TJC DAILY ULilALD: vUlTJQOin, xt.wCANK A, THURSDAY, JUKE 14 1SS8. 70MAN AND HOME. A LONE GIRL'S HARDSHIPS IN THE GREAT METROPOLIS. A Hint to Wire No the Age for Blar- ring -A Chapter on Drew Simple I'lru- rvm Co ITe axul Tea Serraate lilondca. IlAUlO. Behind the counter of a crowded fab Ion able store, to the ruh and hurry of the busy f juLcr worton. a girl suddenly staggered and fell lii a convulsive swoon. A kindly dis fMieod person Inquired who sho was. Ho one knew only tbo name sbe had given tbem on her roeent arrival. Whore dij ho come from! No one knew. Where did the llvof Ktill no answer. She was taken home in a burning fever to a garret, where a very old and feeble mother received her with fright ened sobs. A well known benevolent lady in tbo city, whoso name heads many a charity list, and wboHe unknown gifts to the unfor tunate each year exceeds a king's ransom, heard of the case and went to the relief of the sufferer. Strong men carried Imt down the rickety stairs in their arms, while the aged mother followed weeping, and in one of the hand.-wmest carriages on the avenue the girl was taken to tlio shelter of a beautiful hotie. All through her delirium she was begging for cars and stages to stop for her, and ei- claiming tiiat she would lose fifty cents if she was three minutes late. Investigation revealed that the girl liad come to the city from a country homo, destitute and un known. In tho hope of finding employment by which sho might support herself and her mother. After many disappoint ments sho obtained this place at (3..V) a week, from which fifty cents was taken each time khe was lute, and on which the two wo men had subsisted for mouths as best they couhL Overworked and poorly fed, she had fallen at her employer's feet unconscious, and ho had paid no attention to her until tbo wealthy woman went to him, aud on threatening exposure in the paiK-rs luduced him to pay the girl's salary through her ill ness. Tliis story Is ono of hundreds equally tragic which might be told of tlw exericnces of girls coming to this city each year for em ployment. From every stato in tho Union, horn distant cities, from rural towns, and from foreign countries over the sea, girbi come in throng3 to New York, attracted by advertisements or instigated by the thought that in so large a city remunerative aud con genial employment may be obtained by simply asking for it. Most of them have very little money and no idea of the exjien.-e incident to living in New York iu a resjwt nblo, not to say comfortable, way. Most of their information concerning city life is gathered from novels and newspaper Bfc7-jes wnere tne neroine lnv- anda somaoue at the depot waiting to give her a place ns companion to a wealthy way, whose only son the girj invariably marries in the pext to the last chapter. New York Sun. If Wives TVoul.l Only Think. If wives would only wait and think and plan, and not blurt out at their husbands at every little thing which displeases thorn, this queer animal would not so often get balky. It is too bad that ho needs such careful hand ling, but ns the fact remains that he does women might as well accommodate them selves to it. Never try to regulate your hus band. When a woman complains that her hus band leaves boots or clothes or soiled towels ground In places where they don't belong, or Ihnt he i3 always spattering gravy on the clean cloth or serving the worst piece of moat to tho guest, or eating with his knife, then I know that either the woman has not br.n an observer or that she is selfish. If she looked about her sbe would observe that r.ien are all more or less alike, and that they are groat big good hearted boys, mot of thnm, who can be bandied beautifully if we re only sort of comfortable and easy with them. I knoTr a woman, several of them in fact, whow husbands have marked peculiarities; don't believe in "style," scrape the salad off the salad plate and "mux" it up with other things, dip a piece of bread into tho gravy in tho aiat platter, aqd yet all these peculiari ties are passed quietly, because those hus bands will not be regulated, and because you either htive to live alone on the island of women, boar with the peculiarities of the lord of creation or "ding dong" the whole livlong tim a:i i what is more ill bred or despicable than a nagging woman! No, don't try to regulate your husbands, pirl. Learn to enjoy the fruit even though it be not absolutely without flaw; eat around the placa you dont enjoy and cultivate a more comfortable jog. What do you care if your basKind does invite a friend the very day you don't happen to have the best things? Offer with a good cheer what you have. What do you caro if he lies down on tho counterpane? Well, may be you care, but then it doesn't pay to fuss about it; slip a newspaper