1 The Omaha Sunday Bee .WOMEN'S SECTION SOCIETY rr VOL. 51 NO. 23. PART TWO OMAHA. SUNDAY MORNING, NOVEMBER TEN CENTS Men Versus Women as Spenders y ashington Never So Festive 20. 1921. 1 B i ii By CABBY DETAYLS. rpHE woman pays!" .cries the I innali; of the pcciej. i h r woman groan -M,cr 1Ul,baiid. spends!" Are women better spenders than nun. Do they spend more wisely, more generously, either, both or neither? "A man spends more easily," thinks Mrs. A. L. Reed. "He sails into hotel and order a room with out asking the price," she adds by way of proof, concluding, "Women spend more wisely js 4 rule." Who sprndj queried Sa.n Caldwell. "The women think the men do, and the men think the worn en do. As a rule the women spend more carefully than the men be cause they have less. Exclusive of clothes, women spend less." "Exclusive of clothes." he's a wary gentleman. It's like saying, "exclu sive of winter it doesn't snow very mucn, so lar as association of ideas rocs. Snow winter; clothes worn en. But far be it from Gabby to ex pose the clevir tactics by which he makes out a favorable case for the women. . Such diplomacy may ac count tor his popularity with the fair sc.f. ; Mr. Beaton Fires His Guns. Charles Beaton may wish he had taken lessons from Mr. Caldwell when the smoke of his guns has blown away. This is the way they were fired: "Women spend more on clothesl "Men spend more on food! "Talc'ng friends to lunch and hav ing a little game of pool is a daily occurrence with men. . "But women spend as much 011 candy as men do on tobacco." ('T would pass for free verse were it not quite so easy to understand.) Speaking with the caution becom ing a banker, Walter Head opined that "Men get more for their mon ey than women by reason ot their business training. Women spend more on clothes, but they have to (may heaven shower her richest blessings upon him!) and men cer tainly have more incidentals. Wom en are more liberal contributors to charity." It was the late Dr. Anna Howard Shaw who replied when asked if women would like to serve on juries: "Yes. most of them would be glad, to sit that long." Rather Shaw-esque was Mrs. W. B. Howard in following up her statement that women are the more careful spenders. "Most of them have to be," she said with trenchant wit. "It's fifty-fifty," declared Mrs. C. J. Baird. "I often buy tempting things for the children that are not alwavs Eood for them," she admit ted leaving Gabby to wonder if the "tempting things" are cream puffs or a superabundance of toys.- Bargains a Delusion and Snare. Batjtains! A delusion and a snare, according to Mrs. John L; Kennedy, who thinks men rarely get things they don't want while women fre quently do when they are shopping around for bargains. . Stoically spoke M. D. Cameron: "In order to protect myself and my family, I will say that men spend more. They spend more freely, but not as wisely. Men are more likely to invest their money than women. The average woman does not spend the same amount on herself that a man does." Mr. and Mrs. F. L. Devereux agree (note the harmony of thought, rare as the night blooming cereus), that men spend more than women. "A woman goes downtown and gets a suit for $100," said Mrs. Dev ereux by way of specific illustration. "She comes home and shows it to her husband who wonders why she didn't gf t' one for $80. The next time when she takes him along, she pays $150." Both Sides Win. Who -wins? Of course it really doesn't matter for most of us will continue to spend all of our available supply regardless of compliments or condemnations. ; On the whole the evidence would indicate that men spend more easily, more generously, and more consis tently than women,, and, conversely, women are more selfish in their ex penditures, more thrifty, yet more erratic, all of which may be direct ly traceable to their economic status. The woman in the home does not as a rule have an independent juris diction over funds. The modem bus iness woman, however, as proving that, "Women versus men as spend ers" is a matter, of financial experi ence, rather than .sex, for she is showing herself in many cases (and the number is growing) to be a wise customer, a generous giver and an astute investor. GABBY maintains that we are not always as old as we feci. The members of the Woman s 'club were making a tour of inspec tion of Father Flanagan s Home. Their guide was a little chap about or 8 vears old, who