered, the clerk finally appropri ates in little sums the money of his em ployer. There is one peculiar fact about this peculating, and that is that none of the em bezzlers seem to realize that in the end their deeds will be discovered. Detroit Free Press. President Arthur's Canned Salmon. When Senator Vest accompanied tho late President Arthur out to the Yellowstone park on the famous fishing excursion, tho little Missourian thought he would play a trick on Mr. Arthur. One day Vest went out by himself and returned in the evening with a fine lot of fish. He met President Arthur and remarked: " "I never would have believed it, but do you know that I really caught some sahnon today in a boiling spring that were niceiy cooked all that was needed was a little pep per and salt and sauce to have them ready for the table. See, I brought three of them home. Just try one of them, Arthur. Most delightful flavored fish I ever tasted." President Arthur looked critically at the fish and then repljod i "Well, that is quite a freak of nature. Vest, but I had an experience today that lays your boiled unseasoned fish out cold, 3ee," he said, as he drove down into the fish ing basket and brought out a tin can, "I found a spring today where I caught these just as fast as I could throw in my Tina. Try some, Vest It's the finest flavored cajmod 'tSlmou I ever tasted. t? "ou out to-morrow and stow vou the spring where I catch sal mon iike this. Ob, this is a great place, ain't it, senator? People In the east would hardly believe I have been catching canned salmon, but I want you to stand by me, and declare that you saw the cans. I'll stick to the fact that I saw your boiled fish." Senator Vest didn't try to work oft any more fanny gags on President Arthur during that Yellowstone trip. Globe-Democrat To Achieve True Success, What will assure suocess? It needs a com bination of sound elements to achieve true success call it nerve and brains, or over drawn assurance, whatever you will. The spirit of push, of unbounded perseverance, of untiring patience, is a recognized feature of the true American, and there is no reason to mourn its existence; it is a necessary fao tor in modern life. In the midst of the hurry and rush of these days a man will be left far in the rear who does not make h'nn self aggressive. Mere brain power is not enough, there must bo some means whereby the ability can be manifested. The man of mere intellect may be a fine scholar and a thoughtful reader, but ho can never mingle successfully in the busy actualities of the world at large. It needs a determination to make the world feel the brain power of tho man, this is the means. It need not be shown in a way to annoy or disgust; quietly but persistently the intellect may be made to influence th lives of others. The genius of the head may be exerted by the gra of the band and the genial familiarity which follows thereby. It requires pluck and courage. To wait in the lowermost places to get an invitation to come higher is pretty poor policy nowadays. If you don't let it be known that you are around some other fellow will climb over you and achieve wealth and renown. Keep looking onward and going onward. Don't stand stilL To stand still in business is but to go backward. A. H. Revell in Chicago Journal. - There are many blessinzs attached to pov erty. But they are fearfully disguised. Rochester Pyxym BUILDING TRADITIONS. LEGENDS CONCERNING STRUCTURES INTENDED FOR MAN'S USE. Cnolee of s Ualldlns; Site The Devil Said to Be a Mighty Builder Human Sacri fice and Its Subfititutes Modern Cere monies. There are in various parts of the world many curious traditions concerning struct ures intended for man's habitation or use. When tho nomad finally strikes his tent, and adopts a fixed structure in some chosen spot for his future homo, much importance is usually laid on the manner of selecting this spot, then ujxrn certain propitiatory rites deemed necessary to insure the safety or con tinuance of tho new dwelling. Many of our modern ceremonies are harmless survivals of these ancient usages, and these customs them selves are still perpetuated by symbolical substitution. If we are to believe ancient authors, many tribe were of old guided to their future homes by mysterious agencies. The Phocoens claimed to have been led to a prosperous land ing by a seal, Cyrenians by a ravon, tho Irpini by a wolf, etc., etc So the sites of buildings were frequently chosen by these wise animals. Six vultures indicated to Re mus and twelve to Romulus tho