THE OMAltA MIM BEE : SUNDAY , JUNE 18 , 1893-TWENTY PAGES.
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WHAT GIRLS WOULD - 90WITH MONEY
How Artrcme * Are ( lnyed Upon Ilio Htiigo
Womiti Vcr ut I.niljr I'alilo of nti
Iilenl t'nlr Itlli "f ( loiilp nnil
rn liloiixniiit .
Garden party costumesnml oulinffout-
flt < 5 nt the present moment clulm the at
tention of vanity fair , while Ulo choux ,
Hlier xvlao known as the rosottc , lends
the fashion for the nonce. The bolt
which finishes the fashionable round
bodice If ) brought together under a chonx.
The" lace bertha Is caught up with It.
Sleeve trfmmlnirs are lininlicd with It
.and fostooiiHivro hold In place by it. Nor
is this all. It has broken out as a skirt
garniture for evening gowns. It Is varl -
oimly applied and is In a great , variety of
sizes. The smaller ones arc , however ,
newer and more fashionable than those of
larger dimensions. These small rosettes
that are used for timming are no
larger than a silver dollar. Especially
fitting and effective are these little
whirls of velvet , satin or silk when used
to fasten the festoon of a lace llounco.
They are by no means confined to gowns
but are used on all sorts of millinery.
They are particularly the vogue for fast
ening up the brims of the little hats that
are given a three cornered effect by the
up-banding of the brim in this eccentric
fashion. They alto form the note of'
color on the black bonnets that are worn
with the black costumes that are just
npw so much the mode. When they are
UPcd as the solo trimming of a dress
Bkirt they are arranged at the tpp of
the hem , qitbor singly or in clusters , erin
in BOino design at intervals on the skirt.
Says Polly Pry In the New York Re
corder : I asked an actress whom I know
whether thorn was as much "guying"
upon the Btatro as people supposed.
"Why , my dear Polly , " she replied
with'fervor , "if I undertook to tell you
how much there is you simply wouldn't
believe mo.
"It is awful. The only performances
that arc free from it are the first few
nights , when the actors and actrcsbcs
are too nervous and too busy 'fishing ' for
their lines' to take any liberties.
"But I dread it when the play settles
down for a run.
"For then the actors it is seldom the
actresses start in.
"If I have a solemn or intense scene ,
whore I have to face the footlights , and
the leading man or juvenile man faces
mo with his back to the audience , it is
his delight , six times out of ten , to look
cross-eyed , to twist his mouth like a
minstrel , to make irrelevant remarks
that only I can hear , and to try in ovo.ry
way to 'break mo up. '
"And why ho does it ? Heaven only
knows. It simply spoils the fccene , and
wo both stand the chance of being lined. "
1 was astounded to hear this and
said so.
"Yes , " she continued , "and I wish
you'd print what I tuy * too ,
"I try to bo conscientious , and such
things affect mo.
"Why , I recall one night in New- ; Or
leans , when 1 was leading woman with a
well known traveling1 company , that I
almost fainted.
"There was a scene in which my lover
was supposed to press a ring into my
Land , , and I was to hold it tightly
clasped until just before. the curtain ,
when I produced it and it proved a mur
Iw- der or something of that bort.
-
"Well , on this particular night , who :
the actor laid the ring in my hand and
closed my-fingcrs on it , ho gave mo witli
it a large , live beetle !
"Just Imagine my state of mind , t (
feel that thing crawling around in mj
list.