under Id's boots, and let him sleep. What do you caro if he asks for more cutlet the very day he Ir'ng9 an unexpected friend, and is told there is only enough for once around. The world doesn't revolve on a cutlet. What do you care if ho has a fashion of leaving open every bureau drawer, collar box and any other receptacle from which he takes any thing? By that I mean if you do care you won't keep wrangling and jangling all the time. 1 know plenty of sweet, sensible women who do not reprove their husbands for worse things than 1 have mentioned, be muse it Is too-fcite to cure the disease, and they gracefully accept and groan in spirit, if they groan at all. Louise Markscheffel in Toledo Commercial. A Clmpter on Dress. The necessity of thick dressing that follows upon living i'i naif warmed bouses Is seldom regarded as an injury, but is one which tells most oa a woman when sbe needs every point in her faror. Few women reach SO or 35 without spinal strain, from having children, or from accident or over exertion in some shape. Nerve ailments and "working on jpntt'a nerves" draw directly on the spinal chord and exhaust it, one marked effect of which is that compression aud weight of clothing become intolerable. A spirited, active, healthy girl feels good in her snug corset and heavily trimmed skirt, which serves to balance and trim her free move ment like the weight on the heels of a trot ting borse, if you allow the apt comparison. But when the drafts of life nave told on the lowered vitality, the first symptom, per haps, will bo the unbearable weight of clothes, of bedding and boot heels, while a close fitting glove is' enough to cause faint pesa. This comes of no Cue lady airs, but is a well recognized effect of that spina dis order whose outcome is locomotor ataxia and being bed ridden for life.. The nerves of bands and feet specially, being farthest from the- heart pump, are least nourished in the famine of uerve force, and pressure and weight of shoes or gloves cut off still more f the feeble circulation, till the nerve cen ters, teljgraphed speedily, feel the reflex in Jury and share in the exhaustion. This tells fearfully on looks. The hollowed eyes, the drawn mouth, the sinking of the features and contraction of the eve all tell. of sympathetic strain. If you ever bad to fit la a cramped posture till your limbs acbM, you know the habitual feeling of these lesser spine troubles. The cure Is simply making the wotnan com fortable In every least point, mental or bodily, and keeping her so till the strained muscles regain themsel vea. The grasshopper is a bur don; off with quilted skirts of farmers satin or silk, and replace there In the down petti coats or the quilted woof, which Is almost as light. Change the lined and plaited dress skirt, whose weight Is mostly the wiggans and cambrics of the lining, and wear India twills or swausdown flannels for dresses and cloakings till strong enough to carry a plush cloak without feeling it. She must be a woman of poor taste and Invention wbo can not make au invalid's simpler dress becoming, and wear It with a distinction of Its own. If you can't bear the weight of Jet, wear lace. If you can't carry grosgruin, wear India silk or surah. It is the unnecessary burdens women carry that crush out their beauty aud their youth. Shirloy Dare. Not the Age for Marriage. But, however the mother of a son may look at the subject of early marriages, the mother of a daughter is Justified, it seems to me, in a rather docided opposition to them. If, in stead of being a great and happy portion of the school of life, marriage constituted the wholo of it, or life existed only for the sake of marriage, still those entering its portals must be the better for suitable preparation. 1 am unable to suppose that at the age of IS or 20 any preparation has been sufficient. Tho age is lovely in its tenderness, aud en chanting with its illusions; but wisdom wears a Beverer fuce, and marriago deals with stern facta Some girls there may le, of rare abil ity, who are competent to take upon their young shoulders tho responsibility of a house, its work, or the direction of tho$e who do its work ; the oversight of a husband's wardrobe, the bearing and nursing of children, the phy sical attention to them in health and in sick ness, and tho daily direction of their moral and mental education, together with all the other indoor and outdoor cares incidental to the position of one who is the head of a fam ily, and who has the happiness of a home and a husband on her heart and conscience. But these cases are few and exceptional, and the great multitudes of girls under 20 are not equal to such a strain upon nerve and muscle without an an-esfc of development. A few years later they may remember themselves at that ago as still children; they