ffK- . I 'fit I 'J The Go'fnmonei? . l. a VOLUME 7,.ilUfoBER 35 in io . 1 1' M : I" ju . . j :&;, K I ' I J I, ii r if.. mi "(y - v. m m : vi '-' r h i - ,J1ST Ri i JW'ti' 13'V' ' 11 y J.' .N-. ) : f HI' . In . in.i,, Ifl - ,.! r ' -' ." 1 ' .'I.V. i?i i Derelict Alone on a sea of contending emo tions, ; Draw hither, drawn yon by. my thoughts and my fears, The victim of earnestness deep as the ocean .- The victim of duty that's brought naught but -tears. Adrift without helm of purpose to 1 guide mo, Knowing well I've fought bravely, and lighting have failed; Yet firm to fight on, whatever betide me, Knowing no man can say I ever '- have quailod. i Quiet I. carry myself, and serenely, l' A smile on my lips for those who if are gay, Yet feeling the pain, my God knows ' how keenly, '''." ' Of wounds that were- made with .. the purpose to slay. ...;.-. X.say of the world as Christ 'on the ' cross said, , , ' ' They! know not the work, their cruel hands do. i've trba' to' do right, my blodd's on ..my own head ' LTkhbw not the way to prove I ' ,,. was true. . if. B. W. in Woman's National Daily. of solf-respect and neatness. Dear mothers, think of these' things now, and save the child's pride. -The Children's Lunch Box Dici you v over think of it that "Our Own" In the ideal home, the flower of courtesy has its most perfect bloom; yet how seldom is this seen! In too many instances, the troatment accorded to those supposed to be nearest and dearest to us, bound to us by the ties of blood, is most bru tal, and- through the years when the children are growing up, the home is filled with langlings and discord, increasing with the years, until the members of the. family rush out into the world indifferent to each other, if not in open enmity. The "accident of birth" does not malm us all akin. Often we see mombers of one family who, seem ingly can not get along together, though having the happiest affilia tions with outsiders, their friendships lasting' through life. Yet the home was filled with bickerings, quarrel ings and strife in which, only too often, the parents were the leaders! The reason for this is not always clear to the superficial. observer, but a close student of human nature will tell you "There is a reason," and this spirit of strife is more often a falling than a fault the outcome of a difference of temperament and .heridi'tary bias for Which the con-, testants are not responsible. The family, beginning with the parents, are not temperamentally the child can eat it with comfort, and without, having to tear it apart with teeth or fingers, or swallow1 it in "chunks," in order to dispose of it. If one has tender lettuce, rad ishes, celery, or other salad veg etables, a little of each or either,' or a small pot of prepared salad is a welcome addition to the school lunch. I wish I could .impress it upon the miuds of the mothers how very im portant this master of school lunches is. - ' ; ' bo not make the mistake of placing- the housekeeping - before the home-making. All our much-quoted advisors and counsellors tell us that, first of all things, we should be wives and mothers, and the -trend of everything is toward eliminating the drudgery of housekeeping from the home. We are repeatedly warned that we "owe" things to our husbands and children; but I call not help the feeling that we owe a little to our selves, and the elder I get, the mure I am convinced that, as wives and mothers, we are not getting quite all the things that should ' be' coming to us. -.-,', children are merely undeveloped men aha women? A school child's ljfe congenial, and without a due regard can be made utterly miserable by jthe ridicujle, or sneers, or sly criti cisms, more or less open, which seem "to be the delight of some chil dren's hearts If they find out that thereby thjey" may cause another to feel uncomfortable. Many times it is done thoughtlessly, with no inten tion to .wound; in other cases it is tactlessness with still no idea of hurtlnKTbut that it does hurt, and most cruelly In some instances, "every pchooi" child -will attest. Only too SIten the Intention is just to hurt, pd to ihurt as deeply as possible, for .denyit as we may, the spirit of cruelty is one of the strong points of youth. Many, a child will go without the. noonday lunch