0 B THE BEE: OMAHA. SUNDAY. NOVEMBER 27. 1921. Washington . Society Bureau of The- Bh. Washington, No. 24. General Tcrihlpg entertained company at dinner Saturday night in honor of the noveliit, Mary Roberti Rinehart, who ii in Washington at I correspondent for the conference. General Pershing has a charming large apartment in the apartment house de luxe at 2029 Connecticut avenue. He had a beautiful luncheon in honor of Marshal Foch of France on Monday. General Pershing and Marshal Foch arrived together at the ball of the Kobert K. Lee chapter of the U. D. C. last Monday evening in the ball room of the Willard. A canopy of flags of the countries in the confer ence bad been arranged over the large box which had been reserved for the guests of honor, who were received with military honors and es corted to the box where they viewed the scene fur a considerable time. They were greeted with the greatest enthusiasm as they entered the ball room arm in arm. Mrs. James C. Davis, wife of the director general of railroads, enter tained at a luncheon last Friday in honor of Miss Esther Smith, who was married next day to Edward Mitchell Brown, son of Col. and Mrs. E. T. Brown of Atlanta, cousins of the first Mrs. Woodrow Wilson. Among the guests who came to Washington for the wedding were the three daughters fit former Presi dent Wilson, Mrs. Sayre, Mrs. Mc Adoo and Miss Margaret' Wilson. They remained through the week and spent Thanksgiving with their father and Mrs. Wilson. Representative and Mrs. A. W. Jefferis of Omaha had a little family Thanksgiving day dinner party, with no outside guests. Mr. Jefferis is just recovering from a little illness. Mr. and Mrs. Edgar Scott had with them for their Thanksgiving dinner Mr. and Mrs. Charles George of Omaha, who have been in Ashe ville, N. C, for several months, and who are on their way home. They arrived here on Wednesday and are spending the week-end with the Scotts. Representative and Mrs. Robert E. Evans of Dakota City had a little house party for Thanksgiving and for the dinner of that day. Their guests included Miss Miriam Evans of Long Beach, their niece; Miss Winifred Evans, Miss Elsie "Allen. Raymond Allen and Roy Budwiz of West Point, Neb., who is now a cadet at Annapolis. Miss Anna Evans, daughter of the , representa tive, accompanied by Miss Elsie Al len, went to New York yesterday to witness the Army and 'Navy game and will return tomorrow. They were at the Claridge. Representative and Mrs. Frank C. Reavis and their son, Jack Reavis, who has been here for a time with them, left on Wednesday for Cleve--f lnd to spend the lhanksgivmg day with C. Frank Reavis, jr., having a complete little family circle for the day. Representative and Mrs. Reavis went on to their home in Falls City, Neb., where Mrs. Reavis will spend the month of December. Mr. Reavis will return here early in December. . v, . Mrs. D. C. Stapleton, who isj spending me winter in ner vvasning ton home with her small daughter, is expecting to spend next summer .-.broad. ' , Mrs. Burke, widow of Col. John Burke formerly of Omaha, but who has spent her -winters here for some years has returned to her apartment in the Dresden after a summer in the Catskills. Her daughter, Mrs. Marsh, spent the summer in Wyom ing on a ranch with the hope of im proving her health, which improved so greatly that she is remaining for some months longer. Mrs. Burke . had 'a pretty tea Wednesday afternoon for Mrs. K. C. Barton of Omaha who has an apart ment at Wardman Park Inn for the winter. The company was made up, for the most part of Omaha people who are either living here or are here temporarily. Mrs. Lemly, wife of Major Henry R. Lemly, U. S. A., and who was formerly Miss Kath arine' Palmer of Omaha, and Mrs. F. D: Barkalow, formerly of Omaha as . fisted at the tea table. Mrs. Frank Hamilton of Omaha is established at Wardman Park Inn where she has taken an, apartment for the winter. She spent this week in New York enjoying the opera and will return here early next week. Problems That Perplex Answered by BEATRICE FAIRFAX A Recent Bride lioii -eC? A Mrs. Donald Funk is a bride of the month. She and her husband are re siding at present with the parents of Mrs. runk, Mr. and Mrs. O. Mc- Guire. She was Miss Helen McGuire before her marriage. They plan to have their own home in Benson in the spring. ' . Is There Love Without True Congenialty By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. STYE'S a darling," writes Mabel, r I "and I adore him. But I -"-J- rrin'r unHprctanH him af all He doesn't care for soeietv. Hp's even bored by theaters and motion pic tures. He gets no pleasure out of music. All he seems to care for is me and the outdoors and his work encnnerrinir Wi tiavin'f a thin in common, .but we care for each other a lot. What do you think are our chances for happiness? "It it's true that opposite attract, I'd say we