may feel some reproach toward those who had laid upon them such a burden greater thai) children should bear. Before '40 a girl has hardly had the chance to receive the complote instruction from text books to which sbe lias a right, to say not Ing of the domestic eduoatioa the needle, tha uIlU t-- - " kitchen. chnuco f n; she has had little .ouni anything of the world of hu man nature; she has intuitions, not exnorl. enees; she has lived more with dreams and uioais tnon with realities. She mav mto charming wife at first, and a tender mother al ways, maternal instinct and solicitude taking the place of all the superiority that added j ears miguc nave given. But she must atnn there, taxed to the utmost; she has no lime, nor strength, and nerhans an in. clination grows by use no inclination to read, to study, to keep pace with a husband's advance, or even to appreciate it I will not say that when, in a few years, she has lost the ap.V-arance of youth, when she has no more fresh color and a smooth face, when a pi eny tones no longrer becomes her. the hn- band who continues to cherish her will take credit to himself for doinz so: but it is evi dent that she encounters the danger of this feeling on his part. Philadelphia Press. Commonplace Pleasures of life. That person who has lost his ability to en joy the simple, unpretentious, commonplace pleasures or me nas lost a very precious thing indeed. 1 have in my mind now a few men and women of the world who must keep luemseives tonea up witn unusual excite ments, who uo longer find anythins: to laueh at, anything to weep over, and who are not to be moved by any ordinary joys and sor rows, inese people nave sawdust hearts. They cannot smile over the spectacle of little children dancing, over simple home happen lngs, over boys at play. Everything for them must be in the superlative degree, and that is very sad indeed. If we teach our children nothing else wo should surely teach them to think of thiugs outside their own home circle, and to understand the subtle sweetness of that touch of nature that makes the whole world kin. We aro apt as we grow in prosperity and in fashionable ways to attempt to outgrow theso commonplace joys of life. The fash ionable entertainment, with all its detail of toilette, and curfs, and flowers, and dance programmes and menus, outrank In import ance the simpler amusements and methods that contented us in earlier days. And yet what stately reception was ever so warming to the heart as the birthday celebrated quietly, with only near and dear ones for guests; what expensive opera box ever gave more pleasure than a Sunday evening concert at home; what grand political triumph, what wonderful literary success was as sweet to the heart as the hullabaloo loving ones can make over a new baby Catharine Colo in New Orleans Picayune. How to Treat Servants. The one great rule of treating servants has been put in a very few plain words by a grand, sweet hearted young wife, who hag "entertained" all classes and conditions of servitude during five years of housekeeping, and has never to her knowledge been robbed of a penny. "I go on the principle," she says, "that other people are as honest as I am, barring those who show signs of 'trickiness' of any sort. Those 1 discharge at once. If I find a girl jumping up and making a great show of industry when I enter a room, I loss my faith in her. "An honest, straightforward person I try to impress with my own frankness. I tell her only this, that she has come to work for me, agreeing to do her best; that I will be as kind to her as I can; that if she is in trouble to let me know, and that I am obliged to let those who are with me assume a great deal of responsibility, and all that I ask is that she will try and protect ray interests and in every way do as much for me as sho would like to have any one do for her if she were in my place. That is all I say about it. If I wish to go through my servants' rooms, I do so smilingly and quite as a matter of course. In Gve years I may have had a maid or two who liked to put a bit o my white heliotrope on her handkerchief of a Sunday afternoon, but nothing worse." Frank Les lie's. To Blake Coffee and Tea. It seems a bit odd that so many people, either from lack of understanding of what gives the odor and flavor to coffee and tea or from carelessness, prepare them in just the way that is calculated to get rid of the vola tile matters whose aroma and tastes are so highly prized. The chief part of the art of making good coffee or tea is to dissolve the soluble matters, and at the same time not lose those that are volatile. The long steeping at high temperature, commonly practiced in making tea and coffee, U an effective way for expelling the volatile oils. To keep them In bpt water just long