location of the future mistress of tho world. Sometimes these intelligent guides transfer tho building materials to a propitious spot There are many traditions in England and Scotland, as well as on the continent, of such interference in the choice of a building site. Ic has been the custom in nearly all lands to attribute to ancient races, or to certain mysterious beings tho construction of gigan tic works, ancient castles, walls, etc. Among tho Greeks, tUose structures were attributed to the Titans, a race of giant j once possess ing the earth. So in, &,iandinavia, the Jo tuns or giant gods performed these mighty feats of construction. In Germany, it was' the dwarf inhabitant of tho mountain cave, in the more romantic lands of southern Europe, tho fairy or witch. In the middle ages, those gave way gradually to tho devil, whoso in fluence and reputation spread with the growth of Christendom. In timo he proved to be a mighty builder, although his labor was always performed for his personal advantage, aud to the loss of the owner of the habitation. Tho devil disliked the building of churches, and is seldom credited with assisting in their construction, but frequently tried to prevent their erection. He is the champion bridge builder in many old world lands, and has bestowed his name on many a bridge, as-t or instance, that on St Got hard Psls, over a stream which ho alone cOmd span. An an ecdote frequently related of these building enterprises is, in the words of the poet, told of this: I shewed you la the valley a bowlder Slarked with the imprint of his shoulder, As he wrvs bearing it up this way, A peasant, passiug, cilod "Herr, Jel" And the devil dropped it in his fright. And vanished suddenly out of sight These stones are shown in many places in Germany, Norway and Denmark. One at Lundborg has the impress of his form, where he lay down to rest before attempting the ascent of a steep hilL In another place are eleven large stones. It is said the devil was carrying the twelfth up a neighboring hill, when he stopped to rest He was unable to resume hta burden, which bears the imprint of his shoulder blade. A certain church wall in England is said to boar the imprint of his foot, where he stamped to show his defiance of popery. A victim is usually required., as the price of his satanio majesty's services as an archi tect Many stories are told of outwitting him, when a human sacrifice was required, A Swiss peasant obtained diabollo aid in building a bridge across a valley, cheatiug the architect with a goat German tales of similar substitution are numerous, a fox, a wolf, a dog, cat, or cock being tho sacrifice. It was an universal custom formerly to cause a dog or cat to enter a new house first, as a propitiatory victim. In Yorkshire, ;t was thought necessary to bury a dog or ca under the church walLs, its ghost haunting the churoh yard. As the devil required a victim, it was said in Lancashire that any one coun seling or planning repairs to an old building, or the building of a, pew one, would die with in a yeaiY From this notion of the devil as a builder, there a:-ose a custom prevalent in many places during the Middle Ages, and surviving to modem days in Asia and Africa. This was the sacrifice of a living being upon the commencement of a, new edifice, usually by burying alive within the walls. Greek and Latin authors contain many allusions t3 this practice. A pathetic tale is to!4 of Liebenstejji castle, in Germany. X young chUdigjiiJ have been walled im JnJ$ Cudations having been. p.Mrhagfld ,ts mother- To prevent UaiU- lt was seated and given play- nu:l- i. : 1 1 .l- it.. 1 UllO 1UU11CU111 14 TOil US tllO W BUS went up, it said, "Mother, I can see you." Then later, "Mother, I see a little of you still," and finally, "Mother, I see nothing of you now." Tho border castles of Scotland were, ac cording to legend, washed with human blood by their savage builders, the Picts. Baily portree castle, in Clare county, Ireland, is said to have been erected by the Danes, who pressed into service workmen from far and near, and made them labor night and day without rest or food, and when any dropped with fatigue or hunger, ho was at once im mured within the walls. Mediaeval legends abound in instances of such sacrifices. In Africa, hundreds of vic tims suffered when a new palace was com menced. Substitutes were afterward chosen, when human sacrifices had been abandoned. In Bulgaria the shadow of some one passing was walled in. The person thus losing his other self would, it was