was so intelli gent concerning all the buildings and iarm machinery that Mrs. Alfred Munger remarked to him: "My, you know a lot about a farm, don't vou?" lie looked at her gravely and re plied with dignity . "Oh, yes, I spent all my early life on a farm. COOK to music. It's the latest Someone has figured out that it takes four minutes and fifteen econds to run off a 12-inch record. It is also known that it takes.10 minutes to bake a one-crust pie. pro viding it is put into a hot oven. After putting the pie into the oven, walk into jour living room and play your 12-inch record twice. Allowing for the time consumed in walking from the kitchen to the living room and back, ten minutes will have elapsed. The pic will be done, and vour musical education furthered. " Beautiful ideas may be worked out .l .u;. i;w if vou are resource ful. If you are making Hungarian j - I ' , - .. - Y' ''J f ' ' '-'v " '.""" " goulash, for instance, put on Liszt's Hungarian Rhapsody. rl t spa ghetti is ' the dish in preparation, some of the old Italian airs such as "Cara Nome," "La Donna E Mobile," and "Celeste Aida" would be most appropriate. For dishes requiring rapid cooking, jazz music should be used. Nothing but sacred music should accompany angel food. Irish airs would go well with potatoes, Indian music with the products of corn, "Madam Butterfly" with rice, and well, the possibilities are in truth "too numerous to men tion," but will suggest themselves to the fertile brain. , OUR pretty friend, the debutante, rises somewhat late each morn , ing so it is not a bit surprising that she was cosily , established in the breakfast room when the little married woman, who lives not far away, arrived. The young matron (as young matrons often do) wanted to borrow well, quite, a number of things necessary for a bridge; party, and so had brought her 'puritanical minded husband Jong to act" as a general lackey, 'ft "Here I am. Brought a perfectly good man with me ti do the work," caroled the matron as she made her entry into the nook where the deb bie arrayed in a gorgeous silken breakfast coat toyed with her cereal. So much for that part of the story. Once homeward . bound husband turned wrathfully upon his wife. "You do do the worst tilings. Why drag a fellow into a place like that It certainly was a most embarrassing circumstance and could have easily been avoided." The meek little wife gazed in wonderment.. "Dear me I don't know what I've done. I didn't do anything. I can t understand what you re so angry about and I don't want to Let's change the subject. Wasn't that a love of a breakfast coat B was wearing? "Breakfast coat! My heavens! I thought she was in her pajamas." Ralston Woman's Club Sponsors Benefit for Library Fund ; ' The Ralston Woman's club is sponsoring a. musical entertainment for the benefit of the public library fund Tuesday evening, November 22, at the Ralston Methodist Episcopal church. . - The program will include vocal solos by Lucy . Hill, soprano, and Grace Steinberg, contralto; piano se lections. Hazel True; harp solos, Irma Clow; violin numbers, John Ragan, and vocal selections by a double male quartet from St. Lukes Lutheran church. Girls Community Service League In recognition of Music Week the Community club chorus .with Mrs. Noel Wallace, leader, will sing at the Grain Exchange on Tuesday. Men friends of the members will be en tertained at the club suppers during the week. All meetings are held at the club rooms, 210 Gardner building, 1712 Dodge street. Mrs. Lydia Rowe is hostess and the managing committee includes: Harry S. Byrne, chairman; Mrs. F. R. Hoagland, vice chairman; Mrs. Noel W'allace, secretary-treasurer; Mesdames Harold Gifford, F. S. Hanna. II. T. Clarke, J. W. Rob- bins, E. W. Axtell and Messrs. C A. Mallory, Edgar Scott, Paul W. Kuhns and Ed P. Smith, finance chairman. The weekly schedule is as follows: Monday Cluga club supper,' 7 p. m.; gymnasium, 8 p. ni., leader, Mrs. j Charles Musselman. ( Tuesday Wamm club supper. 6:oU p. m.; home-making class. Mrs. D. B. Kantor. leader, 7; open house. 8:15. Wednesday Lafayette club sup per, 6:30 p. m.; dramatic art class. Miss Marguerite tseckman, leaaer. p. m.: French class, 7 p. ni.; busi j ness English, 8 p. m. j Thursdav Open house. 3 to 6 p. m. ; Friday D. T. A. club dinner, 6:30: Community club chorus, 7, Mrs. Noel Wallace, leader; gymnasium. 8 p.m. I Saturday Class in designing. 