Capital city courier. (Lincoln, Neb.) 1885-1893, April 16, 1892, Image 3
CAPITAL CITY COURIER, SATURDAY APRIL 16, 1892. t The Next Number Especially Goodi TALB9 FROM f Town Topics READ BY ALL MKN AND WOMEN. 1 PublUhml flrat Amy of ftrrvtnher, Marcfv 1 Junt, and September. DELICATE, DAINTY. WITTY, INTENtK. Krery reputable Bewi aad book stand baa It. Price, Ingtr nnmber, M CENTO. Sa.OO I'lCR YKAK, pottage fKKK. Thb brilliant Quarterly eproditcm the brat atorica, aketcbea, burleaqiiea, poems, wlttl clsrrw, etc , from tbe back tmmbrn of that much Ulked-abotit New York Bocletjr Journal, Town Tot-tea, which ! publlnbrU tcttkly, Sub scription price, fJ 00 per year. The two publications "Town Torica" and "Tii mo Town Torica" together, at tbo low club-price of $S 00 per year. Aak your newsdealer for them or addms, TOWN TOPICS, SI WW. !d Street, N. Y. Clt Santa Fe Route ! Atcbison, Topeka & Santa Fe R. R The Popular Route to the Pacific Coast. Through Pullman and Tourist Sleepers Between Knnsns City nnd SAN DIEGO, LOS ANGELES, nnd SAN FRAN CISCO. 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Pretty nearly all of theno lot terx are from nmbltiotiH young gontlo mon in Binnll towns who are delrous tf fonniug 11 Four Hundred of their own. Invariably they nro of gotnl family, en joying oxcollent nodal jtrlvilegeit, but, not knowing to roin-s, thoy aro unable to estnlilinh thouiRolveti at tlio head ol tho proceHHion. Henco thoy turn to th great arbiter of American Bocioty for coutmel, and in mich num1orH do their mtalvcM como that Mr. McAllle tor, if ho attempted to answer them all, would Uo comitelletl to hire a herotury to look af ter thLs cIiihh of correHpoudeuco alone. Slnco be iHsned his famotm ukiiHO, di viding the original Four Hundred into an "inner circle" of 150, an "outer circle" and a "fringe," theo communication!! huvo Iwon particularly numeroiut. Tho incident nurvctl to revive general inter est in the peculiar hold which tho chief of tho Four Hundred has on hit) follow er in thu giddy whirl, and naturally re quest h for instruction an to tho best means of climbing tho ladder of Hocial fumo huvo increased. For tho benefit of his numerous corresiHUidents, 110110 of whom could otherwise lie instructed at his hands, Mr. McAllister consented re cently to an interview on the subject of how society and society leaders may best bo built lip. "It is tho easiest thing in tho world, ' said he, "for a man, young or old, to become n society leader and to build up a distinct society. But it requires a great many uncommon qualities, nnd unless ho itossesses these ho will 1kj wiser if ho leaves thu task nlono. Ho must possess push, tho faculty of organization nnd administration, finu powers of diplo macy, pci feet tact, u thorough knowl edge of men and tho capacity to make enemies with equanimity. "Certain people of wealth and influ enco.will ho found in every community who nro in every way ineligible for ad mission into good society. These per sons nro ufajlntely certain to visit nil their resentment on tho bend of tho man who is looked uon as tho organizer of tho set from which they have licen ex cluded, and naturally thoy will do all in their power to injure him. Therefore, tho ability to ucnr tho attacks of ouo mies is particularly essential, to a man who wnnts to assumo society leadership. Given this ability, and Iteing in iwsses siou of tho other qualities I have enu merated, tho goal enn w readied by fol lowing a very bimplo lino of procedure. "In the first place, tho aspirant wants to 1)0 particular in his dress. I don't mean that ho shall ho a dudo or a dandy, but ho wnnts to bo always well dressed and cultivate especially n hubit of wear ing evening attire with ease and grace. There is nothing that tends no much to tho pleasures of socioty as tho dress coat. In America the people aro far behind Europe in this matter. There it is real ized that nothing helps so much in throwing off tho cares of business as oveniug approaches as tho changing of one's clotho.1, tho laying oft of one's workday uniform as it were. No Eng lishman vhr pretends to bo at all fash ionable will think of sitting down to dinner unless ho is attired in his swal low tail, oven when ho dines in his own houso surrounded only by his family. "Of courso this is not to bo looked for hero for some time to como yet, especial ly in small communities, but it will bo found plensant as well as iollto to change ono'ueoat for dinner