THE T1EK: OMAHA, SATURDAY.. KOVEM11KR 14, 1014.
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Concerning American Wife
Foreign Critics Like to Portray Them as Giddy Parasites,
but Sucb a Viewpoint la Asinine.
By DO HOT II Y DM.
It ii the fashion among foreigners who
write books about this country to repre
sent the American wife as a gsy and
ftlddy parasite, and the American hus
band a s a p o o r ,
f t u pd, overworked
drudge. The Ameri
can wife Is depicted
a doing nothing but
flittering from gay
ety to gayety and
' spending the money
the husband makes,
and the husband Is
painted as bcing-so
henpecked that he
hasn't even enough
spirit left to call
his pocketbook his
own.
According to these
critics, the American
wife has no affee
tlon .for her husband,
no consideration for
hlra, she makes no
return for all . the
money that he lavishes upon 1 . In a
word, the American wife is represented
as the champion confidence, artist, and
the American husband as the softest
easy mark in the world, and this picture
has been printed so often that not only
all1- foreigners but many of our own
country people are beginning to bellevs
that It la a real portrait of the American
husband and wife.
' But I deny emphatically that It Is true,
or that the American husband does more
for his wife " than she does for him. t
seems to me that in the give-and-take of
matrimony, nowhere do husbands and
wives come nearer let breaking even than
tn this country
It may bo true the American husband
gives his wife more money, according to
his means to spend than do the men of
other nations. Certainly it Is true that
with the solitary exception of the French
an American woman can make more show
on $1 than an English or German
Italian woman can on $5. .
But if the American man gives his wife
money lie demands that she get results
with that money. It Is the custom of
the country for a wife to be her hus
band's show window, the visible ba
rometer, of his fortunes that all the world
may see. Unconsciously we all estimate
an American man's financial ability by
his wife's looks. If she. la smartly
dressed we conclude that her husband is
prospering. If she Is shabby and dowdy.
we Infer that her husband Is not one of
those who know how to get along.
Many an American woman would prefer
to dress Blmpler, wear fewer jewels and
less expensive hats, and give the money
thus saved .to her poor old mother, or
some tieedy relative,"' but her husband
will not permit her. She's his walking
advertisement of good business and equal
to credit in the bank. - .
If the American woman belongs to more
clubs, and goes to more teas and lunches
than the women In other nations Is less
tied down by. her domestic duties it Is
not because these duties are Reelected,
but simply 'because she is a better man-ajer.
or
There are no homes in the world more
cleanly, so sanitary, or better managed
than American homes, and, In spite of all
that Is said to the co.,rary, there are no
homos In wlilch the avenge of cooking Is
better.
. You can rave over foreign cooking as
much as you like, but how long would
the American husband stand for the
eternal boiled mutton and tasteless Joint,
and watery potatoes, guiltless even of
salt, and pepper, of the English house
wife, or for the greasy dishes of the
German hausfrau, or for the pasty
macaroni of the ordinary Italian house
hold? And even the French onion soup
and pot au feu sounds better than it
tastes to the American palate.
The truth la that no men In the world
demand so much of their wives as Ameri
can men do.
Abroad a woman is either a great lady
of society or a housekepcr, and her hus
band accepts her on one or Ihe other
plans, and lets the other go. The Ameri
can man expects bis wife to equally orna
ment ', the parlor and the kitchen. A
middle class Englishman does not expect
his wife to be anything but the mother
of .his children and a frugal housekeeper.
The middle -class Frenchman expects his
wife to be his business partner, the Ger
man Is satisfied if his wife observes the
three K's that the kaiser set down as the
proper spheres of a woman's activities.
But the American man expects his wife
to be a thrifty housekeeper, a good
mother, a business partner, and a fas
cinator besides. And ' wonder of it Is
fliat he so often gets a woman who
measures up to all these contradictory
specifications.
American men are generous to women
about money, but they require women to
earn what they get by entertaining, them.
The American man doesn't know It, but
he's the grand pasha of society, and he
expects every woman he meets to fig
uratively dance before him snd amuse
him.