rather than to carry a bunglesome paper parcel, a bat tered tin pall, an old basket, or an untidy paper box. Even though the 'receptacle may be all right, if the for the rights and iodsyncrasies of each Other, there can be no real com munity of sympathies. The various natures are so antagonistic that only through the exercise of strict justice and large tolerance can peace be maintained. Each must allow to the other the right of opinion claimed by him or herself, and a respect for the right of others must be cultivated. Many families can not, even by these means, bo united in a mutual good fellowship and sympathy, but they can be kept-free from discord, and a spirit of tolerance fostered, that will be of great benefit to each when the world divides them, -contents are "mussy," or "smeary," tr otherwise unsightly, poorly cooked )and jumped together, the sense of flharao" ajt its appearance will utterly spoil a sensitive child's appetite. .Children are often called "little ani mals," but there is something back of the animal; something which feels keenly either praise or blame.. Almost auy.mother can put up the (neces'sary food in a dainty appetizing shape, if she takes thought. And a clean, freshly ironed napkin to ac- ; company it need not be of expensive linen. If nothing else offers, a I squaro p.f flour sack, a bit of cheese- cloth, or even a piece of some old , garment, bleached white and neatly, uemmea, win answer every purpose. rTho whole parts of old sheeta. till. 'low-slips, or towels, if hemmed and; t clean, will serve admirably. But do have them dean and nicely folded. It is the little things of every day that count in thebrinsinff. un of tlm jjhUd. antL.thfi..ln.c.ulcating.4) .habits. The School Lunch In putting, up lunches for school children, remember that more than, the appetite is to be considered. A child's advancement in all lines1 is dependent on its health, and unless well nourished, it can not study, much less learn. Plain well cooked, neatly arranged foods should take; the place of the usual cakes, pies,( jellies and pickles with which thej unwise mother capers to her child's; annetite. to the ruin of its digestion.' An ill-nourished child is not always a pleasant one, and many a scolding, censure, or punishment is dealt out to the child which by all rights be longs to the parent. lA. healthy child will eat good foods' with a rellsh.i and good, well-baked brown bread, or white bread, made into -neat sand-i wiches, plain sweet- biscuit (called cookies by courtesy), and a little fruit i$ a good diet., Sandwiches, should not be spread with anything that "smears," and often a little. salad dressing, or prepared mustard, anreuu over me coating oi DUtter,, will "be heartily relished. MeatB, should- be well done, and yet not "cooked to death,", and instead of being put between the slices qf bread in stringy masses or slabs, it .shouloVbe. choppedor,-ground up so "Tilings to be Thought Of" The evenings are noticeably lengthening, and lamps are being brought 6ut in the homes where gas and electricity are not' ugd for Il luminating. Many' of" these' lamps have been set away in the . closets and out of the way places since the late spring, and will need a general "going over." Before filling, they should be thoroughly washed and polished and only the best of coal oil used in them. See that you have new, clean wicks, and some persons advocate washing thje wick in a warm, weak soapsuds, drying, then soaking in strong vinegar, then dry ing again in order to prevent smok ing. Whether this is really neces sary, I can not say, as few lamps, if the burner is kept clean, the wick changed as needed, and only -the( best of oil used, will ever smoke. A dirty lamp will smoke, no matter what one uses. It is advocated, too, to drop a little salt a half-teaspoon-ful to a quart of oilin the bowl of the lamp, in order to' insure a clear light. If your burner is old. or ill- shapen, it will be as well to buy a new one, but if the shape of the old one istgood, it should he boiled in a solution of soda sal so.da, Qr cooking soda will either onedo, and will remove the blackness, ,crust and gumminess. But if the burner- Ir1 bent out of- shape, or mashed, on broken, you can not have fa good1 light, no matter how clean .you. keep, it. Do