1:30. j Mrs. Mary Lydia Rowe, leader; dance. 8:J0 o. tn. ....... j Sunday Open house, 3.30 p. m. 4 V Mrs. Harris Makes The resignation of Mrs. .Martin Harris as publicity chairman for the Drama league calls attention to her signal success in the office since she assumed it' last spring. ' All through the summer Mrs. Harris worked to secure and present advance publicity on the program for the entire year in order to attract members to the or ganization. The result is a member ship ot 900, the'largest in the history of the league. ' Already this season the Brandeis has been filled for two performances of Sarg's marionettes and a week later Percy Mackeye Six Years as Publicity Chairman ' Mrs. Lucien Stephens, publicity chairnian- of the Tuesday- Musical club, lis the joy and the despair of Omaha, women;, a joy to. the club, members and newspaper women with whom she has worked so efficiently for six years, and the despair of other publicity chairmen, to whom : Mrs. Stephens is held up as the "perfect example." r . . A long list qf stars of the first magnitude have been presented in Omaha under what amounts to the management of Mrs. Stephens. The roll would include Galli Curci, who sang here before she won 'fame in New York; Pavlowa and her dancers; Heifetz, Rachmaninoff, Harold Bauer, Anna Case, the Scotti Opera com pany, Mabel "Garrison) Yvette Guil bert, Frances .Nash, Louis Grauveure and many others. Y. W. C. A. Campaign for Budget .. Mrs. C. M. Wilhelm is .a member of the Y. W. C. A.' board which is heading a personal campaign for $37, t)00 toward the budget of that institu tion for the coming year. ' The Y. W. C. A. is 85 per cent self support ing, said by national workers to be Dr.Mary Bissell New Director Of Nurses Dr. Mary T. Bissell has recently arrived in Omaha, to be medical di rector of the Walter Scott Training School for Nurses at the Presby terian hospital, and director of the Nurses' home. Dr. Bissell is a sister of James M. Taylor, who was for many years the president of Vassar college, and she is herself a graduate of Vassar and of the Woman's Medical college in New York City.' , , NOVEMBER. s, Low-hung suns . : . That paint the afternoons a matchless gold And make the sky a fleece-specked opal; ' Seared leaves that dance their last on gnarled limbs. Then break the loving handclasp of the parent tree, To frolic off through fields ' : , With their new lover, the Autumm Wind, Who tires soon of play and lets them sink Into oblivion in some kind nok or' crevice, ' . While he seeks new playthings! . - ' . t ,- Air that invigorates the jaded ' . And brings new life; cries of the gray goose On his way south to join his fellows. - -Frost that paints fantastic shapes and pictures: Perfumes of new-turned earth and harvest fields! Then come gray days. , .When the smiles of Heaven are turned to tears ;And the face of Earth is sunk and sodden -As though in sorrow for the death of things. Against the dead-gray skies that weep and weep, '.The trees stand like black skeletons Holding oat their scrawny, crooked arms for mercy! The spring morning and the summer noon arc gone. The late afternoon of Indian summer is a memory " And now has come the twilight of the year That heralds the coming night of whiter. - As one who draws the curtains at twilight To keep the dreariness outside from coming in, t I. pull the curtains' on the year ' " . , And turn to the wood-fire on the hearth To dream through the .night Of Spring! . - - - - ' i- Jack Lee. m ni iTvtm ww wHsssssssssssvsssssssssssssssssssssssssjsssjsjsssjsjsjsiK' I susssssssssssssssassasisssssssMMB ... Hts LuctQtz Stephen?. Admirable Record spoke to a crowded ball room at the Fontenclle. A letter from Tony Sarg to Mrs. Harris shows an appreciation of het. work outside Omaha. In handwrit ing dainty and distinct, with an'ac? companying sketch of a joyful Rip Van Winkle, Mr. Sarg said: "I have been impressed with the admirable manner in which you handled the publicity. You deserve great success. My manager reported how lovely everybody was, and it has been a ' great satisfaction to me to know that my little actors behave so well." ' Erika Morini, the 17-year-old sen sation on the violin, who will be heard here December 8, is the attraction in which she ; is, how- most interested. Morini'ls probably tlie greatest woni an violinist who has ever lived, ac cording to Mrs, Stephens. Not alone in music circles"is Mrs! Stephens