In other countries men try to please
and entertain women. In this country
women make all the social running. It
Is women who talk their heads off trying
to divert bored looking men end win a
smile from them. It Is women who
thrash their grains trying to discover
topics In which men sre Interested, for it
never even occurs to an American ' man
to try to talk to a woman on any topic
in which she is Interested. Look where
you will at any couple, and you will see
that It Is the woman who Is. pumping
up 'the vivacity and' animation. Never
the man.' He feels that he Is doing all
tttat is expected of film If he suffers
himself to be amused.
Also the American husband, alone of
all men, depends upon his wife to make
and keep his position In society. She has
to rear the children, alone and jinalded.
She has to make the home, for the
American man considers that he has
done his full duty by his wife and children
when he has paid the bills. All the bal
ance Is up to the woman of the family.
So. If It is true tltat the American man
does much for his wife, it is equally true
that his Wife does much for him. . No
matter what 'is said to the contrary, the
American husband and wife give a pretty
good example of team work.
Impending Reforms
Smart Calling Gowns
(Republished by Special Arrangement with .Harper's lttr.)
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The young matron may rejoice In a calling
costume of dark blue chiffon combined with
- black chiffon velvet. The bodice is brightened
by gold lace and the tunic is studded with black
velvet motifs embroidered In blue. The muff and
. neck piece are of tete de ncgre velvet bound with
satin and trimmed with long tassels. ' '
There Is a regal air , to vthis calling costume
of cerulean blue Ottoman sllk.'Tbe black Otto
man 'silk, 'underskirt shows only from the sides,
as the front and back pabel are! of the blue silk.
In the back a new effoot Is obtained by folding
tho silk Hack to .form two flipping lapels, with
the selvedge Wt as a finish.
Woman arid Her Clothes
Every Woman Should Realise that Clothe Which Do Not Express
llf Mentally and Her Temperament Always Jar
' on the Kye of the Beholder. .
Copyrlht. 19M,
International News' Service.
. Ky IXL.V WIlUKl.K.n WIIiCOX.
' Every woman, thould selec-t her clothes
Mth referehce to her best ohaiei't!!
tlc." rsld a thoughtful woman recently,
"lind she should re Ue . the fnct that
clothrs which 'do
her
her
N
the ,
he-'
Kiwi
"is ' " S
it -"ir.-iV'i
not exirfus
menthlltv snJ
tempei anient ,
ways Jar on
eye of the
holder, no matter
hftw ftishUnsblc
and expen'v they
may be."
Thlt; Idea tru-.y
seem far-fetubed
to the sv.-vsVn
woman, but It Ms
nevertheless triie.
A womsn ab
perod' st a gr
dci'v pVrty (t'ttlred
in the latest im
portation f t o in ' ,
rnrls (before the wr
All the ;detalts of tier costum were
perfect, and tho Hearer attracted muolt
attention. ' , , ' ,
But he'dld not attract admiration.1
In fc.iiyie seemlntly Inexplicable manner
she' sectned to be a dissonance In the
hsrmony of ,lhc sveiie. Kveiy.one no
tleed iher, but not one ' ohnerver . said,
"How', lovely, l "How exquisite,", "How
hmint." a was said of 'many other
vostumes ths a f ternooit. ' ',
'When the "csusVwcre analysed they
prpved .to be ss follows:' (
. The woman's 'ssrments were ' fash
ioned of ton colors Intended to express
rere nnrt serenity; their cut snd drep
lug were utilellc arid they breathed of
beauty." ' ; ;. ' ; .
. But the woman's face betokened a repl
ies snd dlssstlHfied mind.' Slit was un
wholesome, in Iter mental sine, snd she
came -.from' a homo when discord and
disorder reigned. '
ThelSfore even to the casual observer
her eostuine sneivied incongruous. Clothes
which have cost more, worry and, strain
snd hearische are stirs to express some
thing of (h"S-( unharrV qualities to the
eyes of lxliol1ei-s; they will fall to fulfill
the purpose for which they were pur
cliasnd In some essential msnner.
C'othea cry sloud oftllmes of dishonesty
anil Hhsmc.
'ty and Iwidly made snd untidy gar
mrnts worn by men and wonvsn who
have means ud time to study the srt- of
dieting speak loud teriofs to their
welters.
Since natm-o gave so much time and
enr to tho apparel of forests and flow
ers and Meadows snd marsh" It Is right
that, human be int. h regard dress ss a
matter worthy of consideration.