at homo and put on n fresh shirt, This will lead naturally to tho dress coat ns an ha bitual easy evening attire, and tho man who wants to step out of the social ranks to tho front will do well to set a good example to tho )ersons whom ho wishes to lead hy wearing a dress coat on all suitahlo occasions. Tlio others will fol low in much lebs tinio than teems pos sible, and tho change in bearing and de portment that will como over the com pany is certain to be most marked. "But as a matter of course tho wear ing of a dress coat and tho habit sf dressing for dinner will not in itselt mnko 11 society leader. Thoy aro only incidents, though very essential. Tho main thing is to create the best clcmcnU of a place into a distinct and, as far a permissible, an exclusive circle. This can bo done without the possession or expenditure of wealth by tho proper per son, by tho organization of subscription entertainments that is, entertainments where everybody pays his or her share of tho expenses. These entertainments may take a wido range and aro to ho adapted to tho season. In summer thoy can tako tho shape of picnics, excur sions, outdoor luncheons and dances. "When fall and winter arrive, balh, dinners and other suitable aiTairs may bo substituted. It is tho duty of the ier son who desires to le looked up to as 11 leader to start these entertainments and see that they aro made iiermaueut. Onco tho beginning is made they will run along of their own accord, almost without an effort, anil become recog nized bocial institutions of the place. To inaugurate them a list of tint most desirable people should bo carefully pre pared, In this work it may bo found necessary to exclude agieat many peo ple who hao money, but aro otherwise vulgar and unfit for intimate social re lations with careful ladies and gentle men. Uulct-H this is douu the attempt to form anything like an harmonious ho ciety M't will prove a failure. "On the other hand a largo number of people who nro poorer than their more fort mm to uolghbors wilt bo found de sirable acquisitions bocauso of ruim rior manners and attainments nnd fam ily connection!). It Is hero where tlio tact and diplomacy and knowledge of human nnturo will Walled sharply into requisition. Tho list lieing made up and rovliod a number of times, tho next step is to circulate among thu people con cerned ami secure their active co-o(era-tlon and support. This Is tho easiest matter in thu world, The jteoplo aro only too happy to help along an under taking of this kind and will eagerly aid n man who has tho force nnd push to lead them. Subscriptions to the differ ent events will como almost without an effort, and each successive event will lte easier to manage than tho one that has gone tieforo. "After the first affair has come off it may Imi desirable to weed out the list of oliglhlcH. and this should lm done relent lessly, though tho ill feeling on tho part of those set aside may lo greater ami harder to bear than if thoy had Iteenloft out in tho first place. But that must not deter tho man who has set tHo task of creating a Four Hundred before bin eyes, and if ho is only steadfast and de termined and jKtlitic, ho will soon feel that the wrath of tho slighted will glide over him as easily as other letty trou bles, of life. Additions to tho ranks may lm made from time to time as circum stances may dictate, but they should only 1m) Hindu with tho greatest circum spection with more circumspection in fact than tho formation of the original list, for it will Ito found much more dif ficult to weed out newcomers than it was to weed out tho old. "This point reached, tho man who has been the active spirit in organizing these subscription a Hairs can rest assuicdthut tho battle is won, and unless ho spoils it all by Homo imprudence or by lotting go his hold, his position as tlio recognized society leader of the place is assured. But eternal vigilance is tlio price of suc cess in the social world as well as else where, and if he wants to retain his leadership ho must make up his mind to sacrifice a great deal of time nnd to submit to a great many annoy ances at the hands of tho jealous and disappointed. He must adapt himself to changes that are constantly occur ring, and bo wideawake generally." Ami with that the great McAllister ex cused himself to give audience to a num ber of New York society reporters who were waiting in tho drawing room out sldo, thereby furnishing another good