7 Adelaide Kenncrly Ella Fleishman. ASST EDITOR. a'lmiLWm. wiiji iwui iiii-ii mi nil THE BEE: OMAHA, TUESDAY. DECEMBER 11. iyi7. Uif MELLIFICIADec. 10. School Set Home for Holidays. "All aboard for home!" What welcome sound to the numerous school girls scattered from the Atlan tic coast to the Pacific. And with what eagerness their arrival is waited by the friends and relatives of the young students. In Omaha is this especially true. There is a great ex odus from here every fall of our girls for the various schools, most of them in the east, and Christmas would be but a mockery if they did not return to celebrate in their home city. The Smith , college contingent, ' which includes Miss Eleanor McGil ton. Miss Lois Robbins, Miss Harriet Sherman, Miss Katherine Wood worth, , Miss Irene Rosewater. Miss Florence Russell, Miss Ruth McCoy, MN. Edith Howe and Miss Dorothy Dahlman, will arrive December 21 and 22, a large number of them com ing together. ' Miss Virginia Pixley, who is a Dana Hall girl, will arrive the 21st, as will Miss Erna Reed, who is a student at Vassar. Mrs. Frank B. Johnson has gone east to meet Miss Jeanette Johnson, who is attending St. Mary's-on-the-Delaware, and they will return home together for the holidays. Miss Dorothy Weller and Miss Gertrude Porter, two future kinder ' garten teachers, who attend the Eliz abeth Harrison school in Chicago, will arrive home the 22d. Miss Marv Morsman, who is reg istered at St. Timothy's school, just outside of Baltimore, and Miss Hel ena Chase, who attends Miss Wheel er's school in Rhode Island, are ex pected home the 21st. -"ilal Dinner. ' I Mr; an J Mrs. --. L. Ui.deland will tntcrUn ' t dinnc -tl.is eve - in nor of Miss Jean Undelar ' and Mr. Rody 2s.y&n, whose wedding will take place Tuesday .iiorning. Fol lowing the dinner a wedding re hearsal will take place at Ft. '"ccilia's cathedral. Covers were laid for the following guests: Messrs. ana Mesaames-- Will Head Committee for Red Cross Membership Drive Christmas Weekl :rw i f f V V v "I Sr !s it Harry Keellne. A, L. Undoland, Missen NpD Ryan cf O'Neill. ( Messrs. l'.oily Ryan, George R. Keellne. Misses Jean Vndeland, Messrs. Ed Undelana. Soliloquy of M odem Eve Does "what someone else thinks" ever stand in your way? Do you care a great deal what other folks say? Doou shape all your plans and take all your stands In a half-hearted sort of a way? Hints for the Home Paper bags used as gloves will pro tcct the hands while you are blacken ing the stove. 1 In washing a woolen dress, sweater, or any garment that you wish to have t retain its shape in drying, liang it on !a wooden coat-hanger, f.t-Vening the to the line with a hook ecurcly clothespin. A little cho gives an agreea hamhurg steak. You can save time and fuel in boil ing potatoes by slicing them thin be fore putting thetn on to cook. ' pped green peppers ole flavor to stew or SONG RECITAL By PROF. ALBERT HABERSTRO, v , Basso Cantant. Assisted by MISS LILLIAN EICHE, Ce Hoist, of Lincoln, Neb. Y. W. C. A. AUDITORIUM Tuesday, Dec. II, 1617, at 8:15 a'Clock TICKETS 75c fly ADELAIDE KENNERLY. Does "what somcone else thinks" ever stand in your way? Do you care a great deal what other folks say? In shaping your plans and taking your stands do you act in a half-hearted way? Ah, beware! Of course you like friends every one of us does but are they ever made staunch and true because you acquiesce to their every expression? No, indeed! The "me too" people. are the rubbish in the realm of thought they are nothing. They are the, more or less, inconsequential fillers of so ciety. They never venture and they never gain because that terrible fear ot what someone else will think weights down every ambition. How Friends Are Made. True friendship is made because you are true; because you have con victions, even though they may be opposite to those of your friends. You gain the respect and then love of people because of principle, honor, truthfulness, and, honesty; because of originality and strength of character; because you are worth while not because you are on every side that happens to be presented. 