well known. She is a vice president in the Drama league and has 'been membership . chairman for that organ izarion. She was vice chair man of the woman's auxiliary of the Humane society last year. She did considerable war work and served as publicity chairman of the Red Cross for a year and a half. She is the daughter of Mrs. H. C. Smith, a pioneer resident of Omaha, and sister of Mrs. William Sears Poppleton, a frequent visitor here from New York. a remarkable record. Twelve thou sand dollars of the desired total had been raised up to Friday night. "The balance must be secured in the next five days," said Mrs. Wilhelm, "for the campaign closes Friday night." Mrs. Wilhelm is also a member of the initial gifts committee. Of recent years Dr. BissCll has been medical director of an institu tion for physical training, and had charge of examining the sargent students. During the war she lec tured for the Y. W. C. A; and was active in hostess house work in New York City. . She is the author of several books and articles on hygiene, and was for some time executive secretary of the New York State Consumers' league, and was their medical inspector of factories and shops. Dr. Bissell is a members of the Omaha Vassar club and is deeply interested,- in their plans for raising the salary endow ment fund. ... . OATCHELU; . PHOTO Music' Week ' at s Christ Child V " " j ' Center- ' ' Special programs will be given at the Christ Child center every eve ning during music week, November 20-27, to which. the community is invited, i The Italian Men's Choral club will have charge of the program on' Monday evening. Tuesday -evening will be a program of vocal and piano solos, contributed by. Mrs. F. J. Moriarty, Mrs. Lee Hoffman,. Jack Brennen, Jim Rozmajz, Art McCaf fery and Louis Armstrong, pianist.' Wednesday evening will - be given over to piano selection by Miss Ber-, 'nice Dugher and the dramatic club. The Italian string quaftet will enter tain 'on ""Thursday evening. "' Friday evening will be devoted to community-singing, directed by Miss Sara Shanley. Community singing will be held for the little people on Mon day, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday afternoons. .'":' The boys of the Christ Child so ciety, front 12 to 16 years, have been organized into" a junior athletic club. Election bf officers will take place next Tuesday. .The' Senior. Athletic 'clnb foot ball team will play the Scribner (Neb.) team at that place on Sunday, No vember 20. , At the meeting.of the public speak ing class on Wednesday two special numbers were given by Alfred Raiieri, who spoke on "Opportunity," and Fannie Cemori, who spoke on 'Success." John Montalbano pie sided. ,' ' ' ' . The ... Americanization . class, for mothers, is now being held on Mon-. day,, Wednesday ; and Friday after noons. The first marriage performed at St. Benedicts, the new colored center, took place on Thursday morning at 8:30, when ' Miss ..Ruth Johnson be came the bride of Clyde. Johnson-,' Rev. Father S. . Cassily of Creighton university officiated. Special music was rendered by the choir and the Center was beautifully .decorated for the occasion. ' . JWfsMriej7etz Mrs. A. B. Allen and " daughter, 1 .Miss Muriel, are newcomers to Uma ha. with Mr. Allen, the recently ap- pointed collector 'of internal reve : nue here. Mrs. Allen has' been a i resident of Nebraska since before her Essav and Poster ;Con test on " Armament ' An essay and poster contest is be ing -presented to grade and. high school : pupils of Nebraska by the State;. League ; of . Women Voters. Mrs. ' C- G." Ryan of Grand Island is president of the league, and Miss May, Guild of 234 South Twenty seventh' street, Lincoln, is secretary. Rules may , be obtained from them. The contest closes February .1. "How Limitation of Armament Would Help Our Schools," is the subject designated for the essay con test. ' Seven hundred words are the limit. -The competition is open to high school pupils of the state. Ten dollars will be given for the best es say in each of the six congressional districts of the state and $30 for the best of the six, The contest'will be carried ;qn; through county superin tendents..' ;,' r, . , . .1- 'V The poster competition is open to si:;th, . seventh and eighth grade pu pils, and will - also be conducted through" , county superintendents. Prizes are the same amounts as for the essays. : . Mrs.iH.;J. Bailey of Omaha is director