But every tree and every plant and
every bladfl of grass exprejses In Its at
tire some areclal characteristic' of its '
ntr. . i ,' '
Their costumes are not bestowed tipon'
thsin h'aphstrcl, but sic selected with
great care. , ' '
"Ttr wmriftrr who says file earcs hoVIiIng
for -dress, farther than to keep her.uMf
comfortably protected' from the clement,
and ,-lio rogsrds time spent on selecting
or planning her. costumes as lost or
wasted, is out of harmony with Mother
Nature. '
The .woman who thinks of nothing but
her apparel, and who sacrifices irooJ
sense,", kihflness and even principle in
procure,, rMilonnitc .garments, sins
against nature, ,n hlch . Is .ever sensible,
rensonsble and wise In her use of time.
Clothes putihamd ' Hurriedly and with'
no thought run never bo effective. No
turo bestows ovlng-rare on each lenf
snil twig. Clothea which sre worn but
or.ee or .twice by silly, women who have
more tv.cr.ey than brains . lack Individ
uality.' As well might. the tnag'.ioUa tree
pr l,l,i Itself upon discarding rVI Its leaves
Snd flower eaoh day for woman to wesr
her'gnWna but onf e. ' ,
The woman who dresses to her eyes or
the tones of hsr linlr will find it a sim
ple 't matter to be bscomliigly attired.
More expensive , and elaborately' dressed
women 1 will pass unnoticed where hr
garments-will -seem a symphony. '
Study the best qualities )h yourself an 1
the best points in yonr, personality, ei.d
dress . to .them. . But never Iress in a
manner to inarm your horns, or jfur
surrounding. . ' 1
Australian Mystery
By OAinilHTr P. SKRV.SS. K
, 0ns of the mysteries of tiie l)ttle lone
oorttlnent of, Australia,' which." so full
of soolC'Cleal pussies. Is the dingo.
The dingo 11 a-wild doc.'" so like tho do
mcaUcalei) dogs . of , ,,,, .. .
Europe in msny jtsr-
wavs that natural- -J? t, '
lsts have'
to wondc
he ' got
on the fr-off
in many J3'"'uM,yjt
l natural- r''
' been set' 'JCsi'
ring how f ; i '','',''
mar66ited ' f l'bi 'K.l - ' .:'r
Household Hints
By EDGAR LTJCIEN LARKIN.
'Employers shall dtvlde the gross
profits of business operations upon the
following plan: . The' wage , salary ; or
emolument of each employe shall . be
paid In the sura directed by the quar
terly estimate of Living cost determined
by the department of commissary. From
the remainder, tho amount of six parts,
lnt each hundred on the capital invested
shall be set sside. This Increment shall
be. Deducted, and of any sum thereafter
remaining, one-half shall be Invested to
provide annuities for sick or disabled, or
assuranoe for the dependents of 'decease!
employes. The remaining half shall be
periodically distributed amongst the em
ployes on the basis of their various com
pensations. . "The whole of the body of employes is
cftly equal to the superintendent thereof;
Th superintendent is equal to all of' t"he
underlings. Hence tmploycrs, when not
themselves managers of .the .business,
shall pay to managers a salary equal to
the combined wages of the subordinates."
Sections VII, VIII of Code of Laws
of Ancient Atlanleans SO.000 years B. C.
Tilts law is equal or better than, the
I'ord plan, that Is, wages were adjusted
by the government at Intervals, of three
monttis, but with this most remarkable
difference from modern times, the wage
as taxed on the cost, of living.
I would make a prophecy ha I I not
ma!e auch a break in a prophecy written
in 187. i published this away back In
the efftto east. , It was: "In A. V. It OjO
educators J11 ' detect differences" In
the minds of Nilldren." ' In A. D. 1900 I
i;an.e up here to the top of this peak and
saw such advanoes In the study of mind
that 1 published the prophecy tn "The
.Examiner," cutting off fifty years, sot
tins t!atc at A.' l. ia0. But diferencea
Wti-v actually discovered by a teacher in
laie, by Montessorl. I was out at first
' tight y-six, and again thirty-six years.
But I am not dismayed by such little
mistakes, so here are three more highly
prophetic writings: -
1. Within fifty years a number of At
lanlesn laws, and laws of Hammarobl,
will b enacted in the United States.
2. And every court ou American soil
wiU become a court of equity.
