15 The Bees Hone Magazine Page m hmhm WHMaMaHwaanaMaaBMMMaMaNaaBaBaan Coiffures of Today and When- Knights Battled and Minstrels Sang By ADA PATTERSON. THK HKK: OMAHA, SATI;1MAV, IHTOHKU K V.U.V : . ,t Dangers of the Middle Age L i I P - - - " "V J H ''"' y .y"1 mi i ii ii i otherwise us that while the children have in. The eUte health department ef New Tort haa told hew everyone mar live yoara longer than ha would, it haa told chance for life of creased eleven rear, that for the person orer " 46 they hare been shortened by two. Like the red light flaming down the railroad track Is Its warning-. Be ware! Pans-art Two words occur very often In Its solemn warning end. Its serious advice. Exoeaa, moderation, moderation, excess. Tour chances of Ufa lie In moderation. Tour practical cer tainty of shortened life Is excess. This Is a life of free will. Choose, That, In effect. Is the wisdom of the New York health department, and It sums the wisdom of all the health de partments of all the ages. The state health department has made a discovery. The peoples of England and Sweden hare learned how to Uvo. Their death rate after middle age I dropping a considerable percentage. Why does our rise? - The answer to the question Ilea In the two of ten reiterated words of our good advisers. Moderation on one hand, on the other excess. Whatever Americans do they are liable to do excessively, so the department tells lis. But drop into any English or Swed ish assemblages and witness the calm that overlays their deliberations, their sports, their business discussions. Again moderation. There Is a hint to the wise, and the Americans are without doubt wise. They are shrewd. Their minds work with light ning quickness. Suppose every American should sit down and think upon those two words. Excess, moderation. What do I do to excessT" he may ask himself. Cat? Probably. Drink? Also probably. Rest? Almost certainly no. Sleep? Again, almost certainly no. Work?. Yes, the American who works almost alwaya works to excess, especially if he be a man who works with his brain. Plays? Perhaps, but only a small number of persons are disposed, or have the op portunity to play too much. The health department advises everyone who has passed 40, and Insists that every one who Is 46 or more, shall consult his physician at least once a year. Better If It were every six months. Thus the weak points will be discovered and the physi cian can tell him and ha can himself supplement . the Information, how to change. In one particular, or many, the methods of living, so that he may secure the promised extra five yesr of life. . The health department makes a further point well worth our thought. At 46' a person has reached the time of his great est usefulness. It can be Indefinitely pro longed If he wills that It shall. One point, overlooked by that same wise health department, or left to our own discovery Is this: Forty-five Is the age of dignity, not of folly. Our thoughts and cur acts should matoh and both should have the calm and power of life's high sun. It Is the age at which to garner and apply the wisdom gained by the ex perience of all . the years before. It Is not too late to "turn over a new leaf." It Is not Impossible to begin again. But It is the age at which no excuse of Im maturity will be accepted. Then or never the world exacts of a "man his best. It Is the time when he should pay his rent for the space he has occupied in the world. He should give back much for much given him. Then if ever he should be able to say to the young. "Walk by my lamp. It sheds the light of the ex perience which hath profited." ! -'Is wS . . a 1 1 1 h ? -r : x Mm mm , far, ' , l: I U. ? ? . V"i' ""' f ' J V." ', , ' ! J I-'.s- : '.v;i.v '),:. -.-.', J SSSSbCTaSaanMBaaBMri r. a . - V',. t.. . . 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If you will watch a cat licking and smoothing her fur until It fits her every, where like a silken coat, or a bird sedu lously preening Its feathers until their beauty is fully displayed, you will per ceive the working of the same Instinct which causes human beings to spend a great deal of time and labor upon the care of their hair. The hair has been called "the greatest natural adornment of the human body," and, under the conditions of ctvl'.lzed life. It Is, perhaps, more ornamental than useful, " There Is certainly no part of the body which has always. In every country, and In every state of society, been treated with so much disregard of natural ten dencies as the hair. The Interference with It ranges from efforts at total ex tirpation to the most careful training and cultivation. Fashion has played with the ' hair In the most capricious way, among savages and civilised men alike. The hair of the face, which Is generally confined to men, has been more subject to extreme qhanges of taste and fashion than that of the head. It la comparatively rare for the head to be shaved or otherwise artificially denuded of hair, but the shav ing of the face seems always to have been practiced from the time when man first managed to make cutting Instru ments of sufficient keenness to sever the beard. The history of the rise and fall of the mustache, repeated over and ovei again, like the swing of a pendulum, records the fluctuations of the ideal of