enough to dissolve out the alkaloids and other soluble compounds, and In a tightly closed vessel, so as to prevent the escape of the volatile substances, are very Important factors In the making of a good cup of tea or coffee. The guests at the table of an acquaintance of mine not long since were unusually pleased with the tea, and surprised to learn that It was bought at the same store, and was, in fact, the same tliat some of them were using at home. It transpired tliat the tea had been kept in a tight' box until used, and had been' prepared by a proceu which one of the family had learned in Germany. This consisted simply' in pouring boiling water upon the tea, covering the pot tightly with a cloth, setting it upon a part of the stove where it would not boil, and serving after a very short time. The towel helped to keep the water warm and the aroma from escaping, and the tea when brought to the table was most excellent. Of course, things of this sort are of uo great consequence. Perhaps most of us would be lietter olf if we did not drink either tea or coffee, but if wo are going to use them we might as well have the flavor, tvhich, I supose, is the least in jurious mrt- Professor W. O. At water in Tho Century. Outdoor LIT for Blondes. Now, what blondes of all sorts need to lay to heart is the indispensable necessity for them of outdoor Ufa Not hours of amuse ment at teiln is, or walking or driving, but living out of doors and In tho sunshine when it shines at alL They have tho capacity for large vitality, and the source of all that is vital is the sun. They should never choose indoor employment, as clerks or teachers, but turn gardeners, walking agents or market women in preference, like the wiry, flaxen haired German girl I know, once maid to a lady of rank, who married a young farmer and drove round to sell the produce. In her fresh, trim, linen gown ami shade hat she dressed the part perfectly, and, with the light, spring wagon and good horse, driving over the Bergen hills to carry her golden but ter and ruddy pears or early salads, she was as much in place, ladylike and pleasant a creature as one could wish a woman to be. The time is coming when susceptible women, as all blondes aro, will not 6hut themselves up in school keeping or house keeping, to grow acid, wrinkled aud (urry faced before they are 80, but take to them selves little acres to grow fruits and flowers, under intelligent and profitable "high cul ture." Shirley Dam The Sunday Gaea A guest who Is osieri - at a couatrv stay over bunday no i - -ouse should always hold hirn- .. at the disposal of the hostess. If she pro poses a plan of action he should fall in with it, and yet he should not be a heavy weight. He must be ready to walk, read, write letters, take himself off if he sees that be is not wanted, and the best hostess is she who sees to it that, while her guest is taken care of, he has no suspicion that he is b aag entertained. The charm of a country neighborhood should be in its ease, and while a good natured host and hostess place their grounds, their horses and carriages, and their servants at the disposition of their guests, the greatest care should be observed by the guest to not presume on this; to observe the family hours. Some people are "born visitors" they have the tact to perceive when they are wanted and when not; they allow the hostess to get off to write her letters; they are gay and amusing. Such a visitor is in great demand. M. E. W. Sherwood. The Value of Beauty. The women of today are more and more learning the value of beauty; not merely beauty of form and face, but the beauty of health and the charm attained by a womanly, gentle disposition. Long diatribes have been written on how the fashionable girl is cared for; most of them display little knowledge of the set that is supposed to practice the art of caring for beauty or else positive ignorance of the art itself. If the fashionable mother only allowed the beauty sleep, the bath and rubbing to the daughter already "out she would display very little care, for thought must be devoted to a daughter's appearance from the time when well when she is put in a tiny bassinette where the blue ribbons tell of sex. Philadelphia Times. Rest After Exercise. It is a universal habit with English women to take a few minutes' absolute rest after any continued exercise. An English girl is taught to lie down at full length and close her eyes for ten or fifteen minutes in a dark ened room after a long walk or ride or game of tennis, and, what is more, she is mode to realize the benefit of not talking during the little rest. Perfect quiet of mind and body she thus gets at least twice daily. "S. S. E. M." in Chicago Herald. In a .severe sprain of the ankle immerse the joint as soon as possible in a pail of