thought, die within a year. A dog, cat or cock is still used in many parts of Europe. Danish traditions tell of a lamb being buried under the altar that the church might stand unshaken. In Germany it is said that a long term of good weather may be insured by walling in a cock. Modern ceremonies at the laying of the corner stone of a building are doubtless sur vivals of these ancient heathen sacrifices. Religious rites are still held, but the victim is no longer represented either in person or by a substitute, F. S. Bassett in Globe Democrat Danger on the High Seas. The statement of Dr. A. L. Fuller, the dis tinguished scholar, about the ocean tragedy in which the steamship Fuida, on which he was a passenger, played so prominent a part on the Banks of Newfoundland is worthy close attention. This unprejudiced witness declares that "we were running too fast to avoid a collision if anything lay in our path." A fog bell that will project its tones forward instead of upward or backward, and an elec tric light which will pierce the ocean mists to some reasonable distance in advance of a steamer, are crying necessities for ocean travel just at present - Hot to speak of en gines that will stop a vessel as speedily as Stir brakes do a rrUroad car. flew York varki. , fc.-, : : A PHYSICIAN'S HEROISM. How T)r. Beard Approached bUtotutlon. Dying Like a Helen tlkU Dr. Beard approached dissolution as a scientist Liko Mr. Palmer, he was an agnos tic who neither denied nor afilrnied the pos sibility of those things which to sacred men are deemed certainties. Dr. Beard, though an alnist who made great reputation in the treatment of nervous and mental diseases of others, carried his own nerves on his cuticle. He was high strung, capable of periods of great mental exhilaration and a man of su preme intellectual courage. When it was erilous, even physically perilous, for any body to doubt the sanity of Guiteau, Beard, utterly careless of the threatened loss of hi practice and even his life, gave to tho wretch a most exhaustive examination, both before and lxhiud tho prison bars, and he staked his reputation on tho assertion that the poor wretch was tho victim of irresjMjnsible delu sion that would make his hanging a judicial murder, and ho did not flinch in assorting this then most obnoxious opinion. Only a few months later Beard laid down upon his bed in an uptown hotel to die. Pneumonia had fastened upon his delicate lungs, and ho knew that his illness was mor tal. Did he then bewuil his fate, cut off in his prime, and when his life pluns were far reaching, and aimed for the benefit of man kind? Instead, ho dictated to his wife his experiences as a sufferer. Ho jotteJ tl'J,-n with fe;ble hand what Beard. 'T'jUectiml made of Beard moribund- nd whou his breath came fast o.O fc"uor't an,i wjth the agony of pain f-n ec, inhalation ho still made effort 0 preserve his experience with thy I'Zpo that physicians might thereby loarn something of this disease which would 1: !p them master it win ii ollu-r were uldicuxi. Once when he returned from the realms of unconsciousness ho made feeble effort to tell its story, and the only agony ho seemed to suffer during his illncssarose from his failure more fully and satisfactorily to preserve the record of his illness. We have read of suicides who with curious intent have swallowed poison or filled their lungs wito noxious gas and have set down in a diary their impressions until the words be came vague, the lines faint, and then the pencil dropped. And such record possesses a ghastly fascination for those who read it, like tho echo of one who shouts as he passes over the Btyx; but Beard thought he was serving humanity when he gave his last mo ments to the record of his dying experience, and he was right. Physicians have read that record with profit and perhaps have been enabled to save lives thereby. New York, Evening Sun. Making, a Quick R;ii. A big steamer came into this port the other day, having made an amazing quick run for her last day out. One of tho officers, in speaking of the trip, said; "When we took our pilot aboard, 40Q miles off shore, we had just time to get up to the harbor within the doctor's hours by running our very best If we missed the doctor we would have to lie below tho city all night, with nearly 1,000 passengers on board. We determined to make the run. The whele force of stokers was put to passing coal from hand to. hand, and every lump free from dust before tho furnaces. By doing was brushed it went into this we made certain that