1 There is a wise little "me" who dwells within every body. "Me" should be the counsellor, the judge in the court of last appeals. Your Best Counsellor. Only with the "me" as your guide will you ever artiount to anything; only with the "me" planning your course will you achieve that which is worth while; only with "me" dictating and moulding your principles will your character be worthy; only with the "me" fighting your battles for right will you win over th enemy "cowardice" lurking around to draw you under the subservient waters of life. The more courage you have the more friends will be true to you. Counsel "me" within you and what someone else thinks will fade into oblivion. For Miss Duval. Miss Mabel Allen entertained at an informal knitting party, followed by afternoon tea, at her home today in honor of Miss Alice Duval. About '.v pnstj were nresent. Miss Nannie tfarrett will entertain nt luncheon at her nome in nonor of Miss Alice Duval Saturday. Friday, December 21, Mrs. George Kng'er and Miss Grace Slabaugh will entertain at an aiternoon party in honor of Miss Duval at the home of Miss Slabaugh. Mr. and Mrs. E. E. Kimbcrly will entertain for Miss Duval and Mr. Sturtevant at the University club din-iicr-dance, Saturday evening, Decem ber 22. Mr. Sturtevant will arrive Friday, December 21, for the wedding and it is expected that a number of evening affairs will be planned for this popu lar young couple. Soldiers Surprise Mr. Payne. Mr. George H. Payne, who is con fined to his home with a severe at tack of grip, was pleasantly sur prised Sunday afternoon by a number . f Fort Omaha men who came to call. f'lf. Payne has done a great deal for rie boys, entertaining a large number of them every Sunday at his home for dinner and giving a party for IS of them on Thanksgiving. To show their appreciation of the hospitality of this genial host, the boys came to see hi'n while he was ill and a shut-in. At Fontenelle Supper-Dance. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Barker en tertained at the supper-dance' at the Fontenelle Saturday evening when their guests were: Messrs and Mesdames Ward Burgess, A. I.. Reed, .1. E. bavldson, C. T. Kountae, Oeorgo Prlnz, W. fl Wheeler, L. F. Crofoot, W. F. Foye, , Mrs. F. A. Nash. Mr. C. W. Hull. Mrs. Max Fleischmann entertained .1 dinner party of eight at the Fon- Selle Saturday evening. Mrs. F. P. son entertained, 11 guests at din ner. Those giving parties at the, supper-dance were Mrs. F. R. Robinson, 12 guests; S. H. Wilson, eight; H. R. l.cmen, eight; F. S. Martin, seven: A. B. Hamilton, six, and I. C. Bader, five. Mrs. E. M. Syfert will head the local women's committee for the big Red Cross membership drive- Christ mas week. Mrs. Syfert is considered one of the most capable executives among Omaha women. She was presi dent of the Omaha Woman's cliib, the largest women's organization of th qity; served as secretary of the women's Liberty loan drive commit tee, head of thi canning demonstra tion committee in the food conserva tion campaign and in many other kinds of war work. As Zero Overtakes Us Thoughtful Women Send Covers for the Cold Two new, warm comforters have been sent to The Bee by Mrs. Charles Wooster of Eagle Island farm, wife of the "Silver Creek philosopher," for distribution to some needy family. "The Woman's Country club mem- i bers made the comforters in the hope that they would keep, some poor mother and her little ones warm. As The Bee is always doing kind things of this sort I know I am sending the comforters to the right place," wrote Mrs. Wooster. The comforters will be given to some needy family through Mrs. George Doane of the Associated Charities. mas. About 400 people are on Mrs. Ahlquist's list this year and she asks the co-operation of the good-hearted people of Omaha to help make Christmas a little brighter. The con tributions may be sent to 2740 Mer edith avenue by those who wish to contribute, or if they will call Mrs. Ahlquist at Colfax 708 she will send for the articles or money. Golden Wedding. Mr. and Mrs. Rice Arnold will cele brate their-golden wedding anniver sary Tuesday at the home of their daughter, Mrs. T. F. Sturgess. , No formal invitations have been issued, but all the friends of Mr. and Mrs. Arnold are invited to call between the hours of 1:30 and S o clock. Christmas Festivities. Mr. and Mrs. Lee Huff will give their