masculine beauty, which seems never to become fixed. Of course, a great deal depends upon individual peculiarities; nevertheless there Is a cycle of maximum and minimum governing the mustache, which Is as rigorous as that of the snap shots. We are now at a mustache minimum, and the severity of the social law which produces It is plainly Indicated by tbe scarified and uncomfortably denuded ap- Women Never Respect Men They Can Boss In-Shoots Better talk sheer nonsense than' tell your troubles. When silence Is approbation we are never aware of the fact. - The wise finsncier does not use the same kind of bait for every fleh. The man who fears some other man will steal his wife pays himself a poor compliment. Whenever there Is a convention In town the medals make the hero-product look as cheap as campaign buttons. (MM SKIN WITH CUTIOM II IHfflil The Soap to cleanse and purify, the Ointment to soothe and heal those con ditions which affect the purity and beauty of the skin, scalp and hair, . Samples Free by Mail - riUnn Suss n4 Otntiarat soM twi a , Ltkwsl asps s wk uiM fraa th - boot, I 1 s "VWfcws, fl SO. By DOROTHV 1)1 X. A Kansas woman, who Is being sued by her husband for desertion, Justified her act in flying the domestic coop on the ground that her husband was so easy to henpeck that there was no fun In doing it. , "lie always agreed with me on every subject," she testi fied In court, "and it was just Im possible to get up an argument with him. The majority of wives, used to husbands who go about with a chip on their shoulders and with whom they can get Into a red hot debate on any sutoeci from politics to pie, will be . In clined to think that the. Kansas woman dMn't know a good thing when she had It. Nevertheless there something to be said from her point of view also, fur there are no people sa uninteresting i i thotfe who have no opinions of their own. Then ars like rice pudding, tasteleoa anl flavorless, and the best you can say of them Is that you dun t dislike them and that they agree with you. The art of agreeing with people Is one of the finest arts in the world and the supreme test of one's savior falre. There are those who are weakly acquiescent. They are backboneless fools, and you are no more flattered at their concurring in your opinion than an actor is at the perfunctory round of applause from the ushers In the thester. There are those ,ho always agree with you In everything you say, for fear of hurting your fellnm or precipitating sn argument In which you will lose your temper. They Insult you. They treat you ss if you were an Imbecile, as a baby to whom one murmurs, "There, there, now. It's all right," to keep it soothed and quiet. There are others, however, who have opinions of their own and the courage to defend them, but who apparently per mit themselves to be gently and Irresist ibly drawn to your way of thinking, and who finally agree with you perfectly, seemingly converted by your superior logie. This Is the subtlest form of the compliment, and It is one that hits the red In our vanity every time. Evidently the Kansas man was not a master of the fine art of agreeing, and without being a Shertork Holmes one can rigure that be was the sort of man who echoed bis wife's .opinions rather than hear her dl-ui then, and who preferred to admit when he came home late at night that he was a brute, a wretch, n mean, selfish thin, who wasn't worthy of a nobie, patient, angelic wife, to debating a man's ethical right to a latchkey. Just bow aggravating this must have been to a woman nobody but a woman can understand, for most women's opin ions are In a state of solution, and 1 tkes a man's opposition to crystnlllz them. How, for Instance, Is a woman t know that a new hat ts abotutely nares Harry to her happiness until her husband tells her that she can't have It T How If she to know that her heart was set on going to the theater, unless her husband re f i-sea to take her? And, above all, how Is she to square herself with her consci ence If she can't lay the blame of her failure on her husband? And how Is she to get out of doing the thing she doesn't want to do If she can't say that her hus band won't allow herT Certainly a husband who would not help his wife to make up her mind by taking the opposite side of the question in a domestic argument, and who left her no txcusa for not doing as she pleased, afforded sufficient grounds for any wo man's desertion. Moreover, there is this to be said, also, about the feminine nature. No woman ever loved the man she d'd not respect, and she never re spects a man who Is not stronger than the Is. For tbe man she can boss, who takes her opinions from her, and who meekly &grt-es with her In every way, she haa often a tender maternal feeling, but It Is the pitying 'ove of a mother for a weak ling, and that has In It always something of chaine. It Is not the love that sny man need crave, and so a husband or sweet heart never makes so great a mintake as when he thinks to propl'late a woman by agreeing with her. iie wants, firot, the pleasure of a su ing a question, t!i?n the delight of being overruled .by a man's stronger will and judgement, snd. finally, if thlntfM turn out wrong, the scared and Ineffable joy of being at'e tn nuy to her huiband, "I told you so." Ard a'l of this she