point for would bo creators of "select circles," namely, cultivate tho society reiwrter. Paul Latzku. CHIEF OF THE VANDERBILTS. He Ik u ftrntti-imui of Altlllt)', (looil In tention hikI (irrnt WeHltli. Sjivcln! C'orrvsiMinilcutv.l New Yokk, April 1 1. Cornelius Van tlcrbilt, who was named after his grand father, the old commodore, has nothing in common with him but financial abil ity (tho commodore's whole life was con secrated to tho accumulation of money), being 11 well rounded, large minded, highly estimable character. He is at forty-five tlio head and controlling spirit of tho present generation of Vanderbilts, his brothers, William K. and Frederick H., following usually in his loud; while tho youngest brother, George, is not in business nt all, confining himself entirely to study. Imagine what a recreant scion ot monetary stock tho original Cornelius would consider George, and how ho would proclaim, as he did every man not a money maker, a blank sucker. Tho commodore very early recognized Cornelius' ruro financial ability, and ad mired him accordingly, showing the highest appreciation of which ho was capable by leaving his grandson by will i.OOO.OOO ns n special gift. Ho made him, soon after attaining his 'majority, treasurer of the Hudson River railroad, and trusted implicitly whatever official statements ho made, saying, in his pe culiar English, "That 'ere boy, Corned, is alius right, sure as shootiu." No millionaire in New York (our mil lionaires are as a rule notorious niggards so fur us public benefactions go) is to inclined to bo generoun in every way, though he does not parado his giving, ns Romo others do, Whilo vory orthodox in creed, ho commnnds tho respect of tho most hoterodox nnd rationalist, for they believe him sincero and conscien tious in his professions. A man of his immense future feels obliged, for social considerations, to givo elubornto nnd ex pensive entertainments, notwithstand ing which ho is simple and unpretending in ordinary life. Ho is accessible in his olllco and at homo to everybody, savo eccentrics, bores and impertinent interviewers, and is free from tlio assumption nnd formal ism that mark some of his kinsmen. No man is more industrious, even laborious, as ho must bo having chargo of so many millions, of interests so vast and fur ramifying. Ho works on an average ten hours 11 day; is punctual in all his engagements, and considerate of every body worthy of consideration. Ho takes pains not to overwork, which is not diffi cult for n man of so great executive power. .1. E. J. I'nlltUn mill llullet Duiii-em. Boston, April 1 . Maurice Low, tho Boston correspondent, told how ho had interviewed Attorney General Garland on tho election of Hadl-Camot to tho presidency of the French republic. "Good morning, Mr. Garland," said Low; "what do you think of Sadi-Car-not?" "I haven't seen her for soveral years," replied tho attorney general, "but tho last time I saw her, out in St. Louis, I thought her tho finest dancer that ever balanced heielf on 0110 toe." E. T. C. U'rplt''ii J'lmt Cliiirifi-. It is pleasant to turn back tho lenves of history for two centuries or more and lead that several preachers who tried' their pientico hand in America after wind became famous in England, and It should not bo forgotten that John Wes ley held his first Independent charge at Savannah in 17i!(), and admitted that ho did not comprehend thu work of grace in legeiierntion until the Moravians of tho New World explained it to him. The Mnht of All Work. After all, the servant girl, whntavor mtij be Iter fthorU-oniliiKs, lucreitsea tlio gityoty of lint Ions. Mary, green as n nlinturook, was sent bj her mistress to gty to tho Grand opcrn house to seo ".MnurlHHn.,, It was an evening of mingled pnlu ami pleasure, In tho llrst place she went at (1 o'clock anal was 1 1 ml before the doors opened. Then there was n snowstorm In one act which troubled her greatly, as tho evening wnl fine w hen alio left homo so alio put on lint Sunday clothes nnd brought no umtirvlln. Hut the play was lovely; there was as lint n young nmn as you ever saw who saved n beautiful lady from it bad villain, nml Mary know Hint that would bo nmntali yet. "Hut, Mary, tho young man Is married. Ho hns a wife at home a nlco lady." "That young maul Awlfuat liomul Th Lord lie Ik'Hiiiu us and harinl" Mary answered a ring nt tho door. "Have you any furnished roonisf" "Sure 1111 we have, plenty nv them." "I'd like to see