tho coal would take fire at onco and that the furnaces would not be loadod with clinkers. Tho men worked like steam engines, with tho promise of an extra allowance for each, and we reeled that 400 miles off liko a dream. We caught the doc tor in time and got our passengers ashore before night The company was several hundred dollars in pocket by its saving on their keep for twelve hours, everybody was pleased, and the old ship got a feather in her cap for having shown tho cleanest pair of heels sho had ever showu since she was built It was an exciting run, but it wouhl uavo been more exciting for any v2Sii to have got in our way. Going as we did, wo could have sliced a full rigged nhlp in half like a knife cutting through a now cheese." Alfred Trumblo in New VSrk News. Reported Gould Superstitions. Some littlo lima ago you induced some mo tors and actresses to make some touching confidences about tho superstitions that swayed them. That such an emotional being as an Ellen Terry should sometimes be governed by omens, might be expected, but who would havo thought that the Napoleon of finance, Jay Gould, would give way to such ridiculous fads J It U said that if you watch him as ho starts to go up or down staiis of tha elevated station you will in variably see him place his left foot on the first step, even if ho has to get out of stepto do it. If by accident or throiigh foX. mindodnes3 Mr. Gould should. t off with his right foot, hejs "u torecollect it hflforwjsiui''- tne top of tho stairs, and he 1.er fails to return and start over again. Another reported peculiarity of the wizard is his distasto to blonde men. His children are all of a dusky kue, and his wife is as dark as any of them. All the clerks in Mr. Gould's office, and there are a dozen of them, are of dark complexion. Most of them have jet black mustaches and long hair, and the office might be taken for a little section of Mexico. There is not a light featured clerk in Mr. Gould's immediate employ, and his friends say that he does not care to do business with men who have yellow mus taches or very light hair. Pall Mall Budget. A Crippled Xewsboy's Music. The tall building of the Newsboys' home formed the background, and beneath its friendly walls sat a little cripple. His crutches were discarded for the moment, as he sat at rest Around were tho busy trucks, the hurrying men aud all tho buzz and hum of city life. In the distance the elevated cars rumbled and rattled, and the very air seemed filled with an endless din and noise but the boy sat unconscious of it alL In his hands was a piece of rubber hose and he held one end of it to his mouth. No found from it was apparent, except to him self, but bis preoccupied manner and perserv erance proved that it was a source of amuse ment His cheeks were inflated and his fingers danced up and down the solid piece of hose, as if he were a musician and the whole world listened to the melody which he made. But nothing reached the ear of any except the player, still he kept on un tired unwearied lost in self. New York Even ing Sun. One of France's General. Gen. Carrey de Bcllemare, one of the officers who in the event of a war between Germany and France are to command the rrH" divisions of the French army, is said to have been the only commander who, on the eve of the capitulation of Sedan, declared in the council of war in favor of an attempt to break through the German lines. It is related that one of the generals who called upon him after the council found him clad in peasant's garb and busily engaged in removing his whiskers. "Well, what are you doing f asked his visitor. "I don't intend to go to Germany," replied Be lie mare; "I am going to Paris. Our time has come now; we are going to have the republic" - BelZemare repaired to Paris and obtained a command in the army dsTrs tie cspitiL ZTiw "Ycrk Post. The Plattsmouth Herald Ic on joying a EDITIONS. The Year Will le one during which the subjects of national interest and importance will he strongly agitated and the flection of a President will take place. The people of Cass County who would like to learn of Political, Commercial and Social Transactions of this year and would keep apace with the times should SUBSC RIBE -FOU Daily or Weekly Herald Now while we have the subject before the people we will venture to speak ot our 133 l u m Which is first-class in all respects and from which our job printers are turning out much satisfactory work. PLATTSMOXJTIT, Boom in both, ito AND WBEKLIT 1888 EITIIEK TIIK mi NEBRASKA. ERjTd