J. And modern mind will become free,
no longer controlled by corroding prece
dent For the manager in Atlantis had to put
ip half of his big salary, equal to all
er.iileyes, for sick and disabled and life
trsurance; and the other half went tn
the general fund, he drawing his pro
rata with all the others. The ptr
centum was all the owners received, be
causo they old not work.
Tiie' Atlantides did not drive sensitive
prisoners to Insanity and then discharge
them as Imbeciles with reason dethroned
for life. They did the exect opposite
cured them.- And this by means of one
of ..the, most - wonderful processes Within'
range 'of all mental things: they killed
the cells in the crime-area' of the brain,
leaving all others in health. Note this:
Human marriage was strictly base on
the laws of nature. Funerals were based
on common Dense not sickening, maudlin
ritual to ruin of mind, nor upon barbaric
"display at enormous cost, to ruin, mind
and body financially. For human harpy.
vampire, financial ghouls did not rob to
right and left over dead bodies in Atlantis.
I '. t- .
! Instead of boiling beet roots roaxt them
In tho oven. The flavor wHl.be much
Improved.
Gold embroidery may be cleaned when
it tarnishes - with a brush dipped ' in
burned and pulverized rock alum.
When washing saucepans be sure to
lay them In front of tho fire for five" or
ten minutes so that' they may dry thor
oughly Inside, and so -prevent deteriorat
ing through getting rusty.' "
After use, all' pudding.. cloths .and jelly
bags shoCld be washed liiAcry hot water,
and When they have been well rinsed
hung up to dry, where they arc exposed
to' a good draught. 1 ,'.
To .give a rich, creamy flavor to coffee,
take as much mustard as will lie on a
dime and the same quantity of salt, and
mix with the amount of dry. coffee ,.
lowed for every pint of coffee required. '
, A otouklng mending hint: Before darn
lug stockings, hold the cerd or skein of
wool ovor tho spout of a kettle full of
boiling water. The steam shrinks trie
wool, and when tho stockings' are again
washed tho mended portion will ' not
shrink and tear the other parts. '
To clean white or light colored feath
ers, dissolve two ounces of -hlte Curd
soap tn two pints of wsrm wsler, make
Into a lather, dip In the feathers and
souso up and down till clean.' '
To curl feathers, allow tliem' to become
almost dry, then shake before a-flie till
the .fronds curl.
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To keep the air of a room fresh and
Slightly perfume i, place a Jar hn.nnmn
inconspicuous place In the room and put
In the jar a small block of ammonia, over
which pour sjjnie ordinary cologne water.
This makes' a' faint plras'ant odor of
which one Ih' scarcely conscious.
To dye feslhers. place them In hot
water, then allow .to drajn. Then p'.sce
in the mixed dye. Shake out, dry and
curl as directed above.
. To clean nickel on store snd rsnses,
icke a 'woollen cloth, wipe the soot from
4h bottom of the tea kettle and with It
rub the nickel. If there Is grease or other
dltsV first rernove this ' with a damp
cloth rubbed well with sosp.
' In making buttonholes rub soap on the
material before cutting, button hole In
sergn or tweed. The . soap, holds , the
threads together snd prevents them from I
fraying during the making. j
To make ( red tiles a nice bright, clear!
color, rub, them well with a lemon dipped
In fine salt,' leave for a few minutes snd
then wssh Jn the tisusl wsy. . Thfs will '
rnrt.ft m .lain. '
j.
Q. Can you ' explain why It seems
easier to lift up a living body and carry
It some distance than to carry a small,
compact "dead" weight, such as iron
dumb-bells A person weighing 150 pounds
appears lighter than a pain of dumb-bells
Or sadirons, weighing fifty to acventy-flva
pounds. IJly , B. Fenlgsteln, Sparrow's
Nest, Mount Vernon.
A. Somebody several thousands of years
before Snv art of writtntr wui tnvpnterf
imagined this tiling, 'and told It to h1
next-door man. He told It and so all
along the ages ant centuries. Pure hallu
cination, along , with hundreds of others
now Injuring this modern scientific age.
If a persoji weighing 150 pounds appears
lighter than anything weighing fifty or
seventy-five pounds It Is simply because
a distorted inind of some weak jnan
Imagined it, maybe 100,(M years sgo.