list."How
"How I got through with my im
portant scene I doat | know , but I did it
und then had hysterics when the cur
tain dropped. "
* An intorcstinc discussion Is going 01
in the columns of some newspapers eve
the use of the words "lady" am
"woman , " says the Chicago Herald
There Is no real difference as to th
occasions upon which each wordis * to b
used , but the Boston Journal notes i
frank acknowledgment upon the part o
Eome that they do not use the won
"woman" where their good seiibo toll
them that they should for fear that i
might give ollonso to the person to when
W it was directed "as not sufficiently pc
lito. " There are certainly no words 6' '
abused , "woman " " "
as , "lady" am
"female. " Among certain people th
UBO of the second of these terms i
like the wearing of line clothes o
jewelry. Originally belonging to a BII
Worior class , they insist on approprlntlii ]
it to themselves as proof that they ar
tlio equals of any other social body. Now
while all that may bo true enough , an
wliilo.clabH distinctions have no place i
this country , this use of the word has lo
to some strange and amusing confusion :
The humorous who depleted the borvaii
as addressing her mistress , "Mam , th
laundry lady la a-wantlng to upea
to the woman of the house , " dl
not have to depend upon his in
agination for his facts. As absur
things as that may bo heard in any or
of the largo dry goods stores In town an
day and almost any newspaper will yiol
n rich specimen or two. Bishop Warroi
referring to this same point , pays tin
ho glanced at the wall opposite'him i
the moment and saw a diploma from tl
" Female academy , " and the
turned to a bookcnt > o and road as tl :
tltlo of one of the volumes there , "Fi
inalo IlulincbS. " In the report of
eouthorn Woman's Christian Tempo
nnco union convention appears the fin
that "Mrs. Blank was chalrlady. "
Now the proper word in all this
"woman. " That is
always and uv <
rlcht. Than It thorn Is no nobler <
stronger word in the English languag
"Man" is a general word as well as
particular ono , and as such includi
both boxes , so that the term "chalrmai
Dignifies no bubservionco of one sex
the domination of the other , If ealh
upon to address a stranger , a woma
then the proper word IB "madam" ar
not "lady , this way" and "lady , tin
way , " as bo many ushers appear to thli
to bo the only solution to the problem
address , "l-omalo" is never to bois <
RB a synonym of "woman. " It is a tor
common to one-half of the animal ere
lion , and to apply it to a woman as tl
substantive of deslgni ' . 'on ' in an instil
"I ady" is applicable > a uvory well brc
Und educated woman , but it Is son )
thing that is reserved rather for sojl
usage , and has not the sturdy Btreng
nd nobility of "woman , "
Iloro Is a story of love and courtshl
told by Walter Besant in the Londi
Queen , There was a young lover wl
was a compound very rare of hi |
rank and great abilities , with swot
MOSS , great modesty and shyness. Me
noble lords know their own value , ai
behave accordingly , This uoblo lor
li9'iYoyor. was uwlest. J1Q thought hii
_ , very fnr below the worth
_ oung Indy whom ho loved Hint
TIG"was" afraid to speak. Sorao women
do not undorstnml this modesty. Bollovo
me , ladle * , 'tis rt sure nnd cortnln sign
of n noblu character , bccnusoonly n lofty
soul cnn conceive the oxlstcnco ol tv
goddess ; wo measure others , you see ,
by ourselves" . It is nlso n sure
sign of lovo. becnuso such n man
cnn only love n woman whom ho
deeply respects. Encourage this mod
esty , my daughters ; above all , do not
laugh at it. This young man , there
fore , was nfrn.il to speak , nnd the delay ,
which Is at first , I am told , pleasing und
exciting , bewail to grow monotonous.
Ono day ( hey were playing cards for
money , after the fashion of their gener
ation. The lady won ; the loser waid.
"It ls"lio , said , "half a crown. I wish ,
Indeed , it were a crown. "
"At least , " replied the lady , "your
lordship can give mo n coronet/ "
And behold n mlrnclol For his tongue
was loosened , and hia eyes glowed and
his lips Bpako. They lived happy , ono
may add , though it IH an unusual ending
to a story , over afterward. "
Here are a couple of stories of the
ways of English servant girls that put
tlio achievements of the American maid
quito Into the shade :
A lady who was supposed to bo in the
country appeared unexpectedly at her
town house one afternoon. There were
Bounds of revelry within and she hurried
to the drawing room to find her cook ar
rayed in her white satin wedding dross ,
dancing to the admiration of a choice as
sembly of butlers and maids.
Up near Oxford/durlng the absence of
her professional employer and his wife ,
the cook turned "several dishonest pen
nies by bcrvlng afternoon tea on the
grounds. As t-hu used the family brand
of tea , the old Dresden china nnd the
crested silver , her venture was a great
BUCCC83 until u friend of the family hap
pened by. .
Fnnliton Notes.
Colored linen dresses are most fash
ionably worn.
The binurf.bstr blouses are made en
tirely of chilTon.
Sun bonnets of lawn , dotted swlss and
pique are quite the fashion.
Scarcely has the panic created by the
crinoline subsided , than wo are threat
ened with panniers.
SUIT fronted linen shirts are once
again the favorites for wearing with se
vere tailor built suits.
When iu doubt , 'trim your slimmer bilk
gown with rows of narrow black or dark-
colored velvet ribbon.
Plateau hats are decorated with white
silk net loops Intertwined with brier
roses and forget-me-nots.
Muslin will bo much to the fore
this summer. Organdie , nnd other clear
muslins will bo special favorites.