for -the League of Women Voters in this, the Second, district. Mrs. Charles J. Hubbard is local chairman., , . ' The West Carries "Go west," was the old cry;, "come east," is the new. Time Was when culture traveled from the' east into the west. Now it is no uncommon thing to find a westerner making his offerings to the east. In the art' of the theater, Omaha is remarkably well repre sented in the east. On the executive side,' no one stands out more con spicuously than Frederick McCon nell, son of Mr. and Mrs. F. R. Mc Connell, who is now in charge of the little theater in Cleveland, O. "Cleve land .Topics" of October 29, tells something ; of Mr. McConnell and his plans. It says: Mr. McConnell is' not representa tive of the long-haired, sandal-footed type of little theater artists . . He is young and keejily alert, but appears very modest and unassuming. He is business-like for one with such a gift Newcomers From- Tecumseh marriage, when he was Miss Nel lie Ingersoll ' ot Tecumseh. For many years Mr. Allen was editor of the Tecumseh "Chieftain, leaving to take uo a residence in Lincoln, wt.cre llicy remained until a few years ago. Drama League Will Present - Artist Mine. Marie-Lydia Standish, who nonprofessional is Mrs. Harold Selfridge Standish of Chicago, will give a program of mediaeval legends and story songs, Tuesday, Novem ber 22, 4 p. in.! at the Brandeis thea ter, under Drama league auspices. She will appear in costume and will be accompanied by Emma Menke at the piano. Mme. Standish is said to be a hand some woman with a beautiful speak ing voice, well suited to the alluring ballads and folk-songs she introduces in her repertoire. - She is a pupil of Mme. Yvette Guilbert, who has ap peared previously in Omaha. ' Of a well-known New Orleans family is she, one identified with the ancient resrime and the interesting French tradition of that city of past splendors. . .. .- Costumes ' whicl Mme. Standish wears have been carefully designed by artists who have kept them strict ly in the period they represent. That of the. "Town Crier" is said to be an especially effective costume appro priate and "jdistractingly becoming," Miss Kate McMugh, ' the new president, will present Mme. Stand ish. : ' ; Culture to the East of imagination . ., He possesses no Greenwich village temperament." Mr. McConnell believes that the play house should radiate to a larger, farther-reaching circle. He has in creased the number of performances at his theater from three to eight a week with a popular price matinee for teachers and students. "We must stop humoring audiences," he said, "and we must stop experimenting on them. We must give them good drama Shaw, Galsworthy, Barrie, Ibsen, Wilde, Eugene O'Neill and Schnitzler." The University of Nebraska is Mr. McConnell's alma mater. He is also a graduate of the School of the Thea ter, Carnegie Institute of Technology at Pittsburgh. For several years he was asistant director of the Arts and Crafts theater, ' Detroit, and served in the same capacity' at the Greek theater, California. Mi.-s Muriel Allen is in her third year at the University of Nebraska. She is a member of Delta Gamma sorority. A. son. Frank Arthur Allen, wlio i-s a?siMant potmater at Tccumscii, completes the family. Bureau of The Bee, Washington, Nov. 19. There may have been more inter esting days in Wa!hiiii;tn and more brilliant entertainments, but the oldest inhabitant does not re member them. Certain it is that there was never a time when so many of the world's dignitaries and men of affairs have been gathered together here for a time, o that Uie people in Washington get an inti mate knowledge of them, if not a personal one. Future generations will read, no doubt with thrills, of their grandparents having diNed with the premier of France and tat beside the greatest military leader of his day, Marshal Foch, at H" theater, orv perchance, in the public trolley car,r at mass. It is of interest to drop into n movie show and find oneself in the next seat to M. Uriaud, premier cf France, and M. Viviaui, former pre mier, and Mme. Viviani, accom panied by an interpreter and a sec retary.' This has happened several times, for they have grown fond of our movies and they arc real diver sion from the strenuous hours of the history-making conference. Never in the social history of the. White House has such a brilliant scene been enacted there as that oi last Saturday night. The