annual Christmas party this year, Decei. ber IS having been set for the date. She Believes in Little Women's Rights She believes in little women's rights. It happened at the "children's mass" Sunday, on the snow-covered steps of St. John's Catholic church. As usual, the "male of the species" led the line of march and reached warm pews without mishap. At the instant tiny maidens sought to cross the threshhold they were thrust back ward. Grownups crowded and pushed them aside: Little feet grew colder. Little spines shivered, Then- "I s'pos we'll have to wait another century," remarked a wee prophetess. There was a pause almost a stam pedeand smiling graybeards flat tened themselves against church doors. "Now, hurry in, dears," urged a gentle voiced sister. Two-by-two, they obeyed. Honor Church Workers. Mrs. Tav Burns and Forrey entertained at a tea Wednes day afternoon at the home of Mrs. Burns in honor of Mrs. M. M. Cady, it being her eighty-third birthday an niversary. ' Flowers were presented to Mrs. Cady by the women of the North Side Christian church, of which she is a charter member. She was also pre sented with a small Christmas tree laden with birthday greeting cards. The brotherhood of the church pre sented a beautiful bouquet to grand ma earlier in the dav. An offering of $10 for the Young Woman's Chris tian association war fund was taken in honor of Mrs. Cady. Those present f'Tf. ;.fesdames M. M. Cady. J, S. Williams, Marsaret Smalley, W. C. Crosby, Jacob Taylor, A. E. Clausen, E. H. Cady. J. K. Carney. A. W. Hoffmann, Harry Forrey. Jennie R. Bumf. Misses O'Brien, Advice to Lovelorn By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. To Jilt a Girl. Dear Miss Fairfax: I am 22 and have been going about with a lady two yearn my Junior, to whom I am engaged. After threel years I find I do not love her enough to marry her, but I have not the courage to tell her my feelings, as everything haa been arranged and the wed ding date set. Aft'-r giving the matter serious eonsld eratlon I finally came to the conclusion that it would be best to marry her and, undoubt odly, after our marriage I will learn to love her more. Do you think I am taking the right step or would you advise me to tell her exactly how I fell. J. Q My dear boy, aren t you a bit of a shirker Don t you aee that you have no right to ask anyone else to make your de cision for y6u7 Don't be mentally lazy Just sit down and figure out the thng sanely, what do you mean when you say that you find you do not care enough for the Klrl you have loved for three veara to Mrs Harry ! g0 t"TOU" w" yur Jiarrlage now that the aaie ii sec. a greai many people get a little uncertain and nervous when they be gin to realize the Importance of the step they are taking, if you care enough for the girl so that rather than cause her un happiness you are willing to sacrifice your own perhaps your love is very real after all. Figure out the sincerity of your love and the sincerity of your doubt. Try to decide which way you will cause the girl more happiness by giving her up now or by marrying her and letting your tendency to changeablenesa make you both morbid. I don't know enough about either one of yoa to advise you seriously. The only counsel I can give Is: Take counsel with yourself: reckon It all out In terms of "for and against." 1 See Him at Home. Mesdames Nannie Btout, R. Z. Drake, B. C. Williams. Bert Chambers, J. A. Williams, N George Rush,ton, O. A. Mangum, B. P. Brlghtwell, F. V. Painter, Jay Burns. Misses Elizabeth Mangum. Patronesses for Concert Patronesses for the concert given by Albert Haberstro, and Miss Lil lian Eichc of Lincoln, cellist, at the Young Women's Christian associa tion auditorium Tuesday evening are as follows: Mesaames W. I. Walker, N. P. Dodge. H. M. McClanahan, Mesdamei E. A. Wlckham. C. W. Van Brunt,' D. B.Welpton. C. M. Wllhelm. Fred P. Loomie, George H. Payne, A. I. Root, , Messrs. Vernon C. Bennett, Marf'4 Bush, T. F. ttroud. Kabbl Frederick Conn. :d, J. T. Stewart, Chester Wella, Walter Dale, Dr. Jennie Callfas. Messrs. Walter Stlllman, M. A. Metzger. Rev. O. A. Hulbert, Dear Miss i Fairfax: I have been going about with a young man. We have learned to love each other. He Is anxious to be come