Black laeo over white lace is very
delicate and beautiful in effect , especially
in the evening , with diamond ornaments.
The Princess May hat of fancy lace
straw or plaited rushes is trimmed with
ecru guipure lace , May roses , und
jeweled pini.
In accordion-plaited skirts a fashion
able novelty is to have lace insertion
laid on in live or seven rows before the
goods are plaited.
Guipure insertion in white and cream
tints is much used for trimming dark
blue as well as mauve crcpons and also
black silk fabrics of all sorts.
Bluets , hawthorn sin-ays , pink and
white morning glories , and black
hearted meadow-daisies of brilliant yel
low are fastened on low hats of open
work Neapolitan braid.
A stylish combination including this
feature is a blouse of sulphur suruh with
black luce insertion worn with a erepon ,
or surah skirt with u background figured
in a design the color of the blouse.
Pretty and becoming ecru lace braid
hats are piped uiider.iido with green or
brown velvet and trimmed with ecru
Spanish guipure lace , velvet loops , and
pink robes or pulo blue myosotls.
It appears that the number of women
who are strong minded enough to disre
gard the reputed ill luck attaching to
opals is on the incrca'-Cr for these stones
are fabt coining into fashion again.
We see line India muslins and tam
boured and embroidered organdies made
in elegant simplicity , with only solf-
trimmings and no laces , velvet ribbon
bows often being used upon the bodice.
A charming little fete gown Is delight
fully fresh and youthful , fashioned of
rose-colored organdie with bovon little
frills of muslin on the bkirt nnd a full
bodice draped with a deep bertha of
creamy luce.
The ecru guipure , which is of n golden
shade , is extremely good on summer
woolens , especially those in the very
popular beech browns. As the white
and ecru laces tire Ubed on black textiles ,
black laces uro used on white und light
Bill ITS.
Besides tbo plain , severe , straight-
brimmed pallor lint , matrons this sea
son wear the shape that in some millin
ery parlors is called the Tyrolean , and
in others the Princess of Wales lint ,
Those twolstylos they adopt for neatness
and comfort.
There are few fabrics that supersede
mohair and alpaca inthoir dust-resibtiiifj
nnd admirable wearing qualities. These
goods are now dyed in a great many ol
the now shades , and look particularl }
elTcctlvo in rose color shot with gray
> and reseda shading into palo goldoi
c russet.
1 The fronts of stockings nro dcslgnci
with exquisite lloral designs. Some tin
1 quite realistic. For instance , a spr'nj
of mimosa meandering up the foot am
, ankle of a black silk stocking has tin
1 mlnuto yellow llowors worked in cho
nlllo , and they look wonderfully liki
t nature.
I Very fine qualities of leghorn arc
3 lined'for elegant bummer round hats tha
i are crinkled and bent Into very odi
J shapes , and trimmed witli plaited pom
( Vesprit or chilVon frills , beautiful Vono
tlon laces , and snowy plumes run througl
with long gold plus headed with glitter
ing French brilliants.
Summer materials of every class , fron
the plainest to the richest , display bril
lianoy of coloring Some of the nowob
grenadines nave a sheer but not trail ! :
parent ground in unique and bcaulifu
combinations which glimmer througl
black or dark-lined meoliod with sin
gularly artlbtlo tiffect.
A natty little summer jacket , made t
wear with shirt waists und blouses , Is o
cream-white cloth closely fitted In th
back , and with an Eton front turnci
back with wide I'ovora that are trimmci
with live rows of the narrowest blael
velvet bobo ribbon. A girdle is made t
match , and the little garment is linoi
with white taffuta.
Ono of tho-nowcBt Id9ns for carryin ;
flowers for bridesmaids are the grco
wicker-work watering pots , filled will
lilies of the valley or any other blooi
suitable to the dresses. They have thl
advantage , that they are so placed tha
they aupear as if they wore growing
and the handles oi the watering pot
are tied with colored ribbons.
The urcakfast table may now bo fitte
out in dainllcbt wurniwcathor fushlo
with doylies of plaltcdgrass , their coc
greens , reds and russets giving a touo
Bummer brightness to the surroune
lags , Very elegant , but extremely bar
to procure , are the Jamaica luce bar
doylies with ferns ,
formed of small squares of bro
cade edged with buttcr-dolorcd lace ,
rank among the prettiest table furnish
ings of the Hcason.