president and Mrs. Harding entertained a com pany of 90 guests at dinner at o'clock, and at 10 o'clock a company of 1,000 others were asked for a re ception. The dinner guests were the important guests to the conference, a few diplomats and the most impor tant officials of our own government, with their wives, if they were here. The reception guests included the official, diplomatic and smart social circles more generally. The table was laid in the form of a shallow U with the points turned toward the side of the state dining room, op posite the doors into the corridor. The president sat in the center of the outside of the curve and Mrs. Har ding was opposite, in the center 01" the inside of the curve. The vice president sat at Mrs. Harding's ri&ht and M. Briand at her left. Mrs. Coolidge was on the president's right and Lady Lee, wife of the first lord of the British admiralty, Rt. Hon. the Lord Lee of Fareham, was on his left. , Jewels Worth King's Ransom. The gowns and the jewels of the ladies were easily worth a king's ran som," according to present-day pricey. The first lady of the land never was more attractive than on that evening in a modish gown of rich white satin with draperies ' of black tulle and trimmings of rhinestones. The back of the bodice appeared to have a sort of yoke of the. rhinestones, -JihicH-formed a high neck line in the back and ran into a square neck in front. She wore diamonds on a baud of black velvet about her throat and an aigrette in her'hair and 'carried and gracefully brandished a large fan of black ostrich feathers. The historic old mansion was stately and beautiful in its charac teristic simplicity and was in strange contrast to the gorgtous appearance f the ladies at table. In the red parlor there were fragrant Rich mond roses' banked on the mantel and' in the vases. They were inter-' mingled with oak leaves. The other rooms were all decked with mammoth chrysanthemums, grown in White House conservatories, with many white opes, also in the red parlor; yellow ones in the blue par lor, paler yellow in the green room and a mixture of these colors in the east room. The state dining room was rich in oak leaves and pink chrysanthemums and roses, and on 1 the table were many low mounds of these blossoms, with bunches of farlense ferns between the mounds. An especially beautiful piece was directly in the center of the narrow rottnded table, placed on the gold mounted, oblong mirror, which was designated when new, as Madison's folly. It was brought over from France by Madison and was consid ered an almost ' criminal extrava gance. Sturdy marines were sta tioned at intervals in the red cor ridor each one holding a huge silk flag of a country represented in the conference, a United States flag be ing at either end. The guests as sembled in tlje east room and at 8 o'clock the president and Mrs. Harding entered and passed all around the room in stately fashion, greeting the guests, not by hand shaking, but by word of mouth arid smiles, then leading the way to the state dining room. It was a proces sion to make one catch one's breath Court Costumes a Display, The court costumes of the French ambassador, Lord Lee, Admiral Beatty, Sir. Robert Bordon, M. Bri and and the minister from Portugal vied with ladies for display of gold and lace. Mme. Jusserand was in yellow satin with floating draperies of paler yellow tulle and a tiara of diamonds and emeralds, a necklace of 'the same stones and gorgeous corsage pins. . Countess Beattv wore the nYhr.it of white satin brocaded with silver and a band of diamond medallions about her brow and head, and a chain of diamonds and a string of pearls. Mrs. Taft. wife of the chirf justice, was one of the most stunning suns, in iicsn uniea cnuion and tulle veiled and draped with gnu metal tulle and lace, with which she wore a beautiful diadem of diamonds on her head and a superb necklace of diamonds: She IrwiLrrt urml. ingly well, thouch thinner than Washington knew her, as is the case with the chief justice, whose ample figure was such a familiar one licrc for many years. He has lost avoir dupois and hair. Otherwise lie is not changed. Mrs. Hushes, v.iir of the secretary of state, was in Mack and gold brocaded satin, with no jewels to speak of. Mrs. Dcnbv. wife of the secretary of the navy. w?s , in turquoise blue satm with a bodicr and draperies of silvrr lace and r Tra to r Ikip, Ctluma riiU "" t Li