were bound to be happy together, for two such different peo ple never lived. I' enjoy dancing, music, the theater, crowds and all the pleasures ot the day. But I ve a great devotion for" my Jimsic. What hall T rln? , Ho'b .V anH I'm 27, so you see neither of us is likely to cnange. There never was a more trade half truth than this: Opposite attract." ' . To be sure thev do. Bit thev dn not hold together. In the end like f-ceks like. No one can eet on for Innc witli anyone else who does not speak his language. We all seek those wno understand us, who are capa ble of enjoying what we enjoy and who shrr Olir cfanrtarl .nil beliefs as a whole or in part. I he man and woman who have nothiner in common hut h,"r at traction for each other are taking a grave chance when 'they try to ouna a mes Happiness .on that ap peal, which is dangerously likely 'o be physical and perhaps passing. ,The mere lure of the senses cannot- be counted upon to hold two people together in any existence that is well rounded and satisfying. But isn't there a peaceful feeling of comine home whm yourself with someone ,. who is agreeable to your nature and who is in harmonv with . J J ww UiilUHWlia. longings, tastes and desires? i tit jove that is based on con geniality has a- real foundation. Its house of love has a of enduring. For two ,hn h, tastes and desires and . ambitions in common are bound to grow together instead of apart When He Proposes. Dear Mies Fairfax: I am a boy 17 years ot age and am In love with a pretty girl one year younger. I am in doubt whether she loves me, hut I hear from other people that she does. I would like to have you ad vise me whether it is proper for me to propose to her and how? JIMMY. Can you support ft wife, JlmmyT That's the main thing expected of a young man when he proposes. But are you not a little hasty? Just fancy plunging into the sea of mat rimony at 17! That's a man-size job, so. all things considered, you'd better not propose for a few years J'ct. . D. H. Tour poem Is a good little bit of rhyme, but would not pass as high grade poetry. It is difficult to market even very good verse, so I cannot encourage you to believe you enn sell your effort. Keep at it, though. You will develop an appre ciation for literature, and you may develop considerably yourself. Pes: 'William Ritchie Is state com mander of the American Iegion. He lives in Omaha. If you would write Mm, he might give you the informa tion you wish. Jessie: I am forwarding your let ter to Robert, without your name. He will be glad for your advice, I am Dure. , The knife used for peeling a pineapple should not be used for slicing it, as the rind contains an acid that is likely to cause a swol len mouth or sore lips. The Cu bans use salt as an antidote for the ill effects of the peeL To clean a veil put into a glass jar one pint of wood alcohol, drop veil into jar, cover and shake thoroughly for several minutes. Remove veil, aqneeie rently and dry on a round, dean stick. '.A great philosopher once said: , . "I often think friendship consists more in liking the same things than in liking each other." And so perhaps for love. It may not consist-as much in, enjoying the same things as in caring for each other, for the natural attraction counts beyond any outside diversions. But lovethrives on congeniality as it cannot do in hostile atmosphere of feelings that are set widely and hope lessly apart. Tenderness is beautiful. Unselfish ness is noble. Devotion is heart warming. But even they cannot givi the warmth and the comradely feelin; and the comfort and the freedon from boredom and the peace tha' come from speaking the same lan guage. . , ,When love is perfect it means a life companionship. And unless there is the community of spirit that comes from congeniality, how can that com panionship prosper? ' When a man and a woman care for each other but neither cares for the things that are breath of life to the oflier, they must either have the toler ation and wisdom to cultivate inter ests in common or to set each other free. Personals Sittings for photo graphs - made be fore December 21 will be delivered in time for Xmas. from ' 16th St. at ' , Howard Satisfaction Is Included ' mi r tr r r 'Mi in rne r?ice iou ray ror Updike Carbon M ump Carbon Egg Carbon Lump $9.50 a Ton $10.50 a Ton . We do not sell you good coal alone, but include with it the assurance that Updike Carbon Lump will, we think, give you more fuel satisfaction and economy than any other coal at the price. H Ray Millard will return to Chicago Sunday evening. Mii Frances G. RobUon, daugh ter of Mr, and Mrs, R, L. Robuon, Min Elizabeth Stewart arrived Saturday morning to be the guest of Mr. and Mrs. L. F. Crofoot Mr. and Mrs. H. L. Coldstone and ton, Louis, of Kansas City, Mo., are visiting Mr. and Mn. Adam Bonoff. Mrs. Milo Gates returned from New York Thursday. Her mother, Mrs. Charles Offut 11 expected