not get, a cheap,, bargain counter burner. A serviceable one will cost ten to twenty cens, , but ii, ia vyuiiu it, i'ur uie saite. or your eyes, be particular about 'the . dual ity of your jight. Always use a! shade, and these cap be h&a in stiff paper for five cents, and are better than none, lasting quite a while, with good treatment. A metal one can be had' for ten cents, and this will last several seasons, Jt taken care of. The fancy shades can either be bought ready made, or the frames and paper korilk can benhad, and you can make them yourself. ' These will cost whatever you Choose toi give, from a few cents up into the dollars. But, -whatever you' do? have a shade of some kind, tty protect your eyes. For the Home Seamstress It will soon be time to think of keeping the little ones busy indoors on rainy or chilly days, and if one can command a little patience, and bestow a little time, this can be done by getting a doll outfit of paper pat terns, which can be had for ten cems. and setting the Httld lassies, and tho laddies as well, to fashioning tho doll's winter wardrobe. Little boys love dolls, and especially boy-doll's, or men-dolls, and they will take con siderable interest in getting them in to good clothes, if encouraged to do so. The dolls can be bought, ready made, or the patterns can be bought and the family manufactured at home. In the latter case, the family may be Iiooseveltian in number, ac cording to the patience of the seam stress and the desire of the little folks The expense, also, will not be burdensome. Patterns for the dolls, and for the size and designs of the garments can be had of the paper pattern department. For the school dress, a mohair, Panama, or serge, or mohair cheviot, is practical for the girl who has learned to "take care" but the one who is a little careless, it is best to stick to the "tub" materials. A shirt waici suit, with bishop sleeves full length, and plaited skirt finished with a deep hem, with which may be Worn a ' white linen collar and small ribbon bow, and ribbon belt to match, is a very neat costume. ftelts may be made of the heaviest white1 linen and embroidered in some oriental design in heavy cotton floss. Collars and cliffs may be made to match, The border edge of the sot may be of a cohor to match the skirt, cir the edges may "be made plain, and the design filled in wttli one or more colors. Maternity skirts can be banded at the waist with elastic run through the casings, and alterations made as desired. Many such gowns are made in one-piece costume. To lengthen the last year's school dress, cut off the hem, and insert between it and the skirt proper a width of plaid or other suitable ma terial, to make the desired extra length, and at the edges of the insert trim with a narrow, cord-like braid. Make cuffs, collar and belt of the trimming to match. Canned Goods Because of the scarcity in many parts of the country of both veget ables and fruits, canned goods will be used in many families vhich never used them , before, and care must be taken in buying them. JEx jamine carefully each can; if the can is, bulged at the sides or .ends, it ismore than probable that the seal ing is not perfect and that air has vgofcfin,- .causing Jtermentation, These flh.ould. be -rejected. If the sides or ends are sunken or pressed in, it is o?A guarantee that , the inside is all right. When the can is opened, the contents should at "Once be poured out;;; and under no circumstances should it be left in the can, even for a brief length o time. .Indeed, the can should be emptied some time be fore, .the contends ,are wanted fo.r use. Wjien opening sajmon, or. fish, let theoil drip off, and if liked hot, empjty.. the contents Into a., dish or double; boiler, and. set the dish con taining the fish iptQ,, another contain ing water, and it my be heated with out breaking to pieces. This plan may also be pursued in the matter of -vegetables, and- thus avoid the ,$ OLD AND WELL TRIED REMJ5l?Y Mas. WiNBixw'a SodTHiNd SYRUP foronu drcn, toothing should always ho used fr0,H; dren whUe. teothlnp. Jtsoftons the Kums.auojs till pain.c'ui-es -wlndcoltc'and IsthohostTomsoj for diarrhea. Twenty-five oonts ft botti. J iiB pi11' IS ' i .i ' ? i ,.. K - 1 I lit L'"- , -1 w. yrfa , ' imu WW wb fcWjBP. '; f&feM