hot water, and keep it there for fifteen or twenty minutes. Alter removing it keep it baud- aged with hot cloths wrung out of water, or ruin and water. There is a kind of water that will soon scald little furrows adown the cheeks and about the eyes, and that is the pearly tear. If a woman cannot control the operations of the tear pump sbe must reconcile herself to a wrinkled face. To take rust out of steel rub the steel with sweet oil; in a day or two rub with finely powdered unslaked linio until the rust all disappears; then. oil again, roll in woollen aud put in a dry place, especially if it be table cutlery. . In nervous prostration, rest and sleep aro the first indispensable conditions. A change is always in order to make them possible. The diet must be generous, the food well mas ticated and eaten slowly. Watch the children in regard to health matters. Many delicately born children have been reared to strength and usefulness by careful adherence to hygienic rules. For cleaning brass use a thin paste of plate powder, two tablespoonfuls vinegar, four ta blespoonfuls of alcohol. Rub with a piece of flannel; polish with chamois, In mixing mustard for table use never add vinegar, which destroys life and flavor. Boil water for moistening it, and then let the water become blood warm. The best way when bot grease has been spilled on a floor is to dash cold water over it, so as to harden it quickly and prevent it striking into the boards. To make a soothing (not nourishing) ma terial for a drink in cases of irritation of the throat and stomach, dissolve a table- spoonful of gum arabio In half a pint of warm water and let it cooL A sick child is much more comfortable on a large rocking chair or its bed than in any person s lap, and can be attended to much more easily. A gate swinging free upon its hinges iscer tainly more lasting than if suffered to drag upon the ground, and has a more hospitable look to a visitor. A STRANGE WAR DUEL HOW A FEDERAL AND A CONFEDER ATE SCOUT SETTLED MATTERS. Guarding a Hrtdge la East Tenneonco. Mow the Question of Possession Yai Decided Navy I'lxtol at Tweuty Yards. The Ilesults I'eace. On the I2th of June, 1SC3, I witnessed a duel between Capt. Jones, commnmlin;; a Federal scout, and Capt. Fry, commanding a Confederate scout, in (Jreen county. Er st Ten nessee. These two men had been fightiug each other for six months, with tho fortunes of battle in favor of ono and then the oilier Their conmiamU were encamped on either side of Lick creek, a lanre and sluiri.-h stream, too deep to ford and too shallow for a ferry loat, but there a bridge 8(niinod tho stream for tho convenience of the traveling public. Euch of them guarded this bridge, that communication should go neither uorlti nor south, as the railroad track had been broken up months before. After fighting each other several months ami contesting the point as to which should hold tho bridge, they agreed to fight a duel, the conqueror to hold the bridge undisputed for tho time being. Jones gave tho chullengo and Fry accepted. The terms were that they should fight with navy pistols at twenty yards apart, deliber ately walking toward each other and firing until the last chamber of their pistols vvus discharged, unless ono or thj other fell lfore all tho discharges wore made. Thoy chose their seconds and agreed upon a Confcderutu surgeon (as ho was tho only ono in either com mand; to attend thorn in ruse of (!-;ti'vt Jones was cerUtiuly u line looking fellow, with light hair and blue eyes, 5 feet 10 inches in height, looking every inch tho military chieftain. Ha was a man soldiers would ad mire and ladies regard with admiration. I never saw a man more cool, determined and heroic under such circymtauees. I have read of the deeds; of chivalry and knight errantry in the Middle Ages and brave men embalmed in modern poesy, but when I saw Jones come to the duelists' scratch, fighting, not for real or supposed wrongs to himst lf, but. cs ho honestly thought, for lii i-rum- and the glory of tho Hag, I co, y udiniriu2 thernun. notwHfc ' not help for the f recdoT" poser - .standing ho fought oi the negro, which I was ojv BRAVE, COOL, COLLECTED. Fry was a mau fully six feet high, slender, with long, wavy, curling hair, jet black eyes, wearing a slouch hat and cray suit, aud looked rather th demon than tha man. There was nothing ferocious about hira, but he had that self sufficient nonchalance that said. "I will kill you." Without a do:ibt he was brave, cool and collected, and although sufferinz from a terrible flesh wound in his left arm, received a week before, ho mani fested no symptom of distress, but seemed ready for the light. Tho ground was stepped off by the seconds, pistols loaded aud exchanged, and the princi pals brought face to face. They turned nround and