Holland jackets and skirls nro ux-
trcmcly popular , but look rather' ' flat ,
especially when , as Is Usual , they are
trimmed with black sHtJ.H. Tho' ma
terial , though it passes by the name of
"Holland , " diffqrs considerably In sub
stance from the old-tlmo linen s > o called ,
since there is a wiry feeling suggestive
of wool in the fashionable material.
The Tyrolean Is compact and natty ,
and not unlike a modified English walkIng -
Ing hat , with dented crown nnd close-
rolled brim. A veil fastens over the
hat very nicely. It Is just the shape to
accompany a tailor costume , , and for
traveling most admirable , as likely to
keep In place through long journeys by
sea or land nnd not affected by stress of
weather.
Materials for the coming season are
lovely and are varied enough to offer
smart drct-sors a good choice. The pret
tiest are very palo hued cloths , woven
In flno twill and very light. These made
up with broad bands of delicate colored
mirror velvet round the hem , each bor
dered with a narrow Insertion of the
new thick make of lace and with the
bodice prettily finished with lace and
velvet , look quite dressy enough for any
occasion.
Notes.
Dr. Orplm D. Baldwin was unan
imously elected president of thollonuuo-
] ) athic Medical society of Multnomah
county , Oregon , at its last meeting.
Mrs. Henry Whitman designed the
largo and hnndbomo memorial window
which has been placed in the new Mount
Vcrnon church on Beacon street , Bos
ton.
ton.Mine.
Mine. Madeleine Ledairo and Mile.
Brcslan , who nro serving on a jury of
the union of the Champs do Mars , uro
the first women who have hold that
position In tiny salon.
Mrn. Alma Tadcma has a studio ad-
joinlnt * her husband's. Hers is mo-
dituval In character , with Delft china
and Dutch pictures. Tadoma's rooms
are luxuriously decorated in Roman
style.
The wealthy dame sometimes carries
a fan worth * . > 00 of pale amber tortoibo
shell , mounted with Venetian point lace
and spangled with diamonds , with , most
likely , a slender monogram on the out
side stick.
Tlio fact that the infanta smoked ti
cigarette while in New York will betaken
taken as a precedent by many foolish
women who are always on the lookout
to do something masculine and likely to
attract attention.
Two women doctors in Buffalo , Dr.
Lillian Randall and Dr. Mary Greene ,
have founded a hospital for the medical
und surgical treatment of women , that
they may take a moro prominent part in
operations than women physicians are
allowed to take in hospitals.
Miss Agnes Mary Clarke , an Irish
woman , at a meeting of the Royal insti
tute in London this spring , was awarded
a prize of 100 guineas for her works on
astronomy , "A Popular History of As
tronomy During the Nineteenth Cen
tury" and "The System of the Stars. "
Tlio women of Japan sleep upon neck
blocks , carefully hollowed put so that
the hair may remain undisturbed all
night. For hidios of high degree those
blocks are beautifully lacquered and
decorated. They generally have a little
drawer into which the superfluous orna
ments can bo put at night.
Even the English girl , isn't abpvo
making sacrifices for the sake of foreign
itles. Miss Florrlo Bryan lias forsaken
Christianity to become the wife of the
Maharajah of Patiala , in India. How
ank stale rank is after nil ; yet the
'anker ' in ago the rantankorouscr they're
nnkorin1 after it. Such is lifo and such
s human nature.
At the r.toliers or academics of M.
rulitm , in Paris , where men and women
invo separnto studios under the same
cachcrs , the women are obliged to pay
00 francs whore the men pay only 50
'runes. The women have no extra yrlvi-
ogcs or superior instruction. It is
simply a tax on the women , who are
simply subjected to a remnant of bar-
'
juric'discrimination.
An iconoclastic traveler comes nnd de
clares the Grecian woman is short ,
urond and stout , with dark hair and
eyes , and features not in the least like
Lho classical models women have been
triving to live up to through the ages.
Well , then , to please ourselves , we'll
continue striving to Hvo up to the same
old classical models and lot our icono
clast quarrel over the name all by him
self.
self.Hero Is n story about an absentminded -
minded woman which puts the talcs of
the abstraction of masculine gonuiscs
quite into the shade. Mrs. Gladstone
gave a dance , nnd the guests' wondered
as the evening wore on why there were
no men. This was mentioned to the
hostess by a member of the family.
"Oh , dear ! " oho exclaimed. "I quite
forgot to send out the men's invitations ;
they are all In that bag under the sofa. "
The "No. 9" Wheeler < & Wilson makes a
perfect stitch with nil kinds of thread on all
classes of materials. It Is always re.uly.