acquainted with father and mother, so I asked if I could receive him at our home. Why do my parents refuse, saying I cvuld do whatever I choose outside, but that I could not have any young men at the 'house. U. I. As you tell your little story your parents are a complete puzzle to me. It sounds as If their Judgment was very poor (and I hate to make any suggestion which sounds lacking In respect to parenthood). I really feel that It Is to tham I must write rather than you. They owe you the protection of then- home. They ought to see that every girl seeds the privilege of having her friends In her own house and that when a young girl la told to meet her friends anywhere else she likes she is being shoved Into danger. A Word to the Generous. Apples, nuts, oranges or candy are rvuested by Mrs. G. W. Ahlquist j.'the inmates of the Count. hospi tal and the county jail this Christ- In Boston. On a Boston street car the front sign reads "Dorchester" and the side signs "Ashmont and Milton." "Does this car go to Dorchester?" "Yes, lady get right on." . "Are you sure it does?" "Yes, lady; get right on." "But it ays 'Ashmont and Milton on the siJe." "We ain't going sideways, lady; get I right on." The Wellsprinjy j Election of Officers. The board of trustees for the Old People's home will meet Tuesday morning at 10 o'clock at the Young Women's Christian association for the annual election of officers. Business Meeting. The Young Women s Hebrew asso ciation will hold an important business meeting Tuesday evening at 8:30 in its club rooms in the Paxton block. Sacred Heart Card Party. Band No. 7 of the Independent Cir cle of the Sacred Heart parish will give a card party this evening at its hall at 1 wenty-second and Locust streets. ,' Red Cross Work is Finding Encouragement In Every Section County How far the ramifications of the Red Cross society extend and what the war work is doing in cementing the people in the small communities of the state is illustrated in the re port of Mrs. Clement Chase, Red Cross field secretary, who has just returned from a speaking tour in Boyd county. Bristow, with a population of 1 inhabitants, numbers 160 members in the Red Cross. There was one vol unteer soldier to every six in habitants, so no men were drafted from this district. At a rccent Christ mas sale to obtain funds for Red Cross work $1,140 was cleared in one day. One rooster was sold and resold until he brought $202. He will be stuffed and placed in the bank with this inscription. "A fellow who helped win the war." Butte, which has a nooulation of 750, last week shipped 400 hospital and knitted garments to the f local ! Red Cross. Their sale netted $1,170. A rooster was sold 39 times, bringing $102. A hat, donated by a milliner, brought $52. , oucneer, wiin ouv DODiuation. crave ; u " , a Japanese operetta for the benefi of the dtoSTSS 3 me junior Kea cross, at wmch $I5U 0f the gCxe was taken in. Women drive 40 miles to come to Lynch, where they make surgical dressings in an abandoned saloon. The women packed 60 comfort kits containing 16 articles each. The wife of Dr. Hawkins came to Omaha re cently to take the surgical dressings course in order to teach it to Boyd county women. The population of Lynch is 200.. Mrs J. M. Kloke of Gross, is a blind woman who knitted eight sweat-1 ers in six weeks. Mrs. Kloke is a p"oor woman who cannot afford to do as much work as she would like. She will take orders to knit sweaters from women who cannot knit and will gjve one-half the proceeds to the Red Cross. Mr, George H. Payne and son, Mr. Richard Payne, will join Mrs. Payne in Arizona for Christmas, as she is visiting Mr! and Mrs. Philip Payne. Mr. Richard Payne has enlisted and expects to be called to the colors at any time. Mr, and" Mrs. E. W. Dixon and family are stopping at the Hotel Virginia in Long Beach. Mrs. C. F. McGrew and her parents, Mr. and Mrs. W. C, Miller, are in California, where they will spend the winter. Miss Alice Duval, who has been suffering from a severe cold, is able to be out again. Miss Anna Russell, who has spent the last three months m the east with her parents, Mr. and Mrs. C. W. Rus sell, will arrive home Tuesday, Mr. and Mrs. Russell coining later in the week. New Process to Get