niiuses If tne husband won't argue. pearance of many masoullne urPer .Ip which have been forced Into the new fs union after, having begun life under the subsiding mustache which was at Its height In the days of Louis Napoleon. In. dealing with the hair of the head or scalp a real art has been developed, which haa been sarcastically, and yet rather happily, called "hair architecture." Among civilised nations th s art has gen erally been exercised only upon the hair of women,-but among savages It Is more often the men who seek to Improve their appearance by such methods. . The scalp-lock ot the American Indiana, with Its attendant adornment of feathers, and the curious towers and turrets con structed on the heads of some African warriors and chiefs, are examples. On the other hand, the pigtails on the Chi nese show , that a people possessing a high degree of civilisation may cultivate a similar taste.' Like house architecture, the hair builders' art has taken several charac teristic forms or styles. None ot th'S styles seems to have been more beautiful than that of the ancient Hebrews, whose women ' were accustomed to have their dark, glossy hair skilfully plaited, and then confined with gold and sliver pins, and adorned with precious stones. Hays the writer of "Solomon's Bong" of the prince's daughter: "Thine head upon thee Is like carmet, and the tytr ot thine head like purple; the king Is held In the gal leries." . i' The Greeks of Athens eurled and netted their l:alr, and adorned It with pearls, gems, flowers and 'ribbons. The Egyptian men appear generally to have cut nntf shaved their hair, while the women were theirs In long plaits. The Assyrian men. on the contrary, wore long hair, trained Into curls, Tie Itomsn women . were among the first to develop a taste for constructions ot greet height on their heads, composed partly of natural and partly of false, or borrowed, balr. which was frissed, colored and ornamented with jewels and flowers. Often ' these constructions consisted of several "stories" piled up by art and skill of slaves, while the mistress watched their operations and made suggestions, w'lth the aid of a mirror, like a modern Parisian woman superintending the work of her coiffeur. " Ct. Paul Is credited with having had a Self-Control First Element in Character Dy ELLA WHEELER WILCOX. (Copyright. 1915, Star Company.) Much Is said of self-control by preach ers and teachers the world over, but to how many human beings can we point as illustrating the beauty of that virtue? In truth, what Is self-oontrol. Were your child to ask you. whnt you meant by the word, could you explain? Are you exercis ing this admirable quality In your dally life, and If so. In what direc tion? 1'erhapa you have an. Inborn t,ute for strong drink, and you control It and "touch not, taste not, handle not the unclean thing." That is well and stood. Yet are you bringing on disease nd early death by Including a gross appetite for hearty foods? rosslbly you are Indolent by Inclina tion and you compel yourself to work. That, too, Is well and good. The human drone who does not labor, mental or physical for the good of the human hive should be driven from among his kind. et he who would be worthy of the appellation of a" self-controlled man" must do more than to labor In sobriety. If you are ponaeseed with an Inordinate love of wealth your very labor may be a dlKlp.Von and rail for the use of self control. Next to the sin of Idleness comes the sin of Intemperance In work. To work day and night to the Injury of your health and to the neglect of your family means the destruction of the tem ple of your soul and the foundation of haprlneas on earth the home. If you are mad for great wealth it will be an easy matter for you to make a necessity of a desire and to commit do mestic end hygienic suicide by a lack of self-control. An hour or two a day, an extra evening or two In the weak, might be given to recreation and home life were you to realize how atl nn object In the general rewnH of ri Inrra wee It h proves when placed l.fcMilo the things you are sacri ficing to obtain U. Advice to Lovelorn T llaTklOI TAXaTAX DaH't rilrt. Dear Miss Fairfax: While riding I met a young man whose conn any I Mijoytd very much. He gave m his address ami ssl.ed me to write to Mm. 1 was very follsh in not giving him my address. Now I would like to know wm-ther it is proper for me to write to him, as I cuu only IS. Kindly advise rue. b'. J. K. You were not foolish at all to fall to give the young man your address, your only folly is In speaking to a stranger. My dear child, no 15-year-old girl Is a good enough ' judge of human nature to risk making chance acquaintances. How ever attractive this man seems, he may be a very dangerous person for you to know, and It Is very unlikely that he has any respect -for a girl he met so casually. Is Toar Owa laltlal. Dear MIhs Kalrfai: I am a girt In tending to be married soon, snd am em bioliVrlng table linen. - Which Initial should I put on, my maiden name or my n-arr;ape nnme? Is a girl of ae In Iowa when sr. Is II? Dot' BTKl.'U A bride's household linen and all other articles should be marked with ber own Initial; that is. of ber maiden name. A gtrl Is of age at Is In Iowa. Perhaps you are a literary man, or a clergyman, or an