Sold by Oco , W. I-ancaster & Co. , f.U S.
IDth streo\ \ . _
FASIllOXHfiHl JHZ.V.
The best kind of a tlo to wear with n white
tuindowu collar is a nig , flowing Windsor
scurf tied In the graceful drooping bow knot.
It comports artistically und Reasonably and
Is tipt with iho warm weather ensemble.
Doth in tlio negllgeo and business shirts
tlio solid colors are in pronounced demand at
present. All tlio high-priced shopkeepers
are showing thesu goods in tholr windows.
It Is certainly the curly season fad in
negligee.
The wide. Windsor , utilized ns iho small
knotting with big , ( lowing cuds , will bo 11
much worn form of neckwear bv the expert-
tiers that can fold und tic , with well trained
daftness into some rare incblilugs the un
lined soft fabric.
"Tho turnover collar has a moderated shape
nnd continues as it should sulllciontlj
high In the back to warrant from tha roai
perspective that the wearer has ono on bj
showing above the collar of hU coat.
Never attempt to blend tlio outing and
general attlro. and only wear strictly outing
apparel in birfutly outing localities.
With an outing suit or mnko-uu , for in.
stance , a Derby hat would not bo exactly li :
accordance with the proper Idea -of cnscm
bio. ,
The man that allowa his outing trousers
to drag nt the hcol is to bo avoided as the
bibulous personage who roams the corridors
of the summer hotel in the summer mor.i
lie needs bracing.
Plain gold studs which are being worr
with tha sack drcssroat , and the black satii
or silk cravat also therewith , is ono of those
apt combinations the swells ; oftch hit upon
It takes the lounge formal coat , a deft re
move from the swallowtail enscmbio.
The whlto duck , the blufl Ilannel , tin
striped suitings in light grey mixtures will
lines of color somewhat Indotinubly tracci
and yet seen In the fa brio , : will bo the prevailing
vailing and becoming garb of thooutliu
season , with Us tennis , -yachting , lounging
racing and other lilvcrlUumcnta imrtakiui
of the gayety of summertime , '
Dusy peopio liavo no nine , and s ensile
people have no Inclination to use pills that
make thorn sick a day for every dose thu.\
take. Theyhuvo learned that tlio USD 01
Do Witt's Little Karly lltscrs does not in
tcrfero with their health by causing nausea
paiu or griping , These little pills are per
feet in action dad rc.iulte , rogulatlng tin
stomach and bowels sa that headaches , dU
zincssuiid latitude are proyentou. Thuj
cleanse tlio blood , clear the complexion uw :
ono un tha system. Lota of UoaltU ia thesj
CHARMS OF AMIABLE WOMEN
Sunny Llvetf That Mafeo Others Happy
Around Them ,
DESIRE OF SOME TO ATTRACT MEN
"llnb" Cltc Vnrlon * rrnctlcen In
Up Children Prncllcnl ixnmple > of
Tnble Ktlipietto , Drcna nnd tit *
KnuuUdce of Monny.
New YOIIK , Juno 12. [ Correspondence of
Tin : Bnu. ] It has'hnpppned to mo lately to
have been among quite a number of women ,
And I have thought of tlio great vnluo of
the pleasant woman. She Is the ono who is
never it : n row. She docs not walk nrouml
with a chip on her shoulder , Inviting who-
ovrr may como near her to knock it oft ; but
no matter what silo may think , she has a
smllo nnd n pleasant greeting for every ono.
AM It Isn't ' became she Is a fool , though I
have heard her called that ; It Is because she
thinks It much caster to rldo through llfo on
Easy street than to have to awkwardly trot
through Crooked lano. She Is usually the
recipient of the woes of all other women |
but her knowledge of llfo has taught her
that whllo she sympathizes with all to take
take sides With none. Tno young woman
who delights in saving that she has 'a tem
per of her own , shows a certain scorn for
her ; nnd that other young woman who Is
continually looking for enemies ami not
friends , considers her nn Idiot ; but after
they have both expressed these opinions ,
they end up by saying , "But she Is always
very pleasant. "
Men Hko her , for men nre wise enough to
like the comfortable side of lifo , and .she Is
so comfortable. She doesn't carry stories
nnd she Is always willing to do the nico-llttlb
thing. When I dlo I would rather have It on
my tombstone , "Sho Was n Pleasant
Woman" than "Sho Wns a Genius. " Not
that I think tticro is the slightest danger of
the hist being put there.