them." It Mas an Eimllsh basement houso nml tho lady was taken up stairs, where tin mistress found her walking through tin house. "I was looking for furnished rooms." "This is a private house." "Hut your servant Haiti" "It Is 11 mistake." Tho lady retired Indignant, nnd Mar wan called up for explanation. "She asked, ma'am, If we lind furnlshoil rooms. An they is furnished, Ivery wan ol them, She could see that fur hersilf," A young couple went down to Castle Har den to c tigttKo a girl of all work. A tidy, trim little Swtslu nt tract cd thorn, "Can you cookf" they asked. "No," bIio nnswercd, demurely. "Can you wash and Iron?" "No." "Can you sweep and mnko bwlsf " "No." "Well, what can you do?" "I can milk reindeer." She was not engaged. Now York, Even ing Sun. A I ut AIiihI "If you want me for your wlfo, Albert, ami aro afraid to say so," softly wlilsporisi tho blushing girl, "there Is mi other waj than for me to take the matter In my own hands, as I have a right to do this yenr. II you will promise to Ito mine, Albert, I will Imi it good wife. I will cherish you, euro foi you tenderly, bear my share of thohtlrdoni that may fall upon us, nml do all that a faithful, loving wlfo can do to mak( smooth the pathway ot our married life." "Noble, generous, Ituautlfitl glrll" ex claimed the young man rapturously. "You have anticipated the proposal that tn) cowardly lips dared not titter! Therulsonly ouo other thing I can ask you to promise," ho added with trembling eagerness, "bit upon that ono thing hinges all our happl ness." "What is It, Alburtr" "Will you pay tho gas blllsf" Chicago Tribune. Ilmtlierly Klmlaea. A IxmkIou paper says that n young man had a younger sister by tho name of Jcu ie, who was sent to a fashionable Itoard iug school. When she went away ho re marked that ho hoped she wouldn't ac quire any of the afTectntloiis so oftcm learned in such places. For almost n year he had no fault to find upon this score. Then came a letter signed Jessica Instead of Jessie. Uo replied as follows: "DKAlt Sistku Jkssica Your welcome letter received. Mnmmlcu and pnpntcn aro well. Aunt Mnryca and Uncle Ucorgicn started for Glasgowlca yestenltiy. I havo bought a new horse. You ought to see It. It Is a beauty. ItsiiaiuolsMatidica. Your affectionate brother, Samica." Tho sister's next letter was signed Jcr ale. Youth's Companion. Illil for a Hut. They were about going out, ami sha sat down while her husband got Into his over coat. "I don't believe you love me any more," alio said with a sigh. "I'm convinced ot it," nml her vnlco trembled a little. "Not love you, my dear? Why, how nb atird! Must I tell you every moment that Move you love you with all my soulf" "Oh, that will do to say, but I know you care for me 110 longer. How can you lovo mo iu this old hiitr" HulTalo Courier. Uniivoliliilile. Reporter Was that accident unavoid able? Railroad President Certainly, sir, cer tainly. No one to blame. You see tho watchman had two crossings to look nfter, half a mile opart. You can't expect a man to be In two places nt once, cau you f New York Weekly. SoiuiitliliiK Now. Dressmaker How would you like youir costume made, umtlaml' Mrs. Clowiirich 'Sposo you mnko It with one of those vestibule trains that I've lu-rrn talked of lately. Huston Kiilltitlu. Jrauel You lve oats to a strong vigorous a rrj viriH 1 i jjt r 1 'M5 s) mpathy for hU hunger, or lobe rid of his offensive whine. Railroads of both the horse and the dog class arc pretty well represented In the West, the worthless ones make the most noise. You prtronizc the former with confidence in profitable returns, the other ns you business and profit vs. sentiment and peace. The cost is about the same, and ) 011 ought to have your choice, ask where to put jour "oats", or the "crust of bread"? You can easily tell by looking about a bit. J. FRANCIS, Gen. Passenge Agent, OMAHA. A MODERN 1 Telephone 176-- MSHBffll F"B Y VTj Moving Household Goods and Pianos a Specialty Lincoln Denier In COAL AND WOOD. OllU-c 105 O Street. YnnU fill 1 nml M tit. I'honemo. German National Bank, I.A'COI.X, Nlili. O.K. Mnntitoiiu-ry, Pri-nlilriil. Ileriminll. Hrhnburir, Vice Trent. Jtiieph ll.tchmcr, Cimhlcr, ().;.!. Wilcox, AmI. Cnnlilor. 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You feed a worthless cur out of or "to get of cm." It's a matter of Do you A. C. ZIEMER, City Paisenger Agent, LINCOLN. EQUIPMENT, OFFIOI . 1001 0 Street, 1 ... .. J&.V' 'k M ' !.. D . i 0 K n