Haine origin for sll current myths.
Q. (1) If a certain amount of alcohol
be added to a given quantity of water,
the volume of the liquid decreases.
CD If a spoonful of sugar be added to
a cup of tea, filled to tho brim, the tea
dues not. overflow. Charles T. Cawley,
308 East Seventieth Street. New York.
A All liquids are porous. Fill a box
with shot and there are spaces between.
A box. "full" of shot may also be filled
to the top with wator. The word liquid
In the question should have been plural
liquids. Mix one pint of water and one
pint of alcohol, but the mixture will not
measure two pints. Heme fact with sugar
and tea. But If the top of the cup I
absolutely dry the liquid may be piled
up above the surface of the cup's edge.
Molecules of liquids cohere to each other
with a certain specific force fur each
kind. But If a surface Is wetted by a
liquid, the molecules of the liquid adhere
to those of the solid with "greater tenac
ity than to tach other. And this Is the
explanation of some kind uf liquid
being heaped up allghtly above the thin
top of a cup or g.ass. Water will hold
large volumes of gas without increasing
tn bulk, as in the case of that clftsle
liquid, soda-pop and a certain noted liquid
humpagnc wine. Th entile series of
phenomena are based on spaces in be
tween molecule.
OUR ANTEDILUVIAN ANCESTORS!
CopyrlghhvlUlt. Intern'l News IServlre.
ocean-encircled lnd
which.' lie now in
hsbita! A erlou objec
tion to the theory
that the ancestor
of the dingoes were
domesticated dog
carried to Aus
tralia by early
settlers Is the fact
that it seems to be Impossible to tamo
them. They can bo kept and ieare.1 In
soologleal gardehs, snd st the homes of
animal fanciers, but they never show
sny sffee.tlon for 4 msster, and will bolt
on thn least provocation or temptation.
They will foregather, with ordinary dogs
and plaV rough and tumble with them in
the utmost good nature, but they are
vsry quarrelsome among themselves. ,It
la ssld that they never bsrk like a dog,
but are fond of ttomllng llkewolf. Yet
they look like dogs and not like wolves,
snd ' they like to te petted by luiinsn
hem. But they Show no' gratitude or
attachment. . r ' i
Tholr usual color la a dingy yellow-red.
but Sometimes they ate pure. black. They
are beautifully formed, and remarkable
for their Ttst running snd high Jumping,
ss well ss for their endurance. In sll of
which they greatly excel ordinary dogs.
They dlf burrows in the ground in whkh
th-y fear their young, but they take au-vantsjlr-
of cv and hollow . logs . for
this purpose- when they can find them.
In captivity they vlll eat anything Hist
Is offsred them, vep rice pudding and
cooked. fish. K what they like best is
mice snd birds. - Mr. Laldlsy. a British
naturalist, 1 who hss; raised dingoes and
concluded ,tht they can never be thor.
oughjy tamed, reports that he. ha seen
them .carrying bird so ,hard to catch ss
akylsrk. They stalk their pi :y' like
catsnd' can Jump ' severs! 'TeetKcJesr
from the ground with astonishing agil
ity. ' ' v ,-- " - -
"Mi"i I-(ldluy"reJects the thtorles which
moko trie dingo either the deroemtant, or
the'artcetor. of the domesticated dog, or
a - near relative , of the, wolf, his Idea
being that the dingo. Is a distant spec!.
Mr, l.aulley has a fema'o coyote which
has adowed "a litter of, six inso, pup
pi.' and they sre very fond of their
fosUr mother. . ' 1 ' .
How to Make
Friends
;
t jr Is Should Be Un
affected aud ' Prac
tice (he Golden Rule
By. ANN LISLE.
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m.
"That man is a fine runner!" -'
"He's got to be! That's Professor Skinclothes. He's writing a book on 'Wild Animals of
the Jurassic Period. It'll be a great work if he lives to complete it!" -
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Advice to Lovelorn
f j Brurctcs j-Aixrax ' r-rU
V'aaagrerlate.a Taeaahtfalae.
-Dear Mts Fnlrfss: , I have been keep
ing company with a young man for six
month. I wonted to go to a- place ef
amusement; to 1 asked him to lake me,
s I thought it would hot be nice for me
to go wild nny ine else. II said he had
a in' with a mm frUnd. .Ih you think
it fa: r-for him to go without taking me?