artist engaged In crea tive work. Upon the success of your work depends the comfort of your family and your reputation as a man of talent. Therefore you feel justified In being somewhat "difficult" In your home and social relations. You are nervous and Irritable, end you have no excuse to make. Talent Is ex pected to cover a multitude of such sins. Talent excuses nothing which weakens character, and the first element In char acter development Ms -self-control. Control your belittling nervousness and your childish Irrltabilltly If you want to rank . among the worth-while souls of earth. Again,-you may be a good husband, a good provider for your family, and sn honest, earnest business man. but your weakness' lies where the fair sex Is con cerned. Bo long as you keep from scandal and so long as you blacken no'; woman's reputation, you feel you are excusable for an occasional la'pse from what you torm the "goody-goody path of rectitude.". Yet there Is nothing which so weakens the whole moral nature, nothing which so destroys the fibre of character, as a loose rein given the passlanate nature. It Is the most persistent, familiar and fascinating temptation encountered by men and women on this Journey through earth. s ' ' Because of the all-powerful. unrterlyln creative Impulse throughout the entire universe, this temptation lurks' in every byway and on every highway as we pass along life's pilgrimage. Only the nair born or the half-dead are Immune from It Do not think you are exceptionally tempted, and therefore excusable for yielding to your tendenclea Where there Is passion, there, too, is will. Kxerclse your self-control, and your will Is sure to assert Itself. If you are a fascinating woman, you are no doubt tempted to forget yeur dignity and lower your ideals for the love of power or the pleasure of conquest. If you break no commandment you feel you are doing all that could be demanded of one so ioul larly tempted. But only as yoO develop your power of self-control and satisfy your hlghes Ideal of womanhood are you doing what life demands or you. It may be you are a paragon of ths virtues, but your wesk neas lies In the direction of extravagance Money slips through your hands and you are not able to account for Its disap pearance. That means a weakness of character, t'se your self-control snd ac quire a reasonable habit of economy.' Have you never learned how to wait? Impatience Is not an attrlbuts of Mother Nature. Behold with what quiet Industry she goes along the year, waiting for seed to sprout, for sprout to blossom, for blossom to ripen Into fruit. Heboid the patience of the stars within their orblta Kven so learn .to control yourself and wait the coming of events. There Is noth ing the self-controlled human being may not accomplish. But the word must be understood In Its fulloet sense and ap plied In Its broadest application. He wbo would conquer heredity snd overcome temptation, snd cmeta oppor tutly and build character, must know the whole definition of self-control, and, knowing It, lve lit decisive Influence on the style of hair drcrilng . with his dictum that It was shameful for men to wear long hair and for women not to do sn. The reign' ot Elisabeth In Kngland wag a period when Immense constructions of hair on women's heads were most popu lar, but In Queen Anne's time this fanh-r Ion was again prevalent, and was even; carried to greater lengths. The preparer, tlon of a lady's hair for a ball at that time was often an undertaking requiring two days." About that time, too, the fash Ion of powdering the hair became com mon. Similar styles prevailed In France. If we think that some ot these thing were ridiculous, we have only to remem-t ber tbe ."ohlgnons" of the nineteenth cen tury In order to perceive that nobody can predict or escape the vagaries of Dame Fashion. , . gJ.m'iUi.T.H iPW, V l-f H.1L.U. ...ll MH'imiamniLSF wol m.aww jjwWPw.wieie OF D. PREC'S CUT-PMCE ri- . n. vwroaiu oi ouiis and uressu I s "Buying room" has been at a premium at our store since the, beginning of this sale Thursday morning, and Saturday promisee to be a record breaking day. ' . This "Fall Reduction Sale" provides an excep tional opportunity .to practice economy In the buying of a fashionable suit or dress. . AM Qur S15 Suits $rl These are my big specials ths.t I regularly sell at 115 (but which are really $20 values), to In this forced sale .at only $12.40 and . 8 Suits That Sold 'S to S22.50 And they were great values at that price, will be offered during this forced sale at... Suits Thit Sold to 527.50 Nearly a hundred of these beautiful suits in- all the approved styles for right now, in this sale at Suits That Sold to $32.50 All beauties, hand tailored and most all exclusive models,, formerly sold up to $32.50, go on sale at All our suite that formerly sold to $35.00 to $$0.00 reduced In the same radical way. All Dresses Reduced All $5.00 Dresses at S3.0? ill $5.95 and $-5 Dresses at 84.95 All $7.85 and $SJ4 Dresses at 55.0."S All $10JM Dresses at $7.95 All $12.60 Dresses at $0.85 All tUM Dresses SIO.05 All $1&60 Dresses .., 812.95 All mM Dresses lJ.:15 All $i7 Dresses 810.00 New Skirts, worth to New Skirts, worth to $5.00, now 4 AC $7.95, on sale f l ft A $SJ& and... $3.39 at v)9.UU sfl(o)i mi i SOUTHEAST CORNER 16th AND DOUGLAS