walked back to the point designated. Jones' second had the word "Fire," and as he slowly said "One two threo fire!" they simultaneously turned at tho word "One" and instantly fired. Neither was hurt. They cocked their pistols and deliberately walked toward euch other, firing as they wont. At the fifth shot Jones threw up his right hand, and, firing his pis tol in the air, sank down. Fry was in the act of firing his last shot, but, seeing Jones fall, silently lowered his pistol, dropped it on the ground and sprang to Jones' sido, taking his head in his lap as he sat down, and asking him if was hurt. I discovered that Jones was shot through tho region of the stomach, the bullet glaucing around that organ and coming out to the left of the spinal column; besides ho had re ceived three other frightful flosh wounds in other portions of tho body. I dressed his wounds and gave him such stimulants 03 I had. Ho afterwards got welL Fry. received three wounds ono breaking his right arm, one the left, and tho other in the right sido. After mouths of suffering he got well and fought the war out to the bitter end, and todaj tho two are partners in a wholesale grocery business, and certifying thesentimeut of Byron that "a soldier braves death," etc Confederate Surgeou in Georgia U uioiu AVell tJp In His 1'art. She was a woman of ready resource. While the hour was late, two or three evening vis itors yet tarried, and the moment she heard her husband striko the steps she knew that he was boozy, and also grasped her line of conduct. "Ha, ha!" sho laughed, as she rose up, "he cometh. He has beeu out rehearsing for am ateur theatricals, and it will be just like him to try to show of?. He takes the part of u Maj. Springer, who conies home fulL" A hand was heard clawing over the door; a key was finally jabbed in tho lock, and then the major entered. His hat was tipped back, his knees wabbled, and he hung to the door aud muttered: "Whaz zhis I shoo 'fore me? Shay, E:n"ly, whazzer doing, eh?" "De-lightfull splendid!" cried the wife as she clapped her hands. "Why, Harry, you are a grand success in your role!" "Whazzhatl Whazzer lafiin"bout? First time been zhruuk in two years. Had lizzie time wiz zhe boys, you know!" "Bc-autifulr Booth couldn't beat itf ex claimed the wife. "Why, dear, you are a bom actor. It's just as natural as life." "Who shays I'm a liarl Whoop! I can lick any man ia troitl Been out wiz 'er boys, you know! Shay, Em'lyf "Isn't he natural, though V replied the wife. "Run upstsairs, Harry, and change jour clothes. You'll da Nothing could bo more perfect." "Chazo (hie) clozes! No, zurl Chaza noz zing! Upstairs! Yes, go up shtairs. Good (hie) nizo, Em'ly. Reg'lar angeL Been ouz wiz er boys, you know!" And tho little woman clapped her hands and laughed and praised, and got rid of her company under the impression that no one had smelt n mice. However, the last ono was hardly off the step, when she bounced up stairs and confronted the bedazed man with the exclamation: "Now, then, you old demijohn, prepare to get tho worst wolloping a fool of a hus band was ever treated to!" And he got it. Detroit Free Press. How One Druminer Keeps Warm. Said a traveling man in the Palmer house the other day: "I never order a fire in tny room at a country hoteL I carry a warming apparatus along which is both convenient and not costly to myself. See?" And be pulled out a pair of nippers and a gas burner which would throw a flame at least soven Inches wide. "It's this 'ayt" he continued. "I register and go to my room. The burner is, of course, plugged with cotton so that you can't get. enough light to Gee the bed by. 1 yank it oil with my nippers, screw on my own patent appliance, and then sit by the window and watch the city gas tank sink down toward the ground while my room gets warm." Chicago Herald. DON'T READ THIS ! Unless You want to know where to et t Iu; Jlet "Out-li" BOOTS AND SHOES I We are now oilering Special Price in 4 And the must we rule ourselves on is our excellent line of Ladies' Hand-Turned Shoes At tlicir Present Low Prices. Ladies looking fr eueli a Shoe should not fail to call on W- A, BOECiC e Plattsmouth Js 23. joying aBoomin "both, its EDITIONS. The Will he one during which the subjects of national interest and importance will be strongly agitated and the . election of a President will take place. The people of Cass County who would like to learn of Political, Commercial and Social Transactions of this year and woiild keep apace with the times should fois ixniKii Tin; Daily or Weekly Herald. Now while we have the subject before the people we will venture to speak of our Which is first-class in all respects and from which our job printers are turning out much satisfactory work. PLATTSMOUTH, I'iirguin in G Herald L888 ear fin M NEBRASKA.