this week from New York. ' Mr. Nathan Merriam arrived Fri day evening from California to be the guest of her daughter, Mrs. Bart on Millard, and Mr. Millard. Mrs. Richard Payne of Albert Lea, Minn., is expected the first week in December to visit her par ents, Mr. and Mn. E. H. Ilow land. Mr. and Mrs. Jay Mulhauser of New York City announce the birtn of a son, Mrs. Mulhauser was for merly Mii Uei Weinberg of Unutia. fr Virl.ir Pulilwrtl. ulm has spent the month of November in the . ...Ml - . I ' I - fMi win fciwn tirunciuay uiurn in k. She will spend the winter at the Blackitone. a studrnf in Kent Dace school, Sum mitt, N. J., is spending the Thanks giving vacation at the home of her roomate in JNcw lork City. Misi Robiaon it preparing for Vassar. Mrs. George M. Lunt, who ha been the guest of Mr. and Mrs. Edward L. Burke for several weeks. leaves Monday for California. She will be in I'aiadena for the winter. Captain Edward S. Murphy of Fort Crook accompanied Dr. and Mrs. Arthur J. Oifcrman to Colum bus, Neb., to spend Thanksgiving with Mrs. OrTerman'i parents, Mr. and Mrs. II. W. Adts. Miss Dorothy Miner of Falls City is the guest of Miss Gertrude Han over the week-end. They will at tend the Delta Gamma dance this evening and return to the Univer sity of Nebraska Sunday, Miss Mildred Kalmus of Denver is the guest of Miss Zcrlina Brishin. The two girls were together in Eu-I rope last summer. Mini Kalmus is on her way home to Denver, after attending the alc-Harvaid game. Mrs. Frances Nash Watson with her husband, Col. l.dward Watson S Pari will Arrive th u-prlf of Christmas to spend the holidays . a J it lU nere witn ner niotner, wrs. u.. w. h. Mi Catherine Cartan. a nifi' nf kin Yl'atann whA wnt abroad last summer and was attend ing a rrencn school, will return with Colonel and Mrs. Watson. Mia Parian r.'iiit1v ri.'Ai'i.ri.fl from an attack of typhoid. For Denver Guest. In honor of Mist Mildred Kalmus of Denver, who it her guest, Miss Zcrlina Brisbin entertained at lunch eon at the Athletic club, followed by an Orpheum party, Saturday. Mon day, Mist Lydia Burnet will give a luncheon at the Brandcis tea hoom for Miss Kalmus. Kappa Kappa Gamma. Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority will meet for luncheon Saturday, 1 o'clock at the home of Mrs. Charles W. Russell, 411 North Fortieth street. The Roentgen Society of London has amended its rules so that M m Curie, the noted radium expert, can become a member of the society. Escape Winter on Other Side of the World Mr, and Mrs. Robert Cowell and Mist Mont L'owrll, who are at present on the Isle of Man, will re turn to Umaha tome time next May. Thir uinfr'a frin will laLA Ilium in India, Straits Settlement, China and japan and Honolulu. Other Omahani who are seeing far countries this winter are Mr. and Mrs. Will Millard and Joe Millard, who tailed yesterday from France for South America. They will visit Win l linciro and later the Arcrn- tinca. liavimr arranged their triD to . .. " ..I.M. .1.. enjoy tne tummcr momns wmic wic northern hemisphere it snowy ana disagreeable. For Miss Stewart, Miss Elizabeth Stewart, who is a guest at the L, F. Crofoot home, will be honor guest Monday even ing at a dinner given by, Mr. and Mrs, W. A. Fraser at their home. There will be twelve guests. Wednesday Mrs. W. J. F bye will be hostess at a luncheon for Miss Stewart, and Thursday Mr. and Mrs. Myron Learned will entertain at dinner in her honor. Will See Junior League Show, Mr. and Mrs. Louis CI. rkc will be the guest of Mr. and Mrs. George Ridrr.1 of Kansat City lor the last performance of the Junior League lollirt, to be put on Dec, 6-10. Mr. and Mrt. Barton Mil lard will go to Kansat City at the same time to visit Mr. and Mrt. 1- K. Brooklielils, and to wilt Mr. and, Mrt. I. L. Pavis, who will May lor the festivities with Mr. and Mrs.'E, K. Morrison. Affairs for Mist Bull. Mrt. Herbert French entertained at a tea Saturday afternoon for her guest, Mist Clara Bull of Passadcna, Thirty gucstt were present: Tint evening Mr. and Mrt. Arthur Rogers will have at tea for Mist Bull, Mr. and Mrs. Frederick De vereux, Mr. and Mrt. Herbert French, Mr. and Mrs. Harry Tukey, Mr. and Mrs. Henry Luherger, Miss Josephine Congdon, Frank Campbell and Carl I'aulson, P. E. O. Notei. Mrs. Nellie Grantham of Lexing ton, .slate organizer of the P. E. O. Sisterhood, will atend a meeting of the Omaha association Thursday, 4 p. m., in the Burgcss-Nash audito rium. ' Mrs. iirantnam desires to meet an P. E. O. members in the city who are not members of Omaha chap- ters. ! 'i Only The Your Friends Ask For Gift Hi imp ;,m timi 1 1 1 i HAVE IT TAKEN FOR CHRISTMAS OR ANY OTHER GIFT OCCASION BY OMAHA'S EXPERTS The Heyn Studio The Trussell Studio The Skoglund Studio . The Nelson Studio Shaji Osato Studio i . . mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmaaaaamttaaaaaaataatmmtaaaaamttaammmamr