Whsn I ;o,nut with this young man 1
do not Want him to srend til money.
I o you think that this is the reaaun?
Perhaps after golhg with him for six
months he think I am too dead for him.
'1 .': .' , '...' E. F. K.
Perhaps you '' sre' too csrsful and
thoughtful of, (hi young roan's finances.
Often tKe girl who guards u man's In
terest IS not' tully -appreciated because
he Wiviits to, have more enjryment than
her rar(ul nature dema wise, titill it Is
pertectlyt possible thai th's man really
4iad! sn engagement and did not find It
advfcabld to go with you.' hr the same
token ,you ought to cultivate a few otlier
frleMsh'ps Silifhot permityourself - to
bec&mfe totally dependent on him.
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Here Us 'little letter from "A Lonely
Girl."' t think she voices the sorrow of
many - lonely gli l from aed to sea snd
from 'continent to continent. VI am
steadily, emf loyed In s' department store.
Business acquaintances seem to like me.
butftcr bsslhess hours my sblllty to
make friends seem to be lacking. This
makes roe1 fool ; blue. - In fact, It makes
me heroine so depressed that It causes
many tear., I have tried reading to
divert my, thought and to gain knowl
edge. But what 1 need Is the knowledge
to gain, happiness und friendship."
The ability to make friends c,ome In
twoways:'ss a nsttlral gift In the power,
of a ,flne. i-srn.f magnetic, personality that
make lto!f foil wneiever.lt may be, or
as the, result of 'honest effort to under
stsnd people and to be necessary to them.
Now , very.) often tjiei magnetic person
who sttraqts cosily has not enough power
to k hold; whilew on the, other 'hand the
fins, rare personality that would be wor.
thy, of tnip friendship ; I too shy and
modest to. project iuelf Upon tne atten
tion of, thpso,. with , a horn It chances to
Com Iff contact., .,,.',
AVJiat the. little lonely girls need Is the
warmth .of manner that will thaw the
h e of "getting acquainted." and, the loyal
flncsire and understanding that hold the
affection it luts attracted. i . r . -
"To have, a- frle nd.V said a sage., "you
must first be-one." f .. "'
Ard that Is 'the: rlmpie, ftrt ful as to
how to make, friends. It applies alike to
holding and, keeplpg. , , - - . , , ;-
The girl who,! anej by her business
seyualntsnces- probsbly meets them- an,
tho ground ai common Interests. ; Khe Is
not . thinking, of. hnrjetf snd the hnpres-.
slon ahs .is, making so much ssof the.
fac( that -theie are certain matters to be
discussed, srrBnaed and adjusted as well
ss aos.ilbln. She .meets people with a cor
dial spirit lea coldness or the fear of
seeming to later to them keeps her from
msking a favorable' 'Impression", and so
Interfere1 with her efficiency' ss a busl-
ness woman.. , . . i
, .But does rhe bring sny of this .same
warmth .or ' manner, alert Interest and
evident desire to ploase to her dally
human ' social, contracts? ' .
Many, glrls are straid of being thought
"pushing,"- or - forcing themselves where
they sre not wnnted that of making un
aeletune advances to people who do not
cave far thelrt.. Women have a, wsy of
dressing to give more of friendship than
they resolve. They measure it off In
scantt yard-j snd give an linrresalon of
being cslciilAtlng when they are only
hy- . . m
Bring waimth of manner to your social'
life, liltl? If tioly girls. Never be afraid
of saying kl-jj things, of offering a cor
dial handclasp, of expressing desire to
meet'sgsln the people who attract you.,-
Be simple aud natural In your manner.
Pori't giggle and (icee and try to create
an .Impression .c-r being something other
then you are. ,
Kveryone like Intelligent response. : "
Bverytne, i raves understanding. And
every personsllty lives en a little Uland
of loneliness and longs to be discovered.
Study the people you meet not coldly
and analytically, but with warm human
liking, with feeling that ,they are dis
tinctly worth while. Give theni to under,
stsnd thst you like them.. Tell them you
Want to know them. Wouldn't treatment
a cordial a this win your Interval? -
The golden rule for making friend te
a simple a thla: Treat people with the
same Interest and uuderstandlng that
you would like them to show you.
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