Potash, A company making Portland ce ment at Durham, Ont., is said to be now turning out a byproduct from the feldspar 12 to 16 tons of potash daily. Feldspar rock is addedto the limestone as raw material for cement and a process has been evolved for collecting the potash. More than 100 girls off Gettysburg, Pa., have become the brides of sol ier boys since the training camp was established on the historic battlefield early in the summer. WOMAN'S PART IN WAR Shall we say that women contribute only the bandages, the socks and the "kits" No, they contribute the fight ers! What sort of soldiers will tho women of the presont day contribute to the nation and the worldl Can thev hope to be capable mothers or efficient Women of Fairfield county. Con necticut, have undertaken the task of making and sending 5,000 pounds of jam to the wounded soldiers in France. Crimson Cross Our world has changed before our eyes What things on earth are sure? The hearts that bleed, the hands that bless, Rich wine from griff's unsparing press rnese, with mankind, endure. There shines a star that shall not fall Though hell be all unbound. Compassion's fiery cross, whose glow Shall down the years unwearied go Till men themselves and Ood shall know And love at last La crowned. Oh hands that miss the wanted clasp. Oh hearts that ache with losti There is the solace of your grief In glvinir yon shall find relief. The need Is great, the time Is brief, On high, the Crimson Cross. Amelia Josephine Burr. ASS, FOR and GET LKlorlicEa's ' The Original Malted Milk , Substitutes Cost YOU Sam. Pita An affection confined to women must have its cause in the womanly nature. There is no doubt that a diseased con dition of the delicate womanly organs, is in general responsible fcf feminino nervousness, and an undermined eon ititution. The use of Dr. Pierce's Fav orite Prescription makes women happy by making them healthy. There are no more crying spells, "Favorite Proscrip tion" is for inflammation and femalo weakness. It makes weak women strong. Dr. Pierce's Favorite Prescription has been for nearly 50 years the! most favor ably known herbal tonic for women. The "Prescription" contains no alco hol, and is sold in tablet or liquid form. Bend 10c to Dr. Pierce, Invalids' Hotel, Buffalo, N. Y., for large trial pkg. Omaha, Netr.'As a special tonle 1 nave taken Dr. Pierce 's Favorite Prescription and found it to give almost immediate relief in eases of nervousness or a weakened or run down condition. I have taken this medicine sinco my earliest tf i r 1 h a nil whenever my system seemed to require a tonic, and it has never failed me. I am very glad to recommend the Favnrit Prescription to women and young girls who need such a tonic." Mrs. Mary La Londe, 6301 N. 34th 8t. Electric Washer 1 HOUSEHOLD APPLIANCES A S3BG Not a soap powder-not a chipped soap not a cake -but wonderful flakes? Wont shrink woolend Wont turn silks yellow! ' LEVER BROS. CO, CAMBRIDGE; MASS. You Are Invited, Madam! , . . Come over to Council Bluffs and do your Christmas shopping at Beno's, where many1 Omaha people have found that prices arc much below the usual percentage of profit. All Bluffs cars stop at Beno's. To Encourage Early Shopping Beno Gives These Gash Rebates On Purchases of $95 or over $15.00 will be returned On Purchases of $70 or over 9.00 will be returned On Purchases of $50 or over On Purchases of $35 or over ' On Purchases of $25 or over On Purchases of $20 or over On Purchases of $15 or over On Purchases of $10 or over On Purchases of $7 or over On Purchases of 4B4 or over 7.00 will be returned 4.00 will be returned 3.00 will be returned 2.50 will be returned 1-65 will be returned .95 will be returned .60 will be returned .35 will be returned It Is Possible to Save as Much as 15 on Your Christmas Needs Suppose "hubby" needs a new suit and overcoat and selects a suit at $22.50 and an overcoat at $27.50. Then you purchase $10 worth of underwear, a dress at $15 and $20 worth of toys and Christmas gifts. You should have these totaled on one "transfer slip" and it equals $95, on which $15 will be returned. Come on over and get some of this "easy money." This Rebate Sale Ends Saturday Night, December 15 The John Beno Co. Council' Bluffs. Iowa r