Women Who Try to Alt met Men.
Seeing women , there Is another typo that
I have been Interested in ; that Is the man-
woman. I don't moan the tailor-mado girl.
I mean the woman whoso solo object in llfo
Is to dress so as to attract the men ; is to devote -
vote herself to them und to get ns many
around her ns possible. She has a vague
idea that the bees seek the honey ; so they do.
But don't you know there are always two or
three bees who are going to find the sweetest
of all the honey nnd they know that isn't
what the mob runs after. She dresses to
please men and she poses to please men , and
she confounds the flying visit of the bee nnd
his silly buzzing with what would bo abso
lute devotion. She would lese her best
friend for the sake of getting the attention
of a man , and the consequence Is that wo
men don't like her ; nnd In time , curiously
enough , men don't. For men nro Invariably
ruled by women. And when each Individual
man hears of the mean things that she has
done to some woman who Is close to him , helots
lots less knowing boos fly nftcr that honey
which any may have for the asking. I
Nobody wants honey that Is public prop
erty. The only honey worth having is that
which it requires an effort to get , and which
belongs exclusively to one that Is , if ono is
a gentleman bee.
Another typo of woman that ono sees at
fairs is that peculiar und diplomatic ono who
does no work and takes all the glory. She
appears on the sccno with a great deal of
bustle , sets all her assistants to work , then
pees off to have n gossip with somebody
else ; and when the worlds nil llnlshcd ap
pears again , compliments the real workers ,
nnd takes a good attitude in which to re-
cciyo the approbation of the general public.
Being a bit lazy myself , I must confess 1
rather admire her diplomacy ; but , then , I
don't Hko her selfishness. . , . ,
How to Hrlng Up Children.
Women nnd children seem naturally to go
together , and lust here I want to say that I
have been reading n book that had a lot of
stuff in it about the way children take the
downward path and who shows it to them.
Judging from the precocious specimens hero
in New York , 1 think a crcat many of thorn
do not need any , leading , but. of course ,
fathers and mothers nro to blame for this.
Sooner than see u child of mine chasing
around , selling chances at n big fair , being
brazen and impudent , I would well I think
1 would preler to chloroform hor. Fond
mammas are having their offspring taupht
: o do the skirt dances , and to execute high
dcks for the bent-tit of their friends , and
the result Is about as bad-behaved , a lot of
young ones as you could wish to see any
l > laco. Ono sees girls of 10 years climbing
jpon men's laps , volunteering to kiss them
and doing their dance , starting in my mind ,
n wild deslro to do a dance on them with a
paddle. I don't think I should approve of a
spanking machine , but a good old fashioned
spanking is n medicine that is quite as de
sirable for children as castor oil. Both tend
to cool tlio TJlood and make llfo seem moro
practical.
Funnily all this dance nonsense seems to
bo limited to the girls. Now , this is very
bad. Tliko an' intelligent child ; I like n
child who Is Interested in the world and
what is going on , but I hate with a fiftecnth-
century , Borgia hatred what is known as
the smart child. lean fully sympatcizo with
the old gentleman who said ho didn't call it
smartness ho called It d d Impudence.
Of course , everybody's own little geese are
swans , but still I do wish mothers would
think just a little bit about what this bring
ing forward of a young girl child means.
Our women nro intelligent enough nnd yet
they prank up a baby of 10 in a silk frock
and a diamond ring , und have it make un ex
hibition of Itself , nnd then cry when ills
IT because it Is so free in Its manner. They
don't seem to bo ublo to trace out the cause
and effect.
Fnertilonablo Y <
I nm very much In earnest about this , and
I wish women would understand that among
the socallcd fashionable- people , children ,
while they lead happy lives , nevertheless
lead very simple ones , und that the child of
the millionaire will have ono or two Ilannel
suits for the entire summer , whllo the child
of the bookkeeper will bo gaudy and offen
sive in silks nnd laces.
A little girl who is very clpse to my heart
nas her dinner at 1 o'clock with the family ,
when they take luncheon , Some tlmo ago it
was decided that ns she was.0 years old it
was tlmo she learned , when the butler
handed her n dish , to help herself. She
was warned beforehand that , while
she could always huvo u second
helping , she must not put too much
on her plate , nnd that if she did , and loft it ,
she would have to cat it ut her half-past r
o'clock tea. Of course many tears Wcro
shed ; being very fond of chicken wings , she
would put three on her plate und then only
bo able to cat one ana a half. Not n word
was spoken , but the butler , nftcr removing
her plate , calmly lifted off it to another tlio
uneaten chicken , the vegetables or what
ever she had taken , and instead of being
nblo to liavu the delightful marmalade or
tno sweet preserves wita her tea she sat u [
In her nursery und had tlio remains of her
dinner with it , I heard a woman call tliit
eruol ; that woman was a fool. The chili !
was simply having an object lesson which
she soon mastered. She learned not to be
greedy , nnd lonjt before the seventh birth
day came around she could help herself with
the dignity of tho'tnistress ' of the house ,
In the Mlllloimlro'n lluinu.
Another course of treatment that this little
tlo lady undergoes is a system of lining. Her
income is " 5 cents a week , and when khu
goes out with her governess she may spend
it as she chooses. Jf it IB all gone in ono day
then she gets no. moro for tlio rest of the
week , and if , us children are so prone , she
starts to tell unyistory about the servants
5 cents is doductoit'and entered on the line
book under the luavd of gossip. Yet the man
ages to give evwybody a present on their
birthday , and stws has learned the value
the inestimable ono , of minding her own
businessfor bboRloefully tola ire not long ago
that she hadn't bad a "gossip" flno for eight
months. That Us the child , not of a
clerk's wife , but of a woman wortl
many millions herself , who proposes that
her daughter shalbknow the value of money
understand how urbehave herself , undnovoi
repeat liat does not concern her. Everybodj
likes the child , but by request of her mother
she is not talked to much , unlrss. iadccd , one
should bo an lutlrnalo friend , ami i > ay a spe
cii\l visit to the nursery to got a cup of ten
from tlio little hostess , who makes It very
well. Once she said with great onrncstncM.
Suppose my mother were taken III , nnd nil
the servants wore taken till , and I was the
only ono who was well , nnd everybody wnnte-d
a cup of tea , " This was an argument that
could not bo answered. Tim little girl Is by
no meann nn angel , and she Is not n child In
n story book , but she Is ono who Is being
educated properly , nnd who will make sorao
man a niarvclously good wife.
llnli n * rtojV Clmmptnn.i
X > tirboyst Will you tell mo the reason
why our boys nrd Inclined to bo more honor
able than our girl children ? A bov will do
almost anything rather than toll n no that Is
rolnjj to hurt anybody ; but our little girls ,
Lee many of them cnltnly nnd coolly lib , nnd
nobodvjsccms to think much of It. I don't
don't like nneol children ; I don't like chil
dren who never make nitstikcs , but I hate
mean children , nnd this girl or this boy , my
friend , will have the right to to turn to you
or to mo unit nsk , "Why did you make mo
what I am ? "
In the world ns It Is today , n mother makes
or unmakes her children , and If your boy or
your girl , my boy or my girl , become liars
and thieves , have menu , nasty ways , uro
greedy nnd gosilpy , who is to blame ? That
as a beautiful white booic of llfo when It
WHS plven to you. What have you let
your child wrlto on It ? It seems to mo
that that will bo.onc of the questions it will
bo dlflicult to answer. There Is no necessity
of talking now about hereditary traits. Cer
tainly your boy or your girl did not inherit
ylng nnd malice and greediness from you ,
and oven It ho bad , when ho was nothing but
n baby your great influence could have ex
terminated the vices that , even If they were
inherited , were not developed. I sometimes
wonder what mothers think they were in ido
for. I think that when that great gift of n
child comes to a woman , n something born of
icr own llcsh , and which had Us creation in
v perfect love. Mho should get down on her
< nccs and nsk ( Jed Almighty how she Is to
care for this great blessing , so that it will
not only bo tin honor to Him but a source of
oy to herself.
There Are Oooil Mothers , C-i <
) lenty of them , , and sometimes th6 prodigal
wanders nway from them , but ho always
comes back , realizing , nnd ho says It with
n laugh that is half mirthful mid half sad ,
: hat "n boy has no friend like his mother. "
like the prodigal ; ho has never seemed tone
no like a mean clmp. His fnults appear to
lave been those of great oxurberance ,
athor than of premeditated vice. But ,
uter all. while ono may have a tender feei
ng for the prodigal , it is the son or daughter
vjiose virtues nro oven and who remains
vlth us , who are our comforts. You can
make your child what you wish what is it
jolng to be ? Budlv behaved , Impudent , lor-
vurd nnd tiresome , or a pleasure to those
vho meet It , nnd a dclicht to yourself ? You
ought to make your child have a good time
vhilo it is young , but its good times need not
ntcrfero with its proper training.
Wo All Know Them , Sure.
Are you acquainted with the child who is
more than anxious to play on the piano for
our bcnotlt nnd exhibit its various accom-
ilishincnts ? Most of us are , to our sorrow.
Are you acquainted with the child who
mils at your clothes , who asks embarrassing
[ Ucstions and who wants to open your par.v
ol and try on your gloves ? Most of us are ,
o our sorrow.
Are you acquainted with the child who
comes to spend the day with you , and whoso
coining Is greeted with n sigh , while its dc-
jarturo Is welcomed with smiles ? Most of
us are , to our sorrow.
Are you acquainted with the child who is
icrmltted to make a noise , to scream at the
op of Its voice , to behave roughly aud to bo
a general nuisance ? Most of us are , to our
sorrow.
There is no use mincing the matter , when
sco these children 1 vnluoand revere Herod
and I think it is u pity no can't como back
and live hero a little while. But when I see
nu intelligent child , n well-mannered child , n
considerate child , I say : "There arc three
good things on the earth flowers , children
ind clogs , " Oh ! Idol on the honor ofBAD.
BAD.
Harry Marrlcdwcll Let's go to the opera ,
Ethel. Tneau long evenings uro awfully dull.
Ethel Oh , Harry , before wo were married *
you never wanted to so anywhere. Harry
Wouldn't afford to. *
'My mother stood in the way of my mar
riage , " she said sorrowfully , to her confi
dante. "Did she object to the young man ? "
asked the confidante. "No ; she married him
herself. "
"What was it that caused you to break
your engagement to Tom ? " "Oh , ono nlijht
ho began speaking seriously of getting mar
ried and I thought that was going a little bit
too far. "
It is said that the wedding in Paris re
cently of Edmund A. Benedict oPNcw York
and Miss .Icanetto Halford , daughter of
"Lige" Halford , was preceded by a singular
courtship. The young peopio mot in the
court room of- the Bering sea commission
and made love whllo Sir Charles Russell
und Mr. Carter wrangled over pelagic seal
ing and Hussiun ukases. Mr , nnd Mrs. Bene
dict nro spending their honowmoon in
Switzerland.
She And if I am married to you , you
must promise to give up smoking too , as
soon ns 1 become your wife. Ho Oh , yes ;
Plf willingly promise that.
lie I've simply got to got married to get
even with my friends. She Why ? Ho
Because all my friends have married and
I've spent a small fortune in sending them
presents.
The announcement Is made of the recent
marriage in n Missouri town of James Frost
nnd Anna Winter. It is seasonable to sug
gest that they will probably cxperieneo
some squally weather.
Lillian , ' the 15-year-old daughter of John
Jenncll of Hoanokc , Ya. , is us plucky as she
Is nrotty. Although still a school eld , she
fell in love with Prior Fitzgerald , n youth of
19. The two were soon betrothed , but , the
parents of both objected to their marriairo
till they became of ugo. An elopement was
planned. On the night of tl0 7th after the
family had retired the girl , at n signal from
her lover , leaped from the second-story win
dow of her house , Her lover und his brother
held n blanket to catch her , but she fell
short of it nnd was unable to rise to her feet.
The brothers carried her a mlle to a church
yard nnd summoned n doctor , who , upon
making nn examination | by lantern light ,
found her loft leg fractured. The girl was
removed to his otllco and the limb quickly
sot. She insisted upon going off with her
lover , and u carriage was obtained and the
couple drove to u minister und were mar
ried.
ried.From
From some of the English manufacturers
there has been secured an account of a part
of the trousseau of Princess May , placed
with nearly nil the larger houses in various
parts of the country BO as to please us wldo
n section as possible. From the silk works
at Spitulllolds comes u dinner dress , the
color ground of which is flour do pceho. The
damask Is composed of rosebuds , jasmine
and maidenhair , each bouquet connected
with u silver motiil tio. From Spitalllclds
como also the materials for nn evening costume -
tumo of palo bluo'und gold , The work of
the Winchester makers commands admira
tion for u simple homo dinner dress. The
color selected Is palo green , ornamented
with spots , stripes und daisies. A charmIng -
Ing morning robu , composed of thin summer
silk , bears testimony to the high standard of
the Leeds printed silks. Tlia ground of this
dress is myrtle green , whllo violets adorn
the design , which is of perfect worxmau-
ship. The golng-awny dress is to bo Irish
poplin